Enyanisweni, ilungiselelo leseholide elingalibalekiyo ngumntwana akulula umsebenzi. Kufuneka sicinge ngokucokisekileyo kwimenyu, yenza uluhlu lweendwendwe ... Indlela yokuhlela ieholide yabantwana kwikhaya ukuze abantwana bangonwabanga kuphela ngexesha layo, kodwa nangokugqibela?
Umgaqo 1. Hlela iholide kungekho rhoqo
Ewe, ukuba uzama, ngoko ngexesha lokufumana unokufumana izizathu ezininzi zokubambisana kwamaqela abantwana. Kodwa ukuba kukho imicimbi ezonwabisa kakhulu, baya kulahlekelwa ngokuzenzekelayo kwixabiso lomntwana wakho. Ukuze kugcinwe inzondo, kukho izizathu ezintathu eziphambili: ukuzalwa, uNyaka omtsha kunye neqela lokugqiba iziqu ekupheleni konyaka ngamnye wesikolo. Unokongeza kulo mnye umthendeleko wokuvuna ngasekupheleni kukaAgasti, ukuba unomntwana kweli lizwe.
Umthetho 2. Xa uceba iholide, khokelwa lixesha leendwendwe zakho ezincinci
Abanye abazali baqokelela iindwendwe ezincinci ngisho nangosuku lokuzalwa lwasemntwaneni wabo kwaye banzima ukuzonwabisa nabaselula abangenangqiqo. Nangona kunjalo, abantwana bayakhawuleza bakhathala ngenxa yeengxabano, kwaye iholide iphendukela kubo nje ngokuphula umthetho. Kwaye oko kubangela ukuba, abazali bayazi ngakumbi kunabanye: abantwana baxineke kwaye balala belele. Ukuba ucinga ngqiqo, ke umntu omncinane oneminyaka engama-4 ubudala kunye neeholide evulekileyo kunye neendwendwe kunye neendwendwe azifuneki nakwezinye: kunengqiqo ngakumbi ukuqokelela izihlobo eziseduze etafileni, zivumeleke zithule kwaye zithokoze ngokusondeza umntwana, zinike izipho, kwaye umama uya kuthatha inkwenkwe yokuzalwa kwisibhedlele. Kodwa xa umntwana e-kindergarten ungumhlobo, unokucinga malunga nokulungelelanisa ikhaya lomama kubo.
Umthetho 3. Musa ukumema abaninzi abantwana kwiholide
Okokuqala, baya kuba nzima ukulungiselela, kwaye okwesibini, baya kuqala ukuhlukana ngamaqela kunye nokuxabana.
Kukho uluvo lokuba unokumema iindwendwe ezininzi ukutyelela umntwana wakho njengoko wayephelile iminyaka. Kakade, lo mgaqo ungaphula umthetho ukuba umntwana unenkampani yabahlobo abaninzi. Kule meko, ukuba umntu engamenywanga, kuya kugqitywa ngumsindo. Ngokufanelekileyo, abantwana abancinci bafanele bafike nabazali babo, kuba awaziyo indlela iimpendulo ezingenziwa ngumntwana, ukuba akafanele adle, njl.
Umthetho 4. Ukuba ufuna iholide ukuba uyikhumbule ngokwenene abantwana, ungazami "ukuthenga" kwicala
Iinkqubo eziqhelekileyo kunye namaclowns kuma-kafesi nakwiiklabhu zezingane zingaqhelanisekile kwiindwendwe zakho, ngoko kungenakuthandeka. Nangona unemali eninzi, akunakwenzeka ukuba ufikelele kwimvula yamanzi ngaphandle kokubanika iqela lakho. Kwenzeka ukuba iimboli kunye neepopi zokukhula zidibanisa amagama abantu abazalwa, aziphathe kakuhle. Mhlawumbi, lixesha elilodwa lokusebenzisa iholide ukusuka kubaqeqeshi, kodwa akukho mzekelo inkokheli yentsapho. Abantu abadala abahleli etafileni ngokuzikhethela ngaphandle koonwabo lwabantwana - yilapho ukuqala kwengxabano yesizukulwana esizayo kwintsapho yakho.
