Kwaye kukho iimbono ezininzi malunga nendlela yokukhetha igama lomntwana ngo-patronymic.
Ngaphambili, igama lomntwana lakhethwa ngokukodwa ngamakhalenda ecawa. Yaye yonke into yayilula: imihla ngemihla yayine-patty saint. Ngaloo suku umntwana wazalwa ngayo, eli gama lafunyanwa. Yaye umncedisi-kunye negama. Ngomhla wamashumi omane emva kokuzalwa komntwana, babhaptiza, balungise igama elifunyenweyo.
Enyanisweni, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwiintsapho ukuya kwi-17 abantwana babizwa ngokuba yi-nickname okanye elinye igama, ukuze "imimoya emibi ikhohliswe". Ezi nkolelo zineembali nangaphambili kunamaKristu. Kwaye abaninzi babo bayaqhubeka nanamhla.
Ngokomzekelo, kucetyiswa ukuba ungamniki igama lomntu oshonile. Ngokukodwa ukuba wafa kusasa, kwaye wayenomsindo. Kukholelwa ukuba kunye negama lomntwana uya kulidla iimbandezelo kunye nobomi obufutshane.
Nangona kunjalo, ukunika umntwana osanda kuzalwa amagama ezihlobo eziphilayo, ngakumbi abazali, abacebisi. Okokuqala, iimpawu ziqinisekisa ukuba umntwana oza kutshatyalaliswa uya kuthatha amandla angundoqo kwigama lakhe. Kukholelwa ukuba ingelosi yokulondoloza efumanekayo kwigama ngalinye ayikwazi ukuhlangabezana nokukhuselwa kwamabhodi amabini kwindlu enye.
Iingcali zengqondo zanamhlanje ziqinisekisa ukungathandeki kokukhetha okunjalo. Nangona kunjalo, bayakhuthaza zabo iingcebiso ngezinye izizathu. Ngaloo ndlela, kukholelwa ukuba amakhwenkwe anamazwi "aphindwe kabini" njengoSergei Sergeevich, uMikhail Mikhailovich, u-Ivan Ivanovich akhula angenasiphelo. Kwaye kunye namantombazana abaye baba amagama oomama, abayifumananga nolwimi oluqhelekileyo nabo. Ngexesha elifanayo, izithethe zenkcubeko zicebisa umfazi, ukuzala kuphela kwiintombi, ukubiza igama elincinci ngegama lakhe. Baqinisekisa ukuba kulo mzekelo uza kuzalelwa unyana ozayo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, xa ukhetha igama, abazali balandela utshintsho lwezopolitiko. Ebonakala ngokucacileyo "indalo entsha" ngokwemigqaliselo yamagama kwisithuba se-post-revolutionary. Abantu, bekhululekile ekufuneni abantwana ngokuhambelana nemiyalelo yababingeleli, baqala ukubanika amagama abhaliweyo - izibhenkco: I-Vilor (a) - "UVladimir Ilyich Lenin Oktobha Revolution", uDazdraperma (Kuhlala ku-Meyi 1), i-Oktyabrin (a). Kwaza kwafika uStalin, Afrika, uCangi.
Abantwana banzima ngamagama anjalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo igama elinjalo lifihla emva kobomi bomnye, kungabi nantoni. Kwaye ngegama lomntu "ilifa" elinzima ngamanye amaxesha lidluliselwa kwisizukulwana esilandelayo. Zama ukucinga ukuba luhlobo luni lolwazi olufunyenwe kubantwana bakaTshintsho. Unyana - uCangovic. Yaye intombi? Ngaba ungathanda ukuba nomntu onjalo?
Enyanisweni, abazali bahlala befuna umntwana ukuba agqoke igama elingaqhelekanga, okanye elingafaniyo. Ngokukodwa, ukuba zombini igama kunye negama lenkcazelo lifikelela kwintsana enhle. Kodwa, xa ukhetha igama elingavumelekanga kumntwana, ungathathi ngokugqithisa. Cinga ngento eya kuba yintsana phakathi koontanga. Kwaye nabazukulwana bakho - unenhlanhla?
Kukho imeko echasene nayo, xa ukhetha igama lomntwana osalinde ixesha elide, abazali balandela imfashini yefashini. Yaye ukuba iminyaka embalwa edlulayo iViletta, uSnezhany, uKristina, uKarina ibonakala njalo, ngoku uZakharov, Akimov, Terentyev noMatheveyev beza.
