Imincintiswano kunye nemidlalo yabantwana ngomhla wokuzalwa kwabo

Amaholide kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo ... Abahlali badlulela kwaye banandipha. Ngokuqhelekileyo nokuba usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana luba yeholide kuphela kubantu abadala. Kodwa abantwana beza kukuncoma umntwana wakho ngosuku lokuzalwa kwakhe, wazisa izipho. Kwaye kufuneka uchithe ukuze ukukholisa abantwana ngeengcamango ezithakazelisayo, umdlalo othakazelisayo, uqaphele ukuba abazange batyeke ukuchitha yonke into ehleli etafileni. Ngaluphi uhlobo lokuncintisana kunye nemidlalo yokuzalwa komntwana onokuyenza, kwaye kuya kuxutyushwa ngezantsi.

Iholide ngaphandle kwemidlalo, njengabantwana beengqondo ze-psychologists bathi, yinto nje engabonakaliyo kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo eziyingozi nakwimpembelelo kwimimandla yemfundo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo, abantwana baqala nayiphi na imidlalo, ngokuqhelekileyo bangenasidlangalaleni, bomsindo kwaye bangakhuselekanga. Kwiimidlalo ezinjalo ngokuzenzekelayo, akunakwenzeka ukubonelela ngokugqithiseleyo ngokweengqondo. Yintoni ebonakalayo kwi-whims kunye neinyembezi zabantwana. Kwaye ngoku iholide iyachithwa. Abantwana baya kuziva behlukileyo xa ukuzonwabisa, imidlalo, ukhuphiswano ziququzelelwe kwimibhiyozo yentsapho. Iimidlalo zenza ukuba abantwana bahluke, baqhelane nezixhobo zobunxibelelwano babantu, bazise izakhono zokuziphatha, bakhuthaze isibindi, baxakeke, baxhumane, baqinise izihlunu, bancede bafumane ulwazi ngehlabathi elibangqongileyo. Ingenzeka, umzekelo, ukwenza ngaphandle komdlalo odumile wengoma "Karavai" ? Kuphela thina, abantu abadala, kubonakala ngathi umdlalo awuphelelwe yisikhathi. Kwaye ucela abantwana ukuba badlale kwaye babone indlela abazonwabisa ngayo. Lapha kunye nokuhamba, kunye nomculo, kunye nokudanisa. Yaye ngokuqinisekileyo omnye wabantwana uya kubabuza abazali bakhe: "Ndiya kuba nini na umhla wokuzalwa?" Ngaba oku akunjalo ukuvavanywa komdlalo!

Ngoko, wanquma ukubamba imincintiswano kunye nemidlalo ngomhla wokuzalwa komntwana ... Ngaphambi kokuba udlale nabantwana, cacisa imigaqo yomdlalo, uhamba nabo kunye nomboniso-oku kuya kuququzelela ukufana kwabo. Unakho ngeli qhinga: igama lomdlalo, imithetho yomdlalo, izenzo zegeyimu. Kuhle, ukuba bonke abantwana banokuthatha inxaxheba kumdlalo ngexesha elinye. Yaye ukuba abantu abadala bajoyine, kuya kuba kuhle kakhulu! Phakamisa, umzekelo, umdlalo "Jonga kunye nesando" . Imithetho yomdlalo ilula: isandla esinye sixelisa ukusebenza kunye ne-saw, enye inomnye. Ezi ntshukumo zidlalwa kanyekanye. Kuya kuba kuhle kakhulu!

Sebenzisa "iVolleyball ngeibhaluni" . Ekunene kwegumbi eliphakamileyo malunga nomitha elula intambo eludongeni ukuya eludongeni. Endaweni yebhola, amabhaluni amabini ahlanganiswe ndawonye. Kulowo nalowo kufuneka kube namaconsi ambalwa emanzini. Oku kwenza ukuba iibhola zibe nzima kakhulu, kwaye, ngokubalulekayo, ngenxa yeendawo ezihambayo zokungcungcutheka, ukuhamba kwabo kuya kuba nzima kakhulu. Ngamacala omabini kwintambo ngamaqela, abantu abayi-3-4 nganye. Abadlali banokubetha iibhola ngezandla zabo, baqhubekele kwintsiphi yomdlali kwaye bangavumeli ukuwa kwintsimi yabo. Ukuba uphoswe ibhola - inqaku lesohlwayo! Iqela eliphumelele amanqaku angaphantsi liya kuphumelela. Ukuba ufuna ukudlala lo mdlalo, musa ukulibala ukuthenga ibhola yeepare.

