Inkwenkwe eneminyaka eyi-8 ubudala kufuneka ikhethe isipho ngokucophelela. Ngokukodwa, ukuba akukho xesha elide lokucamngca nokulungiselela, njengokuba umntu angathanda. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukuthenga isipho kwinkwenkwana akuyona into elula, kodwa ukukhetha isipho esihle kakhulu kuye ngumsebenzi onzima kakhulu. Ngoko, ukuqala kuphi? Ukuba lo akuyena umntwana wakho, okokuqala kufuneka udibanise nabazali bakhe. Qhagamshelana nabo ngokwenene, kuba bayazi iimfuno kunye nezinto ezikhethwa ngabantwana babo bhetele kubo bonke. Bona, ngokwemvelo, bayazi into yokuba le nkwenkwe iphupha ngayo, yintoni efuna ukuyenza ukuba wayenalo ithuba. Olu khetho lukhuselekile ngokupheleleyo, kodwa kuphela xa abazali bomntwana bengabikho oligarchs. Ngengqiqo ukuba ukuba intsapho ihlala kwindawo yokuchuma kwaye nayiphi na i-whim yomntwana eyenziwa ngento yokuqala, ngoko isipho siza kunzima ukwenza. Nangona kunjalo, oku kufanayo kusebenza kwiintsapho ezinemali engenayo ngokungenasiphelo kunye nokuthobekileyo ngobukhulu. Kwimeko embalwa "engqongqo" ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ungenzi iphutha kwaye ungenzi inkwenkwe iminyaka engama-8 endaweni yebhokisi entsha okanye ibhasikidi ebhokisi enkulu yee-chocolates okanye enye into enhle kodwa engeluncedo.
Isipho esibhekiswe kumntwana kufuneka sikhethwe ngokuhambelana neminqweno yakhe kunye nezinto ezithandwayo. Emva kwakho konke, i-vosmiletka isele ikwazi ukucacisa ngokucacileyo oko kukuthabatha kuye noko kungenjalo, okubangela ukuhlwithwa, kwaye okushiya kungabikho nto. Ngoko ke, ukuba abazali abanako ukubiza isipho esifanelekileyo, ngoko nje bababuze malunga neminqweno yendoda encinane. Oku kubalulekile ekukhetheni isipho. Ukuba umntwana unomnqweno wokumisela iiplastiki okanye udongwe, ngoko ke kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kuba nomdla kulo mgaqo wendalo, kwaye akukho nanye. Ewe, kukho inokwenzeka ukuba le nkwenkwe iya kuba yinto evuyisayo ngayo into enokuzilibalela ngayo ngokuzithemba kwangaphambili. Kukho mnandi kakhulu ekukhetheni isipho kwinkwenkwe engama-ezisibhozo kwiminyaka.
Kuphela umdla kunye neziganeko zomntwana zichonga ukuba isiphi isipho esiya kuba ngcono kuye. Omnye uthanda "ii-Lego" kunye nabaza kuvuya ukuzalisa ukuqokelela kwabo, umntu unomdla kunoma yimuphi umqulunqo ngokubanzi, umntu uthanda ukuqokelela iipuzzle kunye neepuzzle. Inzala iyatshintsha ngexesha lokuhamba. Ngaphambili, abafana beli lizwe baphupha imoto kwi-radio control, i-helicopter, i-consoles-consoles, kwaye ngoku oku kude kunzima.
Nangona kunjalo, kwabanye, izithethe zahlala zingatshintshi, kwaye umntwana "ulala kwaye ubone" inqwelo ekhokelwayo okanye imoto entsha. Kodwa kuyacaca ukuba abantwana banamhlanje bayanda ngokukhawuleza, kwaye banomdla kwizinto ezininzi zanamhlanje, njengefowuni "entsha" ephathekayo, ikhompyutheni, iidiski kunye nabahlaseli abakhulu, njl njl.
Kodwa kusekho izinto eziphantse ziphandle. Ibhasikidi okanye iinqwelo, kunye neentlobo zeendibano ezahlukeneyo, zonke iintlobo zeerobhothi, iikiti ezifana 'nomhlaza wamachiza', njl njl. Kwakhona, umntwana omnye uya kuvuyo olungabonakaliyo ekuboneni ibhotile entsha "yangempela", ngelixa elinye lithanda "abantu abadala" ubukele okanye uhlasele "njengotata." Ukufumana indlela eya kuyo yonke into akuyona into elula. Kodwa akunakwenzeka!
Ukuba intsapho inomvuzo othobekileyo, ngoko kufuneka ucinge amaxesha asixhenxe kwaye uxoxe ngokufanelekileyo ngesipho kumfana kunye nabazali bakhe. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba kukho ukuwa okujulile egcekeni, kwaye akukho bhankethi ebusika yomntwana, umyili omtsha akasisona isipho esibalulekileyo. Mhlawumbi kule meko kuya kuba ngcono kubo bonke abatyeleli ukuba "bathabathe" kwaye bathenge isipho kwinkwenkwe, into efunekayo ngokwenene. Amathoyizi, ngokuqinisekileyo, avelise uvuyo oluninzi, kodwa oko kuphela kwiqanda ayilondoloziwe.
Yintoni enokuyenza kwabo baneemeko ezahlukeneyo? Ukuba umntwana ufumana izipho ezibizayo rhoqo? Kule meko, akuyivuyo kakhulu ukuba ijeka elitsha, kodwa i-scooter entsha okanye iselula ayiyi kuba yinto emangalisayo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, umntwana makamangaliswe. Ukubonakalisa kuye kungekhona ummangaliso omkhulu okanye umlingo, kodwa ubonise nje into engakaze ibone ngaphambili. Ewe, mhlawumbi, kuphela kwiTV. Hlanganisa unothuso olunjalo kumfana oneminyaka eyi-8 yomsebenzi omkhulu. Omnye ngokugqithisa okweqakrazo lwamazwi kuya kukwanela kunye neebhokisi zezinto ezinomusa, kwaye omnye umntu uya kufuna enye into ngokukhawuleza. Ngokomzekelo, cwangcisa ukuba aphephe kwi-moya kunye nomqeqeshi. Lesi sipho esihle kakhulu kwinkwenkwe, ngubani oya kuyikhumbula ngobomi.
Ngomgaqo ofanayo akuyi kunzima ukukhetha isipho kunoma yimuphi umfana. Omnye unokukhokelwa ukuba agibele amahashe, enye-i-dolphinarium, okwesithathu ukubhala kwinqanaba lebhola, ibali lesine ukuba libukele "njani amafilimu," njl. Nangona kunjalo, umbutho wezinto ezinjalo zokuzizonwabisa awuncinci, kuya kubakho ukutsala abantu abongezelelweyo, kodwa umphumo ku xabisa.
Ukuba inzala yenkwenkwe ihlobo, ngoko ke kunokwenzeka ukuba ulungiselele ukuqaliswa kwendlela yokubonakalisa i-kite, ukuya kwikampu kunye neentente nomlilo, udlale izibhamu kunye nokukhangela ubuncwane bokwenene kwimaphu, njl njl. Ukuba ngaba umthendeleko uwela ebusika, unokukhetha oku: kwi-skis, ukunyuka kwi-ice rink okanye ukwakhiwa kweqonga leqhwa kunye nokubhiyozelwa komhla wokuzalwa ngqo kuyo.
Ukukhetha isipho kwinkwenkwe iminyaka eyisibhozo ayikho nzima. Ndikholelwe, sifuna kuphela ukuthetha ubuchule bokudala - kwaye yonke into iya kuvela. Uza kuba lula kunye nokuzola, kunye nomntwana-kumnandi.