Amasebe ophando ahlolisayo iingxaki zokugembula kunye nemiphumo ebantwini baye baqukumbela ukuba ngokugqithiseleyo banomdla wokugembula abo bantu bafuna ngokukhawuleza kwaye kulula ukuphucula imeko yabo yemali. Kodwa le ngcamango ayikwabelwanga ngabo bonke, kuba baninzi abantu phakathi kwabadlali abaphelile. Ngoko ke, ezininzi iingcali azibandakanyi nembono yokuba isizathu esiyinhloko ngumnqweno wokuphucula imeko yabo yezemali.
Kukho abantu abangenamdla ngokupheleleyo kumngcakazo, kwaye abanye bavakalelwa kakhulu. Udidi lwesibini lwabantu abanesistim esingenalululwazi kwaye baba ngamaxhoba okugembula. Abantu abanjalo banemvakalelo enjalo, enokulingana ngokukhawuleza kwintliziyo enamandla. Ngako-ke, ukuya kutshatyalaliswa, ingxaki yokugembula ibeka kwizinga elinye kunye neengxaki zehlabathi ezifana nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi, ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi kunye notywala.
Uphando lwangoku kwimeko yokugembula luneziphumo ezivumela ukuba sigwebe ngezizathu zokufuna ukugembula okunjalo. Iingcali ezifanelekileyo kule nkalo zibika ukuba ngexesha lokudlala ngcakazo, ingqondo ebizwa ngokuthi i-hormone ye-hormones (endorphins) ihlanganiswa kwigazi lomntu. Yiyo i-endorphins eyenza umdlali alisoloko enandipha inkqubo yomdlalo, kwaye umphumo womdlalo kubantu abanjalo abaxhomekeke kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngoko ke, nangona kuphumelele kunene, abadlali abadlali abanako ukuyeka.
Iingcali kwiinkalo zengqondo zengqondo zahlula amanqanaba amaninzi okuphuhliswa kwalo xhomekeke. Kwinqanaba lokuqala, umntu udlala kuphela kwinqwenela, ngelixa enethemba lokuphumelela. Emva kokulahlekelwa ngumlinganiselo othile wemali, umdlali uqhubeka edlala, enethemba lokubuyisela emuva imali elahlekileyo. Kwimigangatho elandelayo yokugembula, abantu baxininiswa kakhulu xa bekulindele ukuphumelela okukhulu kwaye kuya kuba nzima ukuyeka umnqweno wokudlala. Iingcali zenzululwazi zifumanisa nzima ukuphendula umbuzo xa umntu sele exhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kumdlalo. Mhlawumbi, ngoko xa umgijimla ngokuzimeleyo kwiingxelo kunye nezifiso zabahlobo, izalamane kunye nezihlobo ziya kwikasino okanye kwiqela lezemidlalo. Kwixesha elizayo, ngokulahleka okuqhubekayo, umdlali uyabacaphukisa kwaye unobundlobongela, uhlaselo lweentsapho luqala, iingxaki zivela emsebenzini. Kwaye ngenxa yoko, ukulahlekelwa yintsapho kunye nomsebenzi.
Into ebangel 'umdla kwimeko yangoku kukuba abantu abaxhomekeke kuleyo nto bayayiqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba kuphela abanetyala le ngxaki baze bacele njalo bacele ukuba baxolelwe kwaye bathembisa ukuba abayi kuphinda baphinde badlale, kodwa oku kube kuphela bebona i-casino okanye umdlalo we midlalo.
Ekugqibeleni, ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi osondeleyo kunye nokuthembisa umsebenzi kubangela ukuba umntu angene ekudakaleni okukhulu nakwiingcamango zokuzibulala okanye ukuthunyelwa kolwaphulo-mthetho.
Kuyamangalisa ukuba abantwana kunye nabantwana abaselula bayagula ngakumbi kwesi sifo.
Uya kuphelisa njani ukuxhomekeka komntu okunjalo?
Ukuze ulahlekise esi sifo udinga ukukhuthazwa kweemvakalelo ezinamandla, eziza kuba zikhulu kunomdlalo. Njengomzekelo, unako ukunikezela ukuxhuma ngeparachute, ukuxhuma ukusuka kwinqaba, ukushushuluza, ukukhwela okanye ukunyuka kweentaba. Ukuba akukho zihlandlo zakhe ezithandekayo, ngoko-ke ingxoxo yokusebenza kwengqondo iyimfuneko.