Ibali lobomi be heroine, ogama lakhe labizwa ngokuba sisifo, lusizi kakhulu. U-Adel Hugo, intombi yomlobi odumile waseFransi, wafumana uthando olungenakunqwenela kwigosa laseBrithani uAlbert Pinson. Abahlalutyi babonakalisa u-Adele njengowesifazane okhaliphile kunye neetalente, onokukwazi ukuba nekamva eliqaqambileyo, ngenxa yokuba wayefumana ilifa elivela kubawo kuphela igama, kodwa kunye neetalente. Ngelishwa, uchitha onke amandla akhe ekushushiseni umthandi wakhe. Njengomsebenzi wePolonon wadluliselwa eCanada, ngoko waya eNdiya, kwaye yonke indawo u-Adele wayethanda naye. Nangona kwakungekho luthando, kodwa lugqithisa kakhulu.
U-Adele wayengatshatanga, wayengenayo intsapho, wagqiba ubomi bakhe kwindawo yokukhusela yengqondo engama-85 ubudala. Kodwa kubonakala ukuba empeleni ubomi behlwempu u-Adele buphelile nangaphambili xa wayeneminyaka engamashumi amathathu waza waya eKhanada ekude, elandela i-Pinson. Wabhalela uAlbert, wathiwa ngumkakhe. Ngezenzo zakhe, u-Adele uphazamise intsebenziswano yakhe nentombi yombingeleli. Ekugqibeleni, ukuba wayichitha yonke imali, wayekhokelela ekuhluphekeni kwisiqithi saseBorneo, apho uPydonon wakhonza khona, de wafunyanwa waza wabuyela eFransi.
Iimpawu
I-Syndrome i-Adeli iyahlula ukusuka ekuthandweni okungaqhelekanga. Xa umntu engabonakali ngokunyanisekileyo kumntu okhethiweyo, kwaye iimvakalelo ziqala ukukhokela ubomi bakhe bonke, oku sele kusisithuba sokumemeza i-alamu. Ukuba ilizwe liqalisiwe, ngoko kusenakukwazi ukushiya ngokuzimela.
Amaxhoba e-Adélie syndrome amaninzi ngabafazi. Ubudala, ukubonakala okanye imeko yezenhlalakahle akubalulekanga. Kuyimpazamo ukucinga ukuba abafazi abathandabuzekiyo banamathele kwiimvakalelo ezingekho phantsi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ixhoba lale syndrome lithandana nomntu ongaziwa naye njengesibini kunye nabangaze bakwazi ukwenza ubuhlobo nabani na. Iingcali zengqondo zibiza ukuba abazithandayo abangenakuzonwabisa kwaye abafuni ubuhlobo bokwenene obuya kubhubhisa ngokukhawuleza.
Ixhoba lika-Adelie's syndrome liyakwazi ukuchongwa ngamanyathelo ahlazileyo awenzayo egameni luthando olungenalo. Kodwa ngelixa yonke into iqala nje, i-Adelie's syndrome iguqulwe ngokuqhelekileyo njengesiqhelo. Isibonakaliso sokuqala sokuphazamiseka kwengqondo - zonke iingcamango zijikeleze kuphela abantu. Umntu akanakucinga okanye akhulume nantoni na into ngaphandle kwekhanuko. Ngenxa yoko, abahlobo balala ngokukhawuleza ebomini bakhe, kwaye ukungabikho kokuthintana naye kwandisa kuphela urhulumente.
Abantu abane-Adela's syndrome bavame ukuguqula imizwa yabo ekudakaleni okukhulu, kuvuyo olukhulu. Qalisa iingxaki ngokulala, ungadli ukutya. Ixhoba lixhomekeke ekubeni ungeke ukwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, ayinakuhlangabezana nemisebenzi yenkonzo. Iyanqumla ngokupheleleyo kwihlabathi langaphandle, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo yonke into edibene nomthandayo iyabaluleke kakhulu. Iinkcukacha ezahlukileyo ezifana neepastadi, iifoto ezingenanto zigcinwe ngokucophelela kwaye zigcinwe, njengophawu lothando.
Unyango
Isifo sika-Adele sixhomekeke kuye, kwaye sisenza kumntu kunye notywala, i-nicotin okanye i-narcotic kwaye ikhokelela kwisiphumo esifanayo. Kodwa ukuba umntu ubonisa amandla kunye nesifiso, unokuzimela ngokwakhe kunye nabathandekayo bakhe ekuhluphekeni.
Ngoko, ekubeni imbangela ebalulekileyo yezifo zonke kukugqithisileyo ngomntu oyedwa, kulandelelana kuyo ukuba ibonakaliswe, nangona kunjalo kunzima. UBraw wayeqinisekile ukuba sihlupheke ngenxa yokuba sinelungelo elaneleyo lokucamngca ngendlela esibi ngayo. Ngoko ke, ufanele uququzelele ubomi bakho ngendlela enokuba nexesha elincinci likhululekile. Fumana i-hobby, qala ukufunda into entsha, njengeelwimi, uye kwiiklasi zokukhwela. Into ephambili kukuba umsebenzi wakho uphila ngokutsha kwaye ufuna ukubuyela ngokugcwele.
Ukukrazula iingcamango ezigqithisileyo, gxotha iinkumbulo. Ukukhupha ngokukhawuleza yonke into edibene nento yokukhanga: iileta, imiyalezo kwifowuni, kwiifoto, ngeposi. Zama ukuphepha indawo ohlala kuyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu omthandayo ongathandabuzekiyo ubonakala efanelekileyo, engenazo iziphoso, kodwa oku akukho konke. Zama ukukhumbula ngeempazamo zakhe, mhlawumbi, eli lixesha elilodwa xa luncedo ukukhumbula i-allobeds kunye neengxabano. Ekugqibeleni, zama ukuzingca, ucinge ukuba ubuhlobo bakho bunenzuzo kangakanani, kwaye ngubani owenene ekuphumeni kwabo.