Le ndlela ifumaneke neengxaki zayo. Umntwana onalolo gama unokungonwabi, efunyanwe ejikelezwe ngabanye abaninzi abantwana abanegama elifanayo. Kwaye uya kuba, ukuba xa ufowunelwa kwididi uya kubaba abantwana abalishumi?
Mhlawumbi indlela ekhethekileyo yokukhetha igama elifanelekileyo lebhokhwe likwazi ukuqonda. Ngamanye amanyathelo aphumayo akuyona nje into yokucinga, kodwa ukuvakalisa. "Yilaphule." Qinisekisa ngegama eliphakathi, enegama. Yazisa igama elipheleleyo, kunye nezikhetho ezifingqiweyo, kunye neefom zothando.
Umzuzu obalulekileyo kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje kukupela isipelingi segama kwiinguqu zomhlaba jikelele. Cinga ngelixa elizayo lonyana wakho, malunga nendlela igama lakhe liza kujonga ngayo ipasipoti yakhe. Iingxaki ezinokuthi zibhale ezinye izandi zaseRussia zinokunyusa amathuba okuphulwa kweempazamo kwixesha elizayo ekulungiseleleni amaxwebhu. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi igama elihle kakhulu laseRussia igama likaSergei linganika intsingiselo engathandekiyo yeSer gay kwi-international writing.
Cinga ngemibutho onayo enegama elithile. Uhlobo luni lomntu olikhumbulayo xa uliva? Khumbula ukuba imifanekiso ephakanyiswayo kwizandi zegama lomntwana iya kucelwa kwixesha elizayo. Ngoko, umzekelo, ukuba igama likaMarina lidibene nomfanekiso kaMarina Tsvetaeva, musa ukukhawuleza ukubiza intombi yakho kubo. Ewe, le ntombazana inokunikezwa isipho somlomo esichazwa ngamagama. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo i-negative iyadluliselwa kalula. Kule meko, ingaba yintlupheko yomntu esizayo, ubuhlobo obunzima nomama, kunye nabantwana babo.
Nangona ungakholelwa kuma-horoscopes kunye nezibikezelo, kufuneka ufunde iincwadi malunga neentsingiselo zamagama. Sifuna okanye cha, kodwa igama elikhethiweyo lichaphazela ukubunjwa komlingani womntwana. Indlela eya kuba ngayo - ithambile kwaye ihlala okanye inamandla kunye nenqununu-ixhomeke kakhulu kwisigqibo sakho sangoku. Impembelelo yayo yintoni na into efutshane eyoyibiza ngayo umntwana wakho. Ngokomzekelo, kuphawulwe ukuba iVova noLaura banzima kwaye banenjongo kunokuba abo babesithiwa nguVolodya noLely (okanye uLyalya) ebuntwaneni babo.
Akunakukucingwa ngokufanelekileyo ukuba ukhethe igama ngeendlela zokukhangela izinketho, ezibizwa ngamalungu onke entsapho. Umzekelo ocacileyo wesiphumo esinokuthi ungathathwa njengesiqephu se-cartoon "Three from Prostokvashino", apho ithole lalibizwa ngokuba yiTapot.
Ukunyamekela kufuneka kuthatyathwe ukusebenzisa amagama angabizwa ngamakhwenkwe namantombazana. Ngokukodwa ngokubambisana namagama angabonakaliyo. Umzekelo, uSasha Nechitailo okanye uValya Petkun ngabafana okanye amantombazana?
Ukucinga malunga nendlela yokukhetha igama elifanelekileyo lomntwana kwi-patronymic, uya kudibana neengcebiso kunye neengcamango ezininzi. Zonke zifanele ziqwalaselwe. Emva kokuba unike umntwana igama, ubeka ingqalelo ekufeni kwakhe. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba zonke iinketho ezicatshulwa ngokucophelela ziwayo xa zikhangela kwintsana. Kucacile ukuba igama kufuneka lihluke. Kwimeko apho, themba umntwana wakho. Musa ukukhawuleza ukuba wenze amaxwebhu: kuya kuthatha ixesha, kwaye uya kukuxelela indlela yokuyibiza ngayo.