Olunye ukhuphiswano kunye nemidlalo lubonelela ubukho bendima, phakathi kwazo kukho ezinkulu kunye ezincinci. Indima yomququzeleli, ngokuqinisekileyo, inikezela umntu wokuzalwa. Emva koko landela utshintsho kwiindima zabathathi-nxaxheba. Unako ukuwahambisa ngokubhekiselele kumgaqo wabani na ofuna ukuba ngowakho, kodwa kule ngxaki kunzima ukugcina umgca wokuhambisa ngokufanelekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuqhuba rhoqo kwendima, ukungathandi komntwana ukudlala, okanye, ngokuthe ngqo, umdla wakhe okhethekileyo kwendima, kunokubangela ukuphakama kwabanye abantwana. Ngoko ke, ngomhla wokuzalwa komntwana kungcono, kwaye kunomdla ngakumbi, ukufumana iinkqubo ezikhokelayo okanye ezikhokelayo ukusebenzisa udweba ngendlela yobalo.

Ngomdwebo, abantwana baya kuba yingqungquthela, kwaye umntu omdala okanye umntwana (ukuba kukho umntu onqwenelayo) uvakalisa ibhodi yokubala ngokulandelana ngamnye kumdlali. Lowo unayo igama lokugcina elibalayo liba yinkokheli. Imizekelo yezinto zokubala:

Kukho ibhokhwe kwibhulorho

Wayegubha umsila wakhe.

Ukukhokelwa ngumsindo,

Ulungele kumlambo ulungile.

Inkunzi yebhokhwe ayikwazi,

Ukulinda, kakuhle, ngubani oya kumnceda?

Ubani igama lokugcina eliwa, liphendula: "Ndiye" kwaye ndiba yinkokheli.

Izinyosi zinyuka,

Baqala ukukhwaza,

Izinyosi zihleli kwiintyatyambo.

Kwaye bathi: "Uqhuba!"

Imiqulu ilungile ukuyisebenzisa kumdlalo othi "Funda ngezwi . " Imithetho ilula. Isikhokelo esikhethiweyo, simile kwisangqa kwaye amehlo akhe avaliwe, kufuneka ufumane ngubani owamthiye (ungatshintsha ilizwi lakhe). Ukuba uyifumene, unika indawo yakhe kumnxebi.

Okanye umdlalo "Ingoma ibangela" . Umqhubi usuka ekamelweni. Bonke abanye abantwana bafihla into yokudlala kwindawo efikelelekayo ukuze bahlolwe, bahlale phantsi ngokukhululekile, beshiya ininzi kwigumbi mahhala. Umdlali obuyelayo uzama ukumfumana. Kule nto unceda ingoma: ukuba uyayifumana into efihliweyo, wonke umntu uya kucula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye xa esuswa - ngokuthula. Kungcono ukhethe ingoma elula, eyaziwayo ("Bavumele bahambe ngokungazi ...").

Umdlalo "Ngubani oza kuqokelela ngokukhawuleza" : ukusabalalisa amathoyizi aphakathi kwinqanaba, kunye nezikhokelo ezimbini kwiimpawu ezibaqokeleyo. Ingongoma ngubani oza kuqokelela ngaphezulu. Ungadlala lo mdlalo ngokubamba amehlo akho kulabo abadlala.

Okanye "Hamba ujikeleze wakho ngasemva . " Umdlalo owufuna ukulungelelanisa nayiphi na amathoyizi kwindawo emfutshane ukusuka komnye nomnye ngokulandelana. Imithetho icwangcisa igama lo mdlalo. Omnye uthi: ngaphambi kokuba umsebenzi ugqityiwe, lowo uthatha inxaxheba unikezwa ithuba lokuhamba malunga nezinto ezijongene nazo.

Umdlalo omnandi "Uyazi ukuba ngubani" . Umqhubi uba phakathi kwesangqa, amehlo akhe agqitywe. Nantsi kukho iindlela zokuqhubeka nomdlalo: nokuba uguqulwe, okanye umqhubi umi, kwaye abadlali batshintsha indawo. Kwimpawu zomntu omdala, isikhokelo sihamba naluphi na ulwalathiso ngeengalo ezisetyenziswe phambi kwakhe, kwaye sichukumisa omnye wabadlali, uhlolisise ngezandla zakhe, kufuneka abize ukuba ngubani.

Inomdla umdlalo onjenge "Intlanzi, iSilwanyana, Nenyoni" . Abantwana bakhula kumqolo okanye kwisangqa, bekhokela-phakathi. Ukugqithwa ngabadlali, uthi: "Intlanzi, inkomo, intaka." Ukuyeka kufuphi nenye inxaxheba :: kwelinye igama, elinde ade abize isilwanyana esifanelekileyo. Ukuba umntwana uphosakele okanye ukuba isilwanyana asikwazi ukubizwa ngegama elide, unika into - i-phantom. Ekupheleni komdlalo, abathathi-nxaxheba bahlawulela ukulahlekelwa kwabo, bafezekisa umnqweno wenkwenkwe yokuzalwa, ohlala phantsi wakhe kumphantom ophakanyisiweyo.