Umthetho 5. Qiniseka ukuba uyihobise kwaye ulungiselele indlu yokubhiyozela
Iholide lekhaya lomntwana ngomntwana akulona nje usuku oluxabisekileyo ngokwalo, kodwa kunye nezolo layo, xa kulungiswa ukulungiselela iholide. Kuyinto enomdla ngakumbi ukufaka iibhola ngokwabo, kwaye ke zixhomeke, zikhuphuke emanqanaba (oku kunokwenziwa ngabantwana abaneminyaka eyi-9-10 ubudala). Ulonwaba olukhethekileyo kukuvelisa nokwenza iimemo zeendwendwe, ezingenakuba ziqhekeza zamaphepha, kodwa imiqulu yamandulo, iiflethi zephepha, njl njl. Ngokuzimeleyo unokwenza imibala egqabileyo yamaphepha e-flags, umboniso wodonga wemidwebo okanye iifoto, iphephandaba leNdonga entsha.
Umthetho wesi-6. Ukuba ulungiselele umntwana wakho ngefestile, ungacingi ngendlela yokwenza abanye abantwana bangaboni ngakumbi
Ukuhlelwa kwinqanaba lokwenene, njengommiselo, kunzima: kufuneka uxoxisane nabazali babo bonke abantwana abamenywayo, kodwa abanalo ixesha okanye amandla kulo. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukuba inkampani yabantwana ibonakale imangalisekile, yinyamekele kusengaphambili: ukuthenga (kwaye wenze ngcono), iifake kunye neengubo zeendwendwe, kunye nomnini wendlu, ukuba uyinkwenkwe yokuzalwa, ugqoke kwiingubo ezidangayo. Ukuba abantwana abaxabani ngenxa yemaski, ekuqaleni kweeholide kunokwenzeka ukulungiselela i-lottery yokuphumelela apho wonke umntu angayinqoba.
Umthetho 7. Ukuphatha iintambo akufanele kube yimini
Emva koko, kubalulekile kubantwana ukuba ukutya, okokuqala, kube mnandi, okwesibini, ukuba kulula kwaye kunomdla ukufumana. Ngethuba leeholide, kuyafaneleka ukuphawula imilinganiselo emiselweyo malunga nokutya komntwana opheleleyo (i-saladi yokuqala, kwaye emva koko uyatshisa ngokuhlobisa). Kubantwana baluphi na ubudala, isidlo esilungelelwe ngolu hlobo lwetafula se-buffet esifanelekileyo: izicatshulwa ezincinci kwiindishi ezininzi ezilula ukuzithatha uze ufake emlonyeni wakho ngaphandle kokuphazamisa izandla zakho. Ukutya okuninzi akupheki - kasayi kudla. Hlala phantsi ixesha elide etafileni kwaye ukhulise i-toasts, njengabantu abadala, abantwana abayimfuneko. Zibeke kwiiplate ezilahlayo kunye neenkiki ezingapheliyo. Isiganeko esikhethekileyo sinokungeniswa kwekhekhe lokuzalwa kunye nekhandlela. Ukuba iholide nje, kungcono ukwenza ngaphandle kwekhekhe nonke. Khonzela iibheke ezincinane - oku kuya kukwanela.
Umthetho 8. Qiniseka ukuba ucinge kwangaphambili indlela oya kuvuya ngayo inkampani yabantwana
Khetha imidlalo kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, lungisa i-inventory kubo. Oku akuthethi ukuba abantwana baya kuthanda yonke imidlalo ocebayo. Ukuba, ngenxa yesizathu esithile, umdlalo awufaki, ungagxininisi.
Umthetho 9. Ukuba unesikhathi sokulungiselela, sigqibo malunga neyona ndlela efanelekileyo yeeholide - eyomxholo
Kule meko, iholide yakho iya kuba ngumboniso owodwa, ozinikezelwe kwisihloko esithile esikhethiweyo. Kukulungele ngakumbi ukubamba iziganeko ezifanayo ngaphandle kwesixeko, kuba kukho indawo yokujika. Ngokomzekelo, unokukhetha okukhethwa kukho okuthandwa ngabantwana - "Robinsonade" kunye ne "Isiqithi seSondye" - kunye nokudibanisa. Ngaphambi kwexesha, kufuneka ufike ngokulandelelana kweziganeko: umzekelo, kuqala iindwendwe zifika zigqoke iingubo (ezilungiselelwe nguwe), zize zifike ngegama lokuzimela, kwaye kufuneka "uziphosele kwisiqithi sentlango". Unokwakha iinqanawa ukusuka kwibhokisi yeekhadi kwaye ufanise ukuwa kwayo. Emva koko, nikela abantwana ukuba "bafumane ukutya kwabo" - kubo kunomdla ngakumbi kunokuba bahlale etafileni. Umzekelo, abantwana bangathunyelwa "ngamakhowe" (kwintsimi kuyimfuneko ukubeka iitereyi ezijikelezileyo phantsi kwemithi ngamakhowe atshalayo, amakhowa kunye namakhowe ezenziwe ngama-tartlets ngeeshizi kunye neetamatisi ezikhulayo kwi-dill ne-parsley). Ubhanana kunye nama-oranges anokuxhonywa kwenye indawo (kwisigqubuthelo somfanekiso) kwaye ujikelele ukunyuka iziqhamo. Emva kokutya, lixesha lokuya kukhangela "ubutyebi." Yeka ibhotile "ngesicwangciso esiluhlaza" ngaphakathi kwabantwana kwisifuba sikhulu sikhulu. Isicwangciso siya kuba yincwadi yokuqala kwi-series ethi "Khangela kwi-boot": ngenxa yoko, ikhonkco yeenqaku ezinjalo kufuneka iholele inkampani kwindawo yokungcwaba "ubutyebi" (le nto ingaba isicatshulwa sesipho okanye into enomnandi). Kukho ezinye iimeko zeeholide ezihambelanayo: iindaba zefestile, iholide yamakhosazana, njl njl.
Umthetho 10. Ukuba ufika into enomdla, kodwa awukwazi ukwenza ngokwakho, sebenzisa iinkonzo zenkampani ukulungiselela ieholide, abameli bayo bayavuma ukuba "basebenze" ngokwemeko yakho.
Kungenzeka ukuba imeko yezobuchwepheshe, oza kuhanjiswa kuyo kwenkampani, njengokuba kunjalo nangakumbi. Kodwa akuyimfuneko, ukulungiselela iiholide zezingane zasekhaya, ukutshintsha yonke into "kumalume womnye umntu", ngaphandle koko into ephambili iya kutshabalala: ukufudumala kwekhaya kunye nobuciko obuhle. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwenkampani makunqunyelwe kwinani elikhanyayo (ukufika okungalindelekanga kwe-wiizard-magician, izixhobo zomlilo ngaphandle kwefestile, njl.). Ukuba iholide idlula e-dacha, unokuyalela kwiinkampani zeholide-i-trampolines, i-slides, i-labyrinths.
Umgaqo 11. Musa ukulungiselela imidlalo apho iibhaso zinikezelwa kumqhubi: Izipho mazifunyenwe ngabo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba beholide
Nangona ungenayo imidlalo kunye namabhaso, kufuneka unike into ethile kwiindwendwe ezincinane. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba izipho azifani nexabiso (zinokuhlulwa kuphela "kwindoda" kunye "neyesifazane"). Ingaba iindawo zokubhala ezihlukeneyo, izitampu, izitshixo eziqhakazileyo, amathoyizi amancinci okanye iintambo ezincinci. Unokufumana indlela yokuphuma nangona awuzange uthenge izipho ngokukhethekileyo. Masithi indlu yakho yayihlotshiswe ngeebhola, kwaye ekupheleni kweeholide abagcinwa. Emva koko unike abantwana ubuncinane ibhola enye. Ngenxa yokunikezelwa kwesipho, kubalulekile ukuba ubambe umncintiswano olula okanye i-lottery. Umntwana ngamnye, xa ephuma kwiholide yakho, uzive nje njengomnqobi!
Umthetho 12. Cinga kwangaphambili "iindlela zokukhusela" kuzo zonke iindawo zeholide
Ukuqwalasela ngokucophelela isicwangciso seqela ukuze ungaphumeleli ixesha eliyingozi. Imisebenzi yakho eyintloko - ukuqinisekisa ukuba bonke abantwana basesiswini kwaye bengabinqabile, ukuze kungabikho mntu udla ukutya okunqwenelekayo, akazange anqume, akazange alwe, njl.