Kubo bonke abantu, abafazi kunye namadoda, kwixesha elidlulileyo lezantya eziphakamileyo akukho zinto zilula, kodwa izinto ezinje zibalulekileyo: uthando, ukuqonda, ukuthandana, ukuthandana, ukunxibelelana, ekugqibeleni. Ukongezelela, ubudlelwane bomtshato buqhutyelwa kwiinqanaba eziliqela: okokuqala, luthando, uthando, xa kungenakwenzeka ukuzalisana. Emva koko-ukuyeka, ukulungiswa kobomi, ukuqonda ngeminqweno yabanye. Okulandelayo - umlutha, ukulahlekelwa ngumdla omnye komnye ... Yeka! Kule nqanaba lixesha lokuzisa ubudlelwane kumgangatho omtsha. Kwaye ukuba oko kungenziwanga ngexesha, ulonwabo lwentsapho lunokuthi "luqhekeke kwiindawo zokuhlala".
Abasetyhini bahlala benza iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo, bengakhange baqwalasele ngokufanelekileyo ulwalamano kunye nabayeni babo. Ukuba ufuna ukuthandwa nokufunwa ngaphambi komtshato wegolide, khumbula into engenakuyenza.
Okokuqala : emva komtshato awukwazi ukuphumla - indoda ayinakukuthanda ngengubo yambatho kunye neengxowa. Watshata nomfazi othakazelisayo noqhenkcezayo.
Okwesibini : ukwenzela ukuba ube nexesha elaneleyo, ntanda yakho, uyasasaza ngokufanelekileyo imisebenzi yasekhaya - awuzange umqeshe ukuba ajoyine umninindlu? Kwaye ukunyamezela kwakho okuphakade kunye "nentloko" ebhedeni, akunakwenzeka ukuba ahlole ngokufanelekileyo.
Okwesithathu : qwa lasele ukuzithemba kwakhe-ungayigxeki kuluntu, kaninzi uyancoma, kuboniswa ukuba amadoda ayabathanda kuphela.
Okwesine : ubudlelwane kwizinga elitsha alinakwenzeka ngaphandle kokuqonda kunye nentlonelo kwabanye, kunye nolwazi olunzulu. Ukuthetha, qulunqa izinto zokuzonwabisa ezidibeneyo, kunye kunye nokutyelela iindawo zoluntu, kodwa ngaphandle kobuqili! Yilowo nalowo makabe nekona lakho, elingakhange lilandelwe. Ingozi kunye nokuhlonipha imfuno - eziza kukunceda ukutshatisa ubudlelwane ngaphandle kwenkathazo ekhulileyo.
Okwesibini : ubudlelwane nomyeni wakhe kwinqanaba elitsha alinakwenzeka ngaphandle kokuvisisana nobomi bezesondo kunye nokwethembeka. Ngale nto kunzima ukuphikisana - ukungcatsha nokunganeliseki kwinqanaba elisondeleyo - indlela echanekileyo yokuqhawula umtshato. Ngoko, ukuzama ukuzisa ubudlelwane nomyeni wakhe kwinqanaba elitsha, ungalokothi uthabathe udlala ngothando, ungabi nantoni. Musa ukucinga ukuba xa bethetha ukuba indoda yam ayinandaba nam, ngoko ke uya kundibona ngale ndlela. Ewe, uya kuphawula, kodwa, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba aziphathe njengoko ukulindele. Eyona nto ibhetele, iya kugqitywa kwi-scandal, ngokugqithiseleyo-ukuxhaphazwa kwe-Othello.
Eyesithandathu : ukwabiwa kohlahlo lwabiwo-mali. Kuyinto enhle xa umyeni e-oligarch, kodwa "olo lonwabo" olunjalo luphuma ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngokuwina iLotter. Ngoko abaninzi bethu kufuneka baphile, njengoko bethetha ngeendlela. Yaye ukuba sizibuze ukuba siyayifuna ngokwenene isidada sesithathu sexesha, mhlawumbi simele simkhuthaze ukuba athenge intonga entsha yokuloba? Okugqithisileyo, ke, xa kungabikho izicathulo, okanye intonga yokuloba-ukutya akunakwaneleyo. Kodwa, masingathethi ngezinto ezibuhlungu.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, okubaluleke kakhulu - thanda umyeni wakho, kuba sele ukhethile kuye!