Kubonakala.
Umntwana ngumntu apho umntwana uya kuthatha umzekelo, kunye nabazali bakhe nabanye abantu abadala abamngqongileyo. Kwintsapho elungileyo ayisoze athathe intombazana enxibe i-vulgarly, eyenziwe ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye ineempawu ezimbi.
Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba uhambe nodliwano-ndlebe, cinga nge-wardrobe yakho, ukwakheka kunye neenwele. Iingubo ezinqabileyo ayiyona nto ingcono kakhulu kumntwana, kuba ibopha ukunyakaza kwaye ayifanelanga umntu oza kusebenza nabantwana. Nika okukhethekileyo kwisambatho esifanelekileyo-ubude ukuya emadolweni ngaphandle koxinzelelo obunzulu okanye ijee eziqhelekileyo, iingubo zeklasi kunye ne sweti ekhululekile. Khetha izambatho ezinokuthi zithanjwe izibhinqa kwaye ziphazamise, kuba ukuba umntwana uncinci, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kulukhupha emlonyeni wakhe.
Ukwakhiwa kwamkelekile, kodwa akufanele kubonakale. Ubuninzi bemvelo yinto oyifunayo. Ukuzichukumisa okwenkwenkwezi kakhulu akukwazi nje ukungafani nabazali, kodwa nokwesaba umntwana. Izinwele zifanele zikhululeke, kungcono ukuba iinwele ziqokelelwe emsila, inqwaba okanye ziboshwe kwi-pigtail. Ngoko uya kuba ukhululekile, kwaye umntwana akayi kukwazi ukunamathela kwiingqungquthela.
Imilinganiselo.
Wonke umntu entloko yakhe unomfanekiso wakhe we-nanny efanelekileyo. Ukuba ucinga malunga nendlela yokuba ngumntwana, obadala kunye nabantwana abakuthandayo, sebenzisa imilinganiselo yakho. Unomntwana omhle - ngokukhawuleza, onobubele, onobubele. Abantwana bafanele babone kwi-nanny yabo kuphela nje ngootitshala oqinileyo, kodwa kunye nomhlobo onomusa onokuthenjwa. Ngoko musa ukuncwina, ungazami ukubukeka njengeziNgesi ezizidlayo. Smile, qalisa iingxoxo ezithakazelisayo, ubuze imibuzo.
Abazali bafuna ukubona kumanesi inkxaso nenkxaso ethembekileyo. Ngako oko, akunakwenzeka ukuba ungabonakali. Kumele ubonise ukuzimisela kwakho ukuthatha uxanduva lomntwana, ugcine izithethe kunye nezindlela zokukhulisa ezithatyathwe kwintsapho. Kubalulekile ukuba kukho ubudlelwane obuhle phakathi kwabazali kunye nabazali , ngaphandle koko intsebenziswano ayiyi kusebenza.
Ubudala.
Kukhona umbuzo malunga nendlela yokuba ngumntwana, kukho iimpendulo ezininzi, ngoko uthe, xa intombazana ingaba kuye, kunzima kakhulu. Amantombazana amancinci aya kuba nzima ukulawula njengokuncinci, kunye nabantwana abakhulu. Iintsana zingcono ziphathiswe ngabafundi abanamava abanamava kunye nemfundo ekhethekileyo, ngoko musa ukugxotha ubuchule bakho, uvumelane nokunyamekela umntwana. Ukuba kukho abantwana abaselula abaselula kunoko nje kwiminyaka emibini, kuyafaneleka ukuphawula umsebenzi onjalo, kuba awuyi kuba negunya labo, oko kuthetha ukuba abayikuphulaphula.
I-Optimum iyabonwa, ukuba intombazana eneminyaka engama-20 ibheka abantwana ukususela kwiminyaka emithathu ukuya kweyeshumi elinambini. Abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu okanye ngaphezulu kuneminyaka elishumi elinesibini banokukwazi ukuguqulwa ngamannies anamava.
ITaboo.
Kukho izinto ukuba umfana angafanele akwenze. Umzekelo, ukumemeza kumntwana, ukumgxeka okanye ukumgweba ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ukuba umntwana unetyala, abazali mabaxelelwe - kuphela banelungelo lokukhetha isigwebo somntwana wabo. Ukuba uvumelekile ukuwa, unakho inkundla yokuphathwa kakubi kwabantwana.
Awukwazi ukubeka imbono yomntwana wakho kwizinto xa ephikisana noko afundiswayo kwintsapho. Musa ukubuza kakhulu ngobomi bomntwana bakhe bomzali bakhe, ukuxubusha kwizinto, bathethe umntwana kumanqanaba. Izinto ezinje ziya kuthiwa ziza kuthiwa ziza kudala, kwaye uza kulahlwa ngumsebenzi kunye nedumela.
Abantu abaninzi bayazi indlela yokuba ngumntwana. Ukuba awufuni ukuhluleka, phatha umntwana owathembele kuye ngobubele kunye nawo wonke uxanduva. Gcina ngokupheleleyo iimfuno zabazali malunga nokukhuliselwa kwakhe kunye nezinye izinto, musa ukuphikisana kwaye musa ukunyaniseka, kuba nobungane kwaye unganiki isizathu sokungabaza kuwe. Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi lo msebenzi uza kuba ngumsebenzi wakho.