Amajoni angqubana nomthetho

Abantwana abancinci badla ngokuba yingxaki ebalulekileyo kuluntu. Ukuhlala rhoqo ubudlelwane beentsapho buncedisa i-psychology yabo ukuphuhlisa ngendlela efanelekileyo. Iintsholongwane zivame ukungqubana nomthetho, onokuthi ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo. Inkqubo yobulungisa ibonisa inani elikhulu labantwana abenza inzondo ezinkulu. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe amaqela amaninzi asemantwaneni, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, kuba ngabaphulaphuli bomthetho.

Abancinci abasuka kwiintsapho ezihlelelekileyo.

Kwiintsapho ezingenakulungelekiyo kunokwenzeka ukuba zithwale lonke iqela lentlalo yoluntu. Kwizi ntsapho, ngamanye amaxesha akukho namnye wabazali, kaninzi kukho iziganeko zokusela utywala kwabazali okanye ukuphikisana nomthetho. Abantwana abangaphantsi kwesi sihloko abaziva bengenalo inxaxheba kuluntu, ngoko bakulungele ukuphula yonke imigaqo nemigaqo. Isizathu kulo mzekelo ubuhlobo bentsapho, kuba abazali abazange bakwazi ukuhlakulela kakuhle ingqondo yengane. Kwiintsapho ezingathandekiyo, abantwana abachasene nomthetho bafumaneka rhoqo. Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana angakwazi ukuphepha loo nto, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kukufaneleka kwabafundisi bezontanga kunye nabafundisi besikolo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana abasuka kwiintsapho ezinobungozi baxhomekeke kuhlaselo oluqhelekileyo, oluba luyimfuneko ebalulekileyo yeengcinga zabo kwixesha elizayo kuluntu. Umntwana omncinci uyaqonda ukuba unokutshintsha i-destiny yakhe kwaye ufumana amancedo amaninzi, ngoko umthetho uyaphula.

Abantwana babazali abacebileyo.

Akusoloko kubuntwaba bunzima kunye nokungabikho kobutyebi obangela ukuphulwa komthetho. Imeko eyahlukileyo xa iqwalasela abantwana abaselula kwiintsapho ezizityebi. Ngokuqhelekileyo abafumani ngqalelo kubazali babo, kodwa bahlale bephantsi kwabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo loo mncinci ungena ekungquzululeni nomthetho kuphela ukubonakalisa ukungabi namkhethe kwakhe. Abantwana babazali abacebileyo bayaqiniseka ukuba "imali ixazulula zonke iingxaki". Ukuchasa iziseko ezisemphakathini, zizama nje ukutsala ingqwalasela yabantu abajikelezileyo kwaye bazixhomekeke. Kwimeko enobungozi kakhulu xa abazali beye bakhusela umntwana encinane kwisijeziso esifanelekileyo. Kulo mzuzwana umntwana uyaqonda ukuba unokwenza njengoko ubona kufanelekile.

Abantwana abalahlekileyo.

Kwiminyaka emininzi, iinkedama zeenkedama ziye zabanceda abantwana ukuba bakhethe indlela yophuhliso lwabo nokukhula kuluntu. Nangona kunjalo, abantu basacinga ukuba kubakho abaphuli abaselula ababonakalayo. Ngexesha lamaSoviet, ukuxhaswa kwemali yeenkedama kwakungenelisekanga, kwaye ukugwetywa ngokubanzi kwabantwana abangenamakhaya kubangelwa yimiphefumlo yabo kuphela ukulwa noluntu. Kubo, ukuphikisana nomthetho kungenzeka ukuphula imithetho yonke kwaye kuqinisekiswe ukuba bafanele. Ukuba ngumntwana osengaphambili kusenokwenzeka ukuba bakhethe indlela yabo ebomini, kwaye oku akunjalo lula xa bengayifumana inxaxheba yothando lomzali nothando. Ngoku imeko iguqukile ngokuphawulekayo, urhulumente uchaze izindlu zabantwana njengenxalenye ebalulekileyo yohlahlo lwabiwo-mali. Abantwana bafumana amancedo amaninzