Makhe siqwalasele ngokubanzi iinkcukacha zemfundo yasekhaya, ii-pluses kunye neendluni zeli qa. Njengomthetho, utshintsho kwimfundo yasekhaya luya kufuna ukukhangela isikolo apho kukho uhlobo lwezemfundo. Uya kufuneka ubhalise umntwana kwisikolo esinjalo. Ootitshala besi sikolo baya kuba nako ukuncedisa ngeencwadi zezifundo kunye nezinto zokusebenza. Kule sikolo ukuba umntwana wakho uya kufaka isiqinisekiso sokumthuthela kwibakala elilandelayo, kunye nokuthatha zonke iimviwo eziphosakeleyo.
Kakade, njengawo nayiphi na inkqubo, le nto inezinzuzo kunye neqhinga layo.
Izinzuzo
Ewe, ngemfundo yasekhaya, yonke ingqalelo ihlawulwa kuphela kumntwana wakho. Uya kuba, njengokuba kunjalo, kuphela umfundi esiklasini. Kwaye oku akunakho kodwa kukhokelela kwimiphumo emihle, ngenxa yokuba unokulawula ngokucophelela ukulungiswa komntwana kunoma yimuphi umxholo, unokuzibona ngokukhawuleza izikhelo zolwazi, unokuchazela izinto ezingaqondi kakuhle njengoko ufuna.
Ukongezelela, abazali ngokuqhelekileyo ngabantu bodwa abazi kakuhle umntwana. Kuya kuba lula ngabo ukwenza inkqubo yokufunda iphumelele. Ingakumbi kuba banomdla kulo.
Ukuba ungumntu ofundiswe ngokwaneleyo, kwizinga lokuqala lemfundo uza kuba nolwazi olwaneleyo. Kwixesha elizayo, awukwazi nje ukufundisa umntwana ngokwakho, kodwa umema kwakhona ootitshala abayimfuneko.
Uya kuba nako ukukhokela nokuphuhlisa umntwana wakho ngqo kwicala ocinga ukuba lilungele kuye. Awudingi ukugxila kwikharityhulam yekharityhulam kuphela - unako ukuzisa ikharityhulam ezo zihloko ozibona ziyimfuneko.
Ekufundeni esikolweni, umntwana akayi kunyanzelwa ukuba azalise imithetho ethile ebanzi ebophezelayo wonke umntu ukuba ngaba kuye kuyabuhlungu kwaye kuyamkeleka (okwenyani, kuphela ngemithetho yentlangano kwinkqubo yokufunda, imigaqo yokuziphatha okanye imilinganiselo yokuziphatha neyokuziphatha iyintloko yesinye intetho ).
Ungakwazi ukulawula lula umthwalo wokuqeqeshwa kunye nombuso womntwana wakho. Inkqubo yemfundo iya kulungiswa ukuze kungabikho mpe mbelelo emntwaneni wakho. Abantwana abafundela ekhaya banamathuba amaninzi okuphumla okuqhelekileyo. Umntwana wakho akayi kuvuka okanye ahlalutye kwishedyuli yesikolo esikwizinga eliqhelekileyo.
Umntwana uya kuba nako ukukhulisa amandla akhe okudala, kuba akayi kufuneka ukuba akhethe izisombululo zeethemplate kunye nezindlela eziqhelekileyo. Kwaye yena, umzekelo, akayi kuphazamisa izifundo zakhe zokudala kuphela ngenxa yokuba insimbi yabala bonke. Yaye ukuba uzama ukuqonda ezinye zeziphumo zakhe zokudala, iingcamango okanye izicwangciso, uya kuba nexesha elaneleyo loku.
Umntwana wakho uya kukhuselwa kwisidingo sokungena kwimpikiswano kunye noontanga xa ufunda. Imikhwa yakhe neempawu aziyi kuba yimbangela yokuhleka nokunyanzelwa kwabanye abantwana.
Ukufunda esikolweni kuya kwenza ukuba intsapho yakho ibumbane ngakumbi. Imisebenzi ehlangeneyo, inxaxheba ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kuya kunceda ukuphepha (okanye ukunciphisa kakhulu) iimpikiswano ezivela ngexesha lokukhula komntwana kunye nabazali.
Iingxaki
Ukufunda esikolweni umntwana wakho uya kukufuna ixesha elininzi kunye nomzamo. Emva kwakho konke, awuyi kuyenza kuphela uqeqesho lokoqobo, kuya kufuneka ufumane iincwadi zezifundo, ufunde, ucinge ngemisebenzi eyongezelelweyo nemisebenzi. Njengomthetho, ukufunda esikolweni kudinga umthwalo opheleleyo omnye wabazali ngale nkqubo, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwenye into.
Akunakwenzeka ukuba ube nolwazi olufanelekileyo kuzo zonke iindawo nakuzo zonke izifundo umntwana wakho kufuneka azifunde. Kungenzeka ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukudlula isatifikethi (okanye udlulise iimviwo), ngenxa yokuba ungenalo ulwazi olwaneleyo lwemfundo esemgangathweni.
Ukongezelela, nokuba ngaba unayo yonke imfuneko ebalulekileyo kumntwana, kunokuvela ukuba awukho utitshala olungileyo. Ukuba kukho ingxaki - umzekelo, ubunzima bokuqonda isihloko - ungadinga izakhono ezikhethekileyo kunye neendlela zokudlulisela ulwazi kumntwana olufanelekileyo okanye uphumelele kumava afanelekileyo.
Abaninzi bacinga ukuba ukufunda ekhaya kuncinci kunesikolo. Oku akunjalo ngokupheleleyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kusinda amaninzi amankunkuma aya kufuneka xa ufundisa umntwana esikolweni. Kodwa, ukuba ufuna ukunika unyana okanye intombi yakho ulwazi olulinganiselayo, kufuneka uninzi lwezinto zokwenza izinto. Yaye iindleko zabo zingafikelela kwisixa esilingana nokuqeqeshwa kwamaxabiso emazweni aseYurophu.
Enye yezihlandlo ezinzima kakhulu zonxibelelwano. Umntwana akafunanga nje naluphina unxibelelwano, kufuneka afunde ukusebenzisana noontanga. Ukubunjwa kwezakhono zentlalo yincenye ebalulekileyo yenkqubo yokufunda. Ingaba umntwana uya kuba nokwenene nabahlobo bokwenene ukuba isangqa soxhulumaniso lwakhe sinqamle? Ngaba unokuhlawula ngendlela ethile ngenxa yokungabi nabantwana kufuphi nomntwana wakho, ukungabikho kwemisebenzi yabantwana abadibeneyo, imidlalo, iiholide, iingxoxo, njl. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunakho ukwesaba ukuba isangqa soqhagamshelwano lwakho lukhulu kwaye luquka iintsapho ezinezingane ezifanelekileyo. Kwakhona, njengendlela yokukhetha, ungathumela umntwana wakho kumaziko angabantwana besikolo - ngokomzekelo, amaqela ahlukeneyo kunye namacandelo, iinkampu zabantwana (ihlobo lokuzonwabisa, iimidlalo), izikolo zesikolo, njl njl.
Kwaye uza kuyenza ingqalelo ngokunyanisekileyo kumntwana into ekunyamekeleni, xa esesebenxibelelwano nalabo baye bafunda kwinkqubo yesikolo esikwaziyo. Kufuneka wenze isigqibo kuwe, imfundo yasekhaya kunye neenzuzo zalo mcimbi - ukhetho lwakho kwintsapho okanye cha. Kukho nawuphi na, unembopheleleko yomntwana wakho. Uyakhela indlela kunye nokuba kuphi na ulwazi kunye namava.