Izizathu zobunxila obushushu

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba zininzi iinzululwazi zisitshelisa malunga nokusetyenziswa kotywala kunye nokujongana nayo kwindlela yokujonga inzululwazi, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde oku kwishumi elivisayo: oko kumqhuba kumsebenzi onjalo.


Isizukulwana esincinane asiyi kuvula zonke iimfihlelo zabo kwimfihlelo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba unzima kangakanani ukuzama ukufumana malunga nabo. Kodwa sikwazi ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo nabafundi abaninzi nabafundi kwaye senze izigqibo zabo.

Ngokwinkoliso yabantwana, iziyobisi ezinxilisayo zidla kakhulu kumaqela "ahlukeneyo", umzekelo, kwiiklabhu okanye kwiitishi zeefestile, kwimivalo, kwibhola lokugqiba iziqu nakwikhaya xa kungekho babazali.

Abaselula bakholelwa ukuba ukusela kwiinkampani kubonisa ukukhula kwabo, nangona eneneni kungento engaphantsi kokungazi kakuhle kunye nokunyaniseka. Abanye batywala "ngesibindi". Ngokomnye umntu othi: "Ndiyadana, ngoko ndoyika ukuya kwintombazana. Kodwa xa ndisela "ngesibindi", kuya kuba lula. " Kule meko, ukunyaniseka okuninzi kunzima ukususela ebuntwaneni, kwaye akuyona inkwenkwe emele ityala kodwa ngabazali abalahlekelwe into ethile kwimfundo yabo okanye abazange balondoloze ukuba abantwana babo bafunda ntoni nabo esikolweni. Akunakwenzeka ukugcina umkhondo wento yonke: umntwana unobomi bakhe, kwaye ininzi ixesha achitha kwiziko lemfundo okanye nabahlobo abanokuphinda benze umthelela wabo ongekhoyo. Nasi umzekelo.

U-Olya, oneminyaka eyi-16 ubudala: "Ndaqala ukusela xa abahlobo bekampani behlekisa ngamagama athi:" Yintoni, inzima? "Ngoko ke ndagqiba ekubeni ndibonakalise ukuzimela nokuzimela kwabo kubazali babo, nangona izidakwa ezinxilisayo zingabonakali zicolile, zitshisa umqala kwaye kukho i-aftertaste engathandekiyo ye-vortex, kwaye kusasa intloko i-dizzy, iyashukumisa kwaye iphose imbi kuyo yonke indawo kunye ne-rehearer. "

Okokuqala, le ntombazana yaxoshwa ekusebenziseni abahlobo bayo, kwaye ke yambonisa nje ubuthathaka. Mhlawumbi ngoku abahlobo baya kuqaphela ukuba i-Olya inokuthi "isetyenziswe" ngenxa yobuthathaka bomlingani.

Kwezinye iimeko, imbangela yobunxila obuncinane yinto enye ngaphandle kokukhangisa kumaphephancwadi olutsha olunobungozi, kunye ne-press yellow, ithelevishini, i-intanethi. Naliphi na umphathi wentengiso uyazi ukuba ukuthengiswa kwazo zonke iimveliso kufuneka kudale umoya ogqwesileyo, ugqugquzele ukuba konke kulungile, kubonisa imibala, ukutsala ukupakisha nokudala umhlaba weengcamango, nangona ubomi bunzima kakhulu. Injongo yabo ephambili yimali, inzuzo. Akukho namnye wabo ocinga ngayo ngempilo yethu, ukudala utywala.

Isiganeko esingenasizathu esingenasizathu senzeke nentombazana eneminyaka eli-15 ubudala, owathi, emva kokubukela i-comedies yolutsha, wanquma ukuba utywala buhle. "I heroine yayibanjwe kakuhle ibhotile, ukuba ndifuna ukumxelisa, ukuba ndibe naye." Nantsi imbangela. Le ntombazana yayithonywe ngumdlalo olula wolutsha.

Inkwenkwe uAndrei wasitshela iminyaka eyi-17 ukuba wayelisela "ngenxa yesimo sengqondo". "Le" mood "inceda" ukunyuka "kwintombazana ephakathi okanye kwiqela, kunceda ukuphumla, ukulibala ngeengxaki, ukuhoxisa ngokwabo. Ewe, kwaye sidlulisa iimviwo, saqhibela i-cafe, apho bathabatha ibhotile yobhiya. Utywala obungenakunxila njani? "

Kwintsapho nganye, umntu ngokukhawuleza ushiya ihlabathi lethu. Ukuze sikhumbule umntu kwaye sithandazele kuThixo ukuxolelwa kwezono zakhe, zilungiswe iinqonga, ezihlala kwiintsapho ezininzi ziphela "ngokusela." UNastya, oneminyaka eli-16 ubudala: "Ndaqala ukuzama i-vodka eneminyaka eyi-12 kwimini yomngcwabo, xa wonke umntu wayedakiwe. Ndandiyithanda. Ukususela ngelo xesha, ngamanye amaxesha ndisela, kodwa abazali bam bayazi. "

Elinye icala lalilula. U-Alina, oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala: "Ndaqalisa ukusela ngexesha eli-16 ngoku ndikhulile kwaye akukho bani undinika umyalelo." Ubudala abukho umqondiso wobuntu abadala. Kwaye kwiminyaka engama-25 umntu unokucinga ngeli nqanaba lomntwana. Kwaye ubuncinane ubuneminyaka engama-30 ubudala, kunzima kumntu, abazali, ukuba bajonge ukuba umntwana uye "hayi i-tempemet."

Ngaphandle kokuba abazali benganiki ixesha elifanelekileyo kumntwana okhulayo kwaye balahlekelwa into ethile kwinkqubo yokukhuliswa kwakhe, kukho ezinye iimeko xa uyise nonina banakekela abantwana babo kakhulu. Umntwana kufuneka azive enenkululeko. Yaye kwaye yintoni imiphumo enokufumaneka ngenkululeko ezayo yokwenza izigqibo zabo, siza kujonga umzekelo. U-Oksana, intombazana eneminyaka engama-19 uthi: "Kwakubonakala ngathi kwakunzima ukuphefumula, ngoko bandibambelela kwaye bandibandezela yonke into efunayo esikolweni. Ndaye ndawaphanga neqela lokugqiba. Ngexesha apho bonke abafana beya kwilizwe ukuhamba, ndahlala ekhaya ndisula iinyembezi ngenxa yokuba ndilahlekelwe yithuba elilodwa lokuthetha isikolo njengabantwana abaqhelekileyo. Kodwa ke ndagqiba kwelokuba ndibonise abazali ukuba mna ngokwenza izigqibo. Ndaqalisa ukusela. Kwaye kwandinceda ndibaleke neengxaki. Kwaye abazali babengenakwenza nantoni na kum. Ndiyisela ngenxa yobubi. "

Umama noyise akazange bayeke. Kwakukho ama-scandals, kwaze kwafika kwibhande. Le ntombazana yayibhalwe phantsi kwaye yanikezwa ngamachiza axabisekileyo aphuma ngaphandle kotywala. Akukho ncedisa: "I-Black Streak" yaphela kuphela xa abazali bebizela intombazana engxoxweni yabucala, eyenzeka kwindawo epholileyo ngokomoya.

Into ephambili kukuqonda kubazali. Oku kuvunyelwene nabo bonke abatsha abadliwano-ndlebe. Ngamanye amaxesha akudingekile ukuba "amanzi" ngamanzi ahlukahlukeneyo angaphandle, kodwa kubalulekile ukumemela kwingxoxo engathethekiyo aze amphulaphule, yintoni exhalabisa ngayo, yintoni eyiphakamisayo. Kwaye kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba awukwazi ukubonisa ubundlobongela, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ungamgxeka kangakanani na, kwaye ungakanani na ongeke umthukuthelele, kuba uloyikisayo nje ukuba umntwana uyangena ngokwengeziwe, ukudala uxinzelelo kunye neengxaki.