Njengalo mdlalo "Umoya, amanzi, umhlaba, umoya . " Isiqalo (esingcono, ukuba ekuqaleni kuya kuba ngumntu omdala) sondela kunoma yimuphi wabadlali, lithetha elinye lala magama kwaye libala ezintlanu. Ngeli xesha, umdlali makabize umnqweno wezinto ezihambelanayo okanye ajikeleze (umoya). Ngubani ongenawo ixesha lokunika impendulo, ixesha elishiya umdlalo. Umqhubi ubiza omnye umdlali, njl. Ngalindelekanga, endaweni yegama eliphakanyisiweyo, isithethi sithi: "Umlilo." Bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kumdlalo kufuneka batshintshe indawo, kwakhona benze isangqa (ekhokelayo kunye nokupheliswa kwakhona). Umdlali othabatha indawo yokugqibela kwisangqa iba yikhokelo.

Umdlalo "Impumlo, indlebe, ebunzini" kuya kubakholisa abantwana kunye nabantu abadala. Ukuphendukela kubathathi-nxaxheba bomdlalo, isikhokelo sithi: "Isandla sithinte impumlo (indlebe, iphambili ...) uthi: impumlo (indlebe, inkunzi ...)". Wenza okufanayo. Ukugqwesa kule mdlalo kukuba, ngokubiza nayiphi na inxalenye yomzimba, isikhokelo sikhombisa ngokucacileyo, kwaye abaninzi banokuphinda baphinde ngokungazibandakanyi.

Ungadlala kumdlalo onjalo ngokuthi "Yenza okuchaseneyo!" Ngokukhetha ukuqhuba okanye ukuhlula ngamabini. Inkokeli ibonisa ukunyuka okuhlukeneyo, abanye abadlali kufuneka benze isenzo esahlukileyo.

Elula kunye nomdlalo "Khawucinge ukuba benze ntoni . " Omnye wabadlali - "guesser" - ushiya ekamelweni. Abantwana, ngelixa lingekho, vumelani malunga nantoni na okuya kuboniswa. Emva kokubuya, "i-guesser" idibanisa ngala mazwi: "Hayi, bafana! Uphi wena, wenzeni na? "Ukuphendula:" Kuphi na - asiyi kuthetha, kodwa oko senzayo-siza kubonisa. " Uxelise nayiphi na isenzo (udlala igitare, ugibele ibhayisikili, udide, uhlambe, uhlambe ...). Umqhubi unquma oko abantwana abenzayo. Ukuba uqikelele, bakhetha enye "i-guesser", kwaye ukuba wenza iphutha, uphinde aphume egumbini, ukuze abadlali bacinge esinye isenzo.

Umdlalo "Kolobok" ulungile. Abantwana bahlala kwisangqa, phakathi-ababini abahamba phambili ("utata" kunye no "baba", banokunika izixhobo: inqanda - "ubaba", isicuku okanye intshebe - "utata"). Ukuhlala kwisiyangqa, abantwana bayayithumela "ibhinqa" -kinkwenkwana komnye nomnye, kwaye "umkhulu" kunye "nomfazi" bazama ukumthintela okanye bamthinte. Ukuba ithe yaphumelela, kwindawo yayo kwisangqa ngumdlali, emva kokuphosa apho ibhola yazingqingwa.

Ukudalela umdlalo "Ngubani oza kufumana" uncedise ithoyizi epholileyo. Ubekwa esihlalweni, kwaye ngapha nangapha kuye ngabadlali ababini bajongane. Kwimpawu yombonisi, kufuneka uzame ukubamba itekisi. Ngubani oya kwenza okokuqala, wada.

Yenza iindidi kwaye ujonge iindwendwe kunye nemidlalo ngokudweba. "Dweba ilanga ngeempuphu (i-pyramid, i-snowman ...)." "Dweba izandla ezimbini ngexesha elifanayo ne-butterfly (ibhola, i-tumbler okanye enye into ehambelanayo)." "UDoris ..." (abadlali bayavuma ukuba baya kudweba, kwaye bavule amehlo abo baveze iinkcukacha ezingekho). Kule midlalo, kufuneka ulungiselele phambili amaphepha amakhulu kunye namanqaku.

Kuyathakazelisa ukufumanisa ukuba kukho i-dynamometer, inokuthi isandla sakhe sinamandla, ukudlala umdlalo wesitya okanye "umlenze weZarakanny". Uluhlu lweemincintiswano ezicetywayo kunye nemidlalo yokuzalwa komntwana kulula kumxholo kunye nenhlangano, ayifuni ukuqeqeshwa okhethekileyo, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo lihlakulela ukuhambelana, ukunyamezela, ukunyamezela, ukusetyenziselana, ukusebenzisana kwabantwana kunye nabanye abadala, kwakha umoya ongathandabuzekiyo. Eli liholide liya kukhunjulwa ixesha elide ngabantwana, kwaye nangabantu abadala baya kuzisa. Unokwenza abantwana bangonwabi kuphela ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa, kungekhona "kuphela kanye ngonyaka." Ufuna nje umnqweno wakho!