Unomfazi othembekileyo, uyazi indlela yokubeka iinjongo nokuzifezekisa, ihlabathi lijikeleze kwaye yonke into ezama ukuhlangabezana nayo imigangatho ephakamileyo. Nguyena ophumeleleyo. Bonke abasetyhini baphupha ukuba nesimo esinjalo, kodwa kufikelela kuphela kuthi bethu abanengqondo ekhethekileyo. Luhlobo luni lweengqondo ezithandayo, kwaye unokufunda indlela yokuphumelela, ukuba awuboni loo mivuzo ngaphambi?
Wonke umntu uyaqaphela ukuba iingqondo zeentlobo zeentlobo zeentlobo zabasetyhini zihluke kumadoda. Kwaye ukukwazi ukuphumelela ukusuka kwinqanaba leembono zengqondo likwahlulwa ngokwemiqathango yesini. Amadoda agxininise ngokupheleleyo kwisiphumo, kunye nabasetyhini - kwinkqubo yokufezekisa. Ngoko ke iindlela ezahlukeneyo zesicwangciso kunye neendlela zokuphumelela. Ngako oko, kunengqiqo ukuqwalasela ukunqoba kwabafazi ngaphandle kwendoda, kwaye indlela yendlela yokuphumelela ihluke kwindlela yomqhubi womqhubi. Ziziphi iimfuneko ezifunekayo zokuphumeza umfazi?
Kholelwa kuwe
Ixesha eliqhelekileyo, kungekhona ukulwa ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka kuphela kwimeko yokuba loo mfazi unokholo olunzulu kuye ngokwakhe kunye nobuntu bakhe obuhlukile. Ophumeleleyo uqhutyelwa yimpamo yangaphakathi kunye nokugwetywa okungaqinisekiyo ukuba akafunanga impumelelo, kodwa unokufumana phi na apho ebonakala khona. Kwaye oku akunjalo nokholo, kodwa ulwazi, okungafani nokholo, alusayi kubuzwa. Umphumeleli uhamba nje, aze amthathe. Ungayifumana njani loo ntembelo? Ngomsebenzi kuphela! Mhlawumbi okokuqala ukwazi ulwazi olulodwa luza kusekelwe kwintlekele, izinto ezibonakalayo ezintle kunye nokuqagela, kodwa kamva, xa ingqondo engathembekiyo ngokunyaniseka kwintsha nganye iya kubona oko kwenzekayo, okufana nokucinga, impumelelo iya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo.
Ukujoliswa koBomi
Kunzima ukuziva ngathi uyinqoba ukuba akukho njongo. Akukho amaphupha okanye iiminqweno, kodwa iinjongo kunye neenjongo zokufezekisa. Kumele kukhuthaze kwaye kuvuselele intshukumo, into ebalulekileyo yokukrazula umxhelo ekubeni ngumzuzu "apha nangoku". Ngenxa yokuba sikhumbula - umfazi uyavuya kuphela xa enelisekile ngenkqubo yokuhamba. Kwaye isiphumo (ukunqoba) sisisitatimende se-accomplished accompli, njengesiphumo esingenakugwema somsebenzi owenziweyo. Ungayifumana njani injongo? Mamela ilizwi lomphefumlo, wandise ummandla wokhuthuzelo uze uphume "kumanxweme" ayo ukubona, ukuva, ukuva, ukuziva kwaye uthinte amava amatsha. Umphefumlo uya kukwazi injongo yayo kwaye igijime emva kokudumbula, ukutsala abantu endleleni, iimeko kunye neemeko eziza kubangela ukuphumelela okukufutshane.
Thatha ulawulo lweemvakalelo
Enye yeempawu eziphambili zowunqobileyo kukukwazi ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo engqondweni. Imvakalelo engalawulwayo yizona zikhokelo ezimbi kunazo zonke. Abafazi banzima kakhulu ukuzalisekisa le meko, ngenxa yokuba bahlala becinga izigqibo, banikezele kwisimo sengqondo. Kodwa ubunjani bebhinqa abuyithintelo ekuphumeleleni. Kwaye oku kuqinisekiswa kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi, apho abafazi bethatha "umthi wesundu", beshiya abahlakaniphile kwaye banako ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwiimvakalelo zabantu, ngasemva. Indlela yokujamelana neemvakalelo? Ukuguqula intshaba ibe ngumlingani kwaye usebenzise imvakalelo epholileyo, njengesiqinisekiso se nyaniso. Okanye ubeke iimvakalelo "i-short leash". Oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele ube ngumfanekiso ongenamdla. UkuLawula ngokuyinhloko kulandela isimo sengqondo malunga nale meko. Kuyintloko. Iimvakalelo neemvakalelo zisekondari, kwaye ziphumo zempendulo kwizinto ezenzekayo.
Ukwandisa ama-horizons akho
Ukuze ube ngumpumelelo ebomini, kunjalo, akufuneki ukuba ube ne diploma eziliqela eziqinisekisa ubuchule obuphezulu bokuqonda nolwazi olunzulu lwezinto zonke ehlabathini. Ngokomzekelo, iCoco Chanel yayingenaso isiqinisekiso sokuphumelela kwimfundo, kodwa oku akuzange kuthintele umfazi owaziwayo waseFransi ukuba azuze isikhundla se-trendsetter kwizizukulwana ezininzi. Ukuze abe ngumndilili kwintsimi efashiniweyo, wancedwa ngombono obanzi kunye nokukwazi ukufumana kwizinto eziqhelekileyo ezingaqhelekanga, ngendlela elula - eyona yintsusa, kwimveli - eyincinci. Uyabona njani ukungabonakali? Uya kufunda iindlela ezintsha, avumele ukuba azi into engaziwayo kude kube yintoni na engqondweni inomdla. Ukongezwa kwandisa kuza kunika ithuba lokuguquguquka kwizenzo zokuthatha izigqibo kwaye ulungelelanise kwiimeko ezingatshintshiyo ngaphandle kwesixwayiso.
Xoxa nabaphumeleleyo
Impumelelo kumaxesha amaninzi - inzuzo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abanye abafazi banenhlanhla ukuba bazalwe kwintsapho kunye ne "geni" yomqhubi. Abayidingi ukuvuselela ivili ukuze baqonde imigaqo yokunqoba, kuba impumelelo yengqondo kunye neendawo eziyimpumelelo izuze ifa. Ngethamsanqa, ukuxhomekeka kwintlalo kunokufunyanwa ngokuphucula okuqhubekayo, okanye "ukubamba" impumelelo kulabo baziyo ukufezekisa. Indlela yokufunda indlela yokuphumelela? Fundisa kwisangqa sabo esiseduze sabantu abacinga ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye babe negazi okanye engqondweni "i-gene" efanayo. Kuza kusebenza ngokugqithiseleyo kwinqanaba lokungabikho, kodwa ukususela kulobu bungqina obungabonakali ngaphantsi: "Ngubani okhokelwa kuyo, kwaye uya kufakwa". Kwimimandla yabaphumeleleyo amaphupha okuphumelela ngokukhawuleza aya kuhambelana nenyaniso.
Ukuvuya ngenxa yokungaphumeleli
Abantu abaqhelekileyo banikela ukusabela xa behluleka ngovuyo, baya kubona ukuhleka. Abaphumeleleyo bayazi, ngoko nayiphi na ukungaphumeleli, kukho ithuba lokuzuza kulo. Ngamanye amagama, abafazi abajoliswe ngabasetyhini, bafumana ingxaki nganye enokuthi isetyenziswe ukuphuhlisa nokuqhubela phambili ekujoliswe kuyo. Uphephe umsebenzi wakho? Ixesha lokukhangela italente kuwe ekuvumela ukuba ufake inqanaba elitsha lobomi. Ngaba lo mfana wayilahla? Ngoko, kukho indawo yendoda entsha eya kuzisa naye uthando kunye nemvakalelo eqaqambileyo, njl. Njani yokufunda ukujonga ukunqotshwa kwezinto ezintle? Kufuneka ukuba uqale ukuqhuba ngezinga elincinci: ukuzonwabisa ngemimoya embi, ukuphumla kwiimoto zendlela, usebenzisa ixesha lokulinda kwimigca yokucamngca njalo njalo. Ukukwazi ukufumana ukungaphumeleli okulungileyo kufezekiswa ngokwenza izinto ezingapheliyo. Umkhwa wokubona amathuba kwiingxaki ngumpawu ocacileyo wobadlali bonke.