Kunzima ukubiza zonke izizathu. Uphononongo ngabafundi bezengqondo baye baqinisekisa ukuba abantwana abaselula baninzi banesizungu kwaye kuba nzima ukuba bakhwaze phambi kwabantu abadala. Ukuzibulala kwabantwana kwenzeka kuba abazali abaqondi kakuhle abantwana babo, nokuba kunjalo, abafuni ukuphulaphula umntwana. Bayayithanda, kodwa abayiva. Ukuba umzali akanako ukuphatha umntwana wakhe esikolweni, kodwa kunoko uyakhala: "Undifumana ngamacandelo amathematika. Ngaba uyisidenge? ". Kwaye kufuneka umntwana enze njani njengomntwana? Uvakalelwa njani xa ebona oko kubazali bakhe ungumthwalo nje kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ayikho into yokuzikhukhumeza? Emva kokukhala okulandelayo komama okanye utata, intombi iyakuthusa ukuza esikolweni ukuba inokulinganisa okanye ukuziphatha okunganeliseki. Esi simo sengqondo sabazali, ukungafuni ukuqonda imithombo kunye nezimbangela zokungaphumeleli, ngelanga, kunomdla wokuzibulala.
Iintanethi zentlalo - imbangela yokuzibulala kwentsha?
Ngokutsho kwee-arhente zokunyanzeliswa komthetho, kwiminyaka emibili edlulileyo kwisixeko esiqhelekileyo-statistical city yaseRussia yenza ukuzibulala ngaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu ubudala, kunye nazo zonke ngezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo. Kodwa i-Ofisi kaMtshutshisi iyaqiniseka ukuba i-intanethi ayikho nto apha. Bonke abatsha abaselula bachitha ixesha lobukhulu bebhsayithi yehlabathi, ukususela kule nkqubela i-psyche iphukile, eyo, i-alas, ingaba yinto ebangela ukuzibulala. Ngoku ku-intanethi, unokubona udlame, ukubulala, ukufa kunye nakwezinye iindawo kunye nayo yonke into onokuyifunda ngokukhawuleza kwaye uzibulale ngokungazenzisiyo.
Iingxaki ezinxulumene nokuziphatha kakubi
"Ukwesaba ihlazo nokujeziswa." Okukhethiweyo ngokukhethekileyo zizinto ezinjalo zokuzibulala njengengxabano emsebenzini okanye esikolweni, kunye neengxaki zempahla kunye nobunzima bekhaya. Into ebonakalayo engqondweni kwaye ibiza ngokuthi "i-Killer's Enzyme" ingakhuthaza ulutsha ukuba luzibulale ngokuzikhethela. Iqela lezinzululwazi zaseBrithani lifumene ukuba ezinye zezinto ezinobunzima bokuzibulala ezisebuntwaneni ziphantsi kunezo eziselula ezishiye ihlabathi ngezinye izizathu. Ngaphambili, kwafunyanwa ukuba inani le-enzyme lichaphazela kakhulu imvakalelo kunye nokuziphatha komntwana oselula.
Kananjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo isinyathelo esiyingozi kwizenzo ezingapheliyo zichazwe ngumntu osisigxina ohlala esicaleni. Oku kubandakanya ukuxhomekeka kwe-narcotic, okubangela ukuba iimvakalelo ezinjalo xa i-teenager ingakwazi ukunyanzelisa amaxesha eemali ukufumana enye "dose" "yokuphucula imvakalelo." Kukho imeko xa abazali bengabikho, bathabatha izinto ezixabisekileyo, ngenjongo yokufumana izidakamizwa. Ukuba ngaba abazali bafunda ngale nto, umntwana uqala "ubomi obonwabileyo": ukuhlambalaza kwintsapho, ukuphulaphula - konke oku kuphucula uxinzelelo lwelizwe kwaye, ngaphandle koko, kubangela ukwesaba okubalulekayo kwimbopheleleko yolwaphulo-mthetho, apho intsha ingathatyathwa. Umbuso onjalo ngumhlaba ongcono kakhulu wokuvela kweengcinga zokuzibulala.
Ukuphazamiseka ebomini kuyisinye esinye isizathu esivamile sokuba abantu abatsha bazibulale. Kuyadumala ukuba abatsha abakuboni amathuba kwixesha elizayo. Ukuhlaselwa komntu, ukuzama ukuqala ukufumana indawo elangeni, umsebenzi othembisayo - oku kunokuphazamisa ukulinganiswa kwemvakalelo yomntu omdala, sithini ntoni ngabantwana?
Ininzi yobomi bemantombazana ihamba, kuba inkqubo yabo yeentlanzi ihlala ixinzelelekile. Le ntombazana idibana nendoda eselula, iyakuthandana nayo, icinga ukuba le nkwenkwe iyenzeka. Ucinga ukuba "ufumene", ngelixa umfana esele edlala nje ngeemvakalelo zakhe. Ngokukhawuleza okanye emva koko, inyaniso ivuleka, izibuko zepinki ziphukile zibe ziincinci ezincinane - kwaye intombazana ididekile ngothando, kubafana nakubomi ...
Ukungabikho kwabantu abasondeleyo kunye nenkxaso enobusinye esinye isizathu sokuzibulala ngexesha elivisayo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abatsha banesibindi, abafana bafumana iimpazamo emehlweni abo bangaphandle kwaye bamkelekile ukuhlazisa umntu ongafanelanga imigangatho yomntu "oqhelekileyo". Andiyithandi ngabo abaya kuba ngumhlobo osemtsha, ubonwa buhlungu kakhulu. Yaye ukuba akukho inkxaso kunye nokuqonda - intombazana ingavala, ungene kwi "shell". Oku kuphazamisa ukuvela kweengcamango "andinjengomntu wonke, ngoko ke andinalo ilungelo lokuhlala kuluntu, phakathi kwendawo." Indlela kuphela yokuphuma ukuzibulala, ukuphelisa isimo sethu sokungafani.
Ukuxinezeleka kwintsholongwane kunokuvela ngenxa yokufudukela kwisixeko esitsha. Ingakumbi ukuba indawo yokuhlala yangaphambili yomntwana idibene neenkumbulo ezintle. Ngokomzekelo, kwakukho umntu omthandayo, abahlobo abalungileyo, isimo esithile esijikelezwe ngabaontanga. Ukulahlekelwa yiyo yonke into eyayifunyenwe akuyiyo kuphela inkwantya yenkwenkwezi, kodwa abantu abadala abakwamkeli kakubi ukutshintsha kwehlabathi. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukubonisana nomntwana ngaphambi kokuhamba, umchazele ukuba akayi kulahlekelwa nayiphi na into, kodwa uyayifumana kuphela ngokubuyisela ama-horizons amasha, ithemba.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, isimo sengqondo kunye nesimo sokuphila kwanoma yiphi na intsha isondele kakhulu kubazali, ngoko kubalulekile ukuhlawula ingqalelo kubantwana babo abakhulile nabantwana abazimeleyo. Ungabashiyi ukuba udide kunye nobomi bethu obuyinkimbinkimbi, ube nenkxaso engapheliyo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, inkxaso enokwethenjelwa kubo, ngoko abayi kuze kubekho ncamango yokuphazamisa ubomi babo, eqala nje.