Umntwana osemva kunye nemikhwa emibi, ngale ndlela, kungekudala okanye kamva, nayiphi na umzali ebhekene nayo. Igama eliqhelekileyo eliqhelekileyo lehlabathi eliphucukileyo, imikhwa emibi, ibhekisela kuzo zonke eziphazamisa ukuqonda kwabantu, ukuba ziphile. Imishumbane kunye nemikhwa engozi yindlela yokungabikho ndawo, nokuba yindlela ehamba nje kuphela okanye ngokuthanda kwamagagasi. Kutheni sifanele siphumelele ezinye izithintelo, sifumane imfundo, sisebenze ngokwethu ngokomoya nangokwenyama kwelizwi? Ngelishwa, ekufikeni kwentsha, xa kungekho ncoko ebalulekileyo, kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo, ukudibanisa kwabazali kunye nabantwana abaselula kuyaphala, into enjalo ayiqhelekanga.
Ukulimaza kwemikhwa emibi
Umntwana osemtsha kunye nemikhwa engamkelekanga yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yoluntu yinkalo yemisebenzi enzululwazi, kwaye kungekhona nje inqaku elincinane. Ngenxa yokuba le ngxaki iya kusadingeka ixazululwe ngabazali, kunye nobudlelwane obusondeleyo nomntwana wabo. Ukuba ukuqonda ngokubambisana akuphumelelanga, ke akunakwenzeka ukuphumeza umphumo omuhle. Ngaphandle kwabo bafana abatsha abafake "amaninzi" ebomini babo, bona bona baya kuqonda ukuba kufuneka batshintshe ngokwabo. Ngaphandle koko, endleleni yokuphila, ephakathi kwintlalo ephucukileyo, kuya kuba neyodwa ingxaki, kodwa uluntu ngokwalo aluyi kuqonda kwaye lwamkele. Kule miba enobungozi inokubakho ukusetyenziswa kwesigama esingaqhelekanga, utywala, umlutha weziyobisi kunye nokutshaya. Yonke imiphumo yale miphumo ephazamisayo iyaphazamisa uluntu oluphucukileyo, olufuna ukuba bangayi kubakho ebomini bethu, kodwa oku akunakwenzeka kwesizathu esinye esilula ukuba bonke abantu emhlabeni wethu bahluke ekuphuhliseni nasekufundeni kwabo. Nangona kunjalo, kubantwana bethu, sihlala sifuna ukunqwenela ubomi obungcono.
Iingxaki zobuntwaba zibangelwa ukuba ngeli xesha lokuphuhliswa komzimba womntu, konke ukulungiswa kwenzeke, kuqaliswe iinkqubo ze-hormonal and psychological, ekupheleni kokuvela njengomntu ngamnye kunye nenkcazo enokwenzeka yomntu woluntu. Ngokude le nkqubo iqhubeka, amathuba amaninzi okuba amathuba akho emfundo ayaneleyo, ngokubi - ayanqatshelwa. Uya kufuneka ufune impendulo yombuzo othi kungani le nto ingenzeka kumntwana wakho othandekayo. Zama ukuqonda ngokuchanekileyo izinto eziphambili kunye nexabiso lendodana okanye intombazana yakho, abayekanga, kodwa batshintsha kwaye bazimisele njengoko bekhula.
Intombazana ehlala ebomini bakhe, ngokuthe ngandlela-thile ibhekene nokuphikisana kwempilo, umzabalazo onjalo uvela kwilizwe lakhe langaphakathi. Unomnqweno wokwenza ingxelo malunga ne "entsha" yakhe entsha. Akahlali ngokucacileyo ebonisa ubunzima beminyaka yakhe, ezama ukuba ngumntu omdala, uzama ukuzimela kwiinkampani zakhe. Kubaluleke kakhulu kulo mzuzwana ukuba sisondele kuye, kungekhona ukuvumela ukuba utywala okanye i-narcotic world.
Kwintsimi yaseRashiya, ukungeniswa kwemimoya kwenziwa ngabahwebi baseGenesi kwiklasi yeshumi elinesibhozo. Unyaka ka-1652 wabonisa ukuqala kokuvunywa kwimeko yobutywala kumhlaba waseRussia. Kukho lonke utywala, kwintsimi yaseRashiya, "imithetho eyomileyo, imimiselo, ukukhutshwa kunye nezibonelelo eziqhelekileyo zihlala zilungelelaniswa, kuba abalawuli baseRashiya abanakukwazi ukuqonda umonakalo otywala emzimbeni womntu ngamaxabiso amakhulu. Kunelungelo lokutsho ukuba usana, iigremu ezintathu kwiikhilogram zesisindo somzimba, i-dose ebulalayo. Xa usakhula, ibha iphezulu, ngaphakathi kweesentimitha ezi-5 zobuncilisi obunxilisayo, obulinganayo namahlanu amagremu e-vodka.
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba kumantombazana asetsheni ukuthanda utywala kunemiphumo eyingozi kakhulu, kuba ngeli thuba ukubunjwa komgaqo wesetyhini kumzimba wentombazana yentombazana isenzeka.