Kuqhelekileyo ukwazi ukuba ukuvisisana kwisigxina sezesondo kunokuncedisa kakhulu kwixesha lokuphila. Mhlawumbi kukufanele usebenzise umgudu omncinane kwaye uziqonde ngokwakho, uqonde oko ufuna ngokwenene nantoni na abanye abantu abayifunayo. Emva koko uya kuqonda indlela onokufumana ngayo indoda yakho. Ngokubanzi, eqinisweni, yonke into ilula ngakumbi kunokuba ibonakala.
Ukuqonda okungcono, kufuneka nje ukhumbule ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo umntu ulawulwa yizandla zakhe, abangazange balahlekelwe yiyona mihla. Ngoko ke, ukufumana umntu elele, uhambelane nezi ngcebiso ezilandelayo:
- Indoda inxalenye ethile ihlala isilwanyana. Yaye njengalowo naluphi na isilwanyana, iphendulela ngokucacileyo nayiphi na intshukumo. Into engabonakali ngokwayo ayibonakali inzala kuyo. Ngaloo ndlela, ebhedini indoda ibalulekile ukuba ngaba le ntokazi isebenza. Oku akuthethi ukuba kunyanzelekile ukuba ufunde i-Kama Sutra ngentliziyo, akufuneki ukushiya izenzo zakhe ngaphandle kwengqalelo yakho, ukulila nokuyixabisa ngokuphendula. Kwakhona, asimele sikhohlwe ukuba inzulu ngaphakathi kwindoda iyinqoba, yoko kutheni abantu abaninzi banelisekile ngenxa yokungakwazi ukufikelela kwiminqweno yabo. Into ephambili apha ukuba ungabonakali;
- Kukholelwa ukuba ngokwemvelo nayiphi na indoda isithembu, oko kukuthi, ufuna iindlela ezahlukeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, imifanekiso, kungekhona abafazi. Abanye abaphandi bakholelwa ukuba oku kunokuchaza umdla wamadoda amaninzi kwiimidlalo ezithatha umdlalo. Ibhinqa elinobugcisa bokuphindukuzalwa yedwa lingathatha indawo yindoda enesigxina sonke;
- Ngokwenene, bonke abantu banqwenela ukucaca kwisini kunye nakwezinye iindlela, ngokungafani nesondo esilungileyo esithandayo intliziyo kunye nemfihlelo. Amadoda afana nokwenza kube lula, kuba bafumana ukuvuselela okongeziweyo. Kukwaziwa ngokubanzi ukuba akukho nto inomdla, njengento ekhohlisayo yomzimba oyithandayo. Kwaye umfazi akufanele abe neentloni okanye avaliwe, ecinga ukuba angamthandi umlingane wakhe - njengomthetho, umntu uyaziqonda okanye uyaziqonda ngokucacileyo lo mbuzo kwintlanganiso yokuqala;
- Akulungile ukucinga ukuba akunandaba namadoda uhlobo luni lweengubo kuwe. Ikhefu elikhethiweyo elifanelekileyo lingaba ngumthombo owongezelelweyo lonwabo. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ukhethe iingubo zangaphantsi ukuze ube ngumfazi okwenene, oko kukuthi, ngeentonga, iintambo, i-ryushechkami, kwakukho iigarta kunye ne-stockings. Ifihliwe kumncinci, kodwa ngeli thuba elimangalisayo liza kushiya ukungabi namdla nawuphi na umntu;
- Kungenzeka ukuba umntu uya kunika isinyathelo kwibhedlele ezandleni zakho. Oku kunzima ukufezekisa - kunokwaneleyo ukuqonda ngokucacileyo oko iqabane lakho lifuna naluphi na umzuzu. Ngexesha elifanayo, izifundo ezininzi zithetha ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo umntu uyazithemba ukuzityhila ngokupheleleyo kwaye akaxeleli ngeminqweno yonke, eyika ukuba loo mfazi akayi kumqonda. Ukuba unako ukuzithemba ngokuzithemba kwaye ngeendlela enye okanye enye ukuze ukwazi le miqweno, ngoko uzama ukuyiguqulela, ngoko siyakutsho ukuba uyaqinisekiswa kuwe akuyi kuhamba naphi na. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kule meko - akukho ngaphantsi kwazo zonke iimeko azihlekiyo kwiminqweno yakhe, kodwa ungazithobeli kuyo yonke into. Ukuba unquma ukuba nayiphi na iminqweno yakhe ayimkelekanga ngokupheleleyo kuwe, zama ukuyifakela into ethile, ukuze loo mntu ingacasuli;
- Kukholelwa ukuba ngumntu othanda ukulala naye othanda iindlebe, kodwa ngokwenene amadoda amaninzi akhula ngokukhawuleza ukuba akhonkcoza into ethile engqondweni. Mhlawumbi oku kubangelwa kukuba i-fantasy ayiphuhliswa yiyo yonke into, kodwa ngaphantsi kwefuthe lebali elilandisiweyo entloko kukho imifanekiso ekhuthaza umdla, owenza umphumo obalaseleyo;
- Ekubhedeni, abameli besondo esomeleleyo bafuna umfazi ukuba asabele kwizenzo zabo, oko kukuthi, bazive njengendoda yokwenene, ukuba iqabane labo lifumene i-orgasm kwaye oku kubonakala ngokucacileyo. Ukuba iqabane lilala nje okanye libonisa indlela enye okanye enye, into engayithandiyo - oku kunokubangela ukuba umnqweno womntu wonke unqwenele. Impembelelo enkulu kulo mzekelo yiloo nto ibhinqa lithetha ngokuvakalayo, ingaba liyabubula okanye ayiyi. Ayaziwa yintoni na indlela eyenziwa ngayo kule ngxaki - okanye umntu uyaziqonda ukuba "iinjongo ziyafezekiswa", okanye nje umzekeliso owenziwe yoshishino lwezonyanya zibangelwa.