Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlambulule izinto zakhe?

Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlambulule izinto zakhe aze enze okulungileyo?

Ngaphambi kokuba ihambe kakhulu

Umama ngumzekelo oyintloko kumntwana. Ewe, kulungile ukuba wonke umntu kwintsapho ezama ukugcina umyalelo kwaye akazami ukutshintshela imisebenzi yomsebenzi omnye komnye. Ukuba umntwana ubona indlela abazali abajonga ngayo ngenyameko umyalelo, uya kufuna ukuthatha inxaxheba kule nyathelo. Xa ucela umncinci omncinane wekhaya elinomzekelo ukuba uthathe iincwadi okanye iimoto, awuyi kuva Uya kuhlambulula yonke into ngovuyo, aze ahlambe izitya ... Kodwa nantsi ingxaki! Kakade, akwazi ukuhlamba izitya! Kwaye ngonyaka, kwaye kwiminyaka emibini, abantwana bafuna ukubeka izinto ngokufanelekileyo, kodwa abanako ukwenza ngendlela abazali babo abafuna ngayo. Yilapho iingxaki ziqala khona. Abantu abadala bazama ukuphepha iiplate ezityumkileyo ezichithwe kumanzi ezitshini kwaye zithatha kwinkomo ilungelo lokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Emva koko, nokuba yinto yokudlala, akayi kuqokelela "ngokufanelekileyo"! Kodwa xa abantwana bekhula, abazali babuyela kumbandela wemeko endlwini, kodwa sele sele befuna iimfuno kunye neentlungu. Yiba nomonde kwaye mvumele umntwana ahlambuluke ngelixa efuna.

Ngaba kukho imfumba encinane?

Okokuqala, faka umthetho olula kumntwana, ubonise ukuba uqala ukucoca. Vumela omncinci, edlala ngokwaneleyo ngetonti enye, kuqala uyisuse endaweni, kwaye emva koko uthatha enye. Xa amathoyizi encinci, akukho ngxaki. Kule nto, into ephambili ayikuthi ithathe isinyathelo kuqala ezandleni zakho, kodwa unika umntwana ithuba lokubeka incwadi yakhe kwireferensi okanye ukususa zonke iikhabhi ezintandathu kwibhokisi. Bonisa nje indlela omele ayenze ngayo. Mchazela ngakumbi ukuba kutheni ufuna ukucoca, ukuba yenziwe njani, kutheni unina rhoqo emva kokuhamba ufihle iingubo kwikhempi, njl. Nangona kunjalo, umdlalo opheleleyo umntwana angadinga kunye nemidlalo eminingi. Wakha umzila omkhulu weekhabhi kunye nomyili wezakhiwo, okhutshwe ukufika kweemoto ezilishumi, ezilungiselelwe izixhobo zokudlala iimoto, zilungiselele ukuhlamba imoto kunye nesitishi samanzi kunye nesitishi segesi. Musa ukulinganisa imvumba. Kakade ke, kufuneka asebenzise ubutyebi bakhe ngokupheleleyo. Ngoko, kwafika ekucoceni. Iidyayi, ezazisasazeka kwiphephethi, zenzeke kakhulu. I-crumb ingaqala ukuba yinto engabonakaliyo, iyothuswa kukuba ayiyi kukwazi ukujamelana nemisebenzi emininzi. Ncedisa umntwana ukuba ahlule umsebenzi ongenakulibaleka kwimisebenzi elula neyenokwenzeka. Ungalokothi ulungise umsebenzi wakhe kwintsana. Ndidumala kakhulu xa uzama nzima-kwaye konke kungento. Ngaba ulahlekelwa ngumzuzu wobusana? Kwiminyaka emine, abantwana bahlala benomdla, kwaye baphinde bafune ukwenza umzamo wokwenza umoya omnandi endlwini. Kodwa umkhwa wokugcina nokugcina ubungcwele, ophuhliswe kunyaka okanye ezimbini, unamathuba onke okuba ngumdlalo wobuntu.

Umdlalo

Unako ukususa amathoyizi ngeendlela ezimbini. Kuxhamla ukuyiqokelela kwiibhokisi okanye ukuqala umdlalo okhethekileyo. Unokucinga ngeendlela ezimbalwa. Makube ukhuphiswano "Ngubani oza kuqokelela amathoyizi angaphezulu?" Okanye ulungiselele ibhola yasebusuku yama-fairies kunye nama-gnomes: ukubonakala kwazo iholo kufuneka likhanyise. Ungazama ukuqokelela amathoyizi nokuthetha nganye. Unokucela egameni lamadonsa ukuba ulibeke kwireferensi ecaleni kwebheyi, kwaye egameni lamasosha ukunika umyalelo ngokukhawuleza ukuba uphume kwibhokisi. Kukho ukhetho kubathandi abakuphulaphule iintetho ezithakazelisayo. Ukuba umntwana usufunde imigaqo yokucoca kwaye ufuna kuphela ukuba khona kwakho, funda iimvumba zeencwadi ezinomdla ngelixa ehlanganisela kwigumbi. Ukuba ngokukhawuleza umntwana weva waza wayeka, phakamisa kunye nawe. Faka phakathi ngexesha lokususa ingoma yomculo okanye uhlabe kunye nomgca weendlela zakho ezenziwe. Ekugqibeleni, iikhabhi ziyakwazi ukubhabha kwibhokisi njengebhaksi yebhaksiki, kunye neencwadi ezifakwa emkhosini, njengamashongo epiramidi, ukusuka kwiyona nto inkulu ukuya encinci.

Zonke kwiindawo!

Ukuze umntwana akwazi ukuhlambulula ngaphandle kobunzima, kufuneka ucinge ngendawo yokudlala. Kukulungele ukubeka amathoyizi athobileyo kunye neepopi, iincwadi kunye nemidlalo yebhodi kwimilovulo evulekile, kunye neekhabhi, amasosha nezinye izinto ezincinci kwiibhokisi okanye iibhasikiti. Unokuthatha ibhokisi enye enkulu kuyo yonke imoto kunye nebhokisi enye enkulu kuzo zonke izilwanyana. Umntwana akadidekanga, kulungile ngandlela-thile bhokisi ibhokisi - unamathisele imifanekiso. Lo msebenzi uya kuba mnandi kwaye unomdla kumntwana. Fumana imifanekiso efanelekileyo, cima kwaye ngokucacileyo uqonde yonke indawo yakho indawo.

Amanyathelo aphezulu

Ingane ikhulile kancinci kwaye yakhawuleza yanqaba ukuhlambulula ubuncwane bayo? Uyakukuvavanya nje: ngaba andinakwenza oko umama akutshoyo? Yintoni eyenzekayo xa ndingavumi ukuhlambulula? Buza ukuba umntwana ufuna uncedo, kwaye unyanzele. Ukuba umntu omncinci unenkani, thatha ikhefu kwaye wenze into yakho. Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva inkani iyakudinga ingqalelo yakho, kwaye unokumkhumbuza ukungathobeli. Kukho enye indlela ephumelelayo. Ukuba umntwana ulele kwaye akawususanga amathoyizi ahlakazekile, uwafihle ngasese kwindawo eyimfihlo, kwaye kusasa ubatshele ukuba, ngokucacileyo, bacatshukiswa ngumntwana kwaye bashiye. Emva kwakho konke, njengokuba uyayazi, amathoyizi kunye nezinye izinto, uya kuphila xa wonke umntu elele. Mfundele iindaba ze-KI. Chukovsky "Moidodir" kunye ne "Fedorino buhlungu". Qinisekisa inkwenkwe ukuba xa ethatha isigqibo sokuqokelela izinto zakhe kunye nezithembiso zokuhlala ebeka amathoyizi kwindawo, bonke abahlobo bakhe baya kubuyela ngokukhawuleza, kuba baphoswa imvumba. Ukuba umdlalo unamathoyizi amaninzi kwaye akazange akhankanywe nokulahleka, phinda isicatshulwa esithi "Sishiya i-slut" ngosuku olulandelayo. Musa ukutyhola okanye ujezise umntwana ngenxa yokungcola egumbini. Imvakalelo engebiyo ayinakwenzeka ukukhokelela kumnqweno wokuwuqeda. Kungcono kumdumise umntwana ngazo zonke iinzame zokuzisa indlu yakho. Amagama okuvunywa yiyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu endleleni yokukhulisa umntwana. Ukuba kunzima ukuhlambulula i-crumb, zama umdlalo "I-Flower". Kwiphepha lephepha "indawo yokufumana" i-baby chamomile. Intyatyambo nganye ithathwa kuphela xa umntwana esusa amathoyizi emva komdlalo. Xa kukho umncinci omncinane kwiqabunga, umzekelo, ezintathu iintsana, umntwana ulindele ukumangaliswa, kodwa akuyiyo into efanelekileyo: ukudlala kunye nobaba, ukuvumela ukudlala kwikhompyutha, njl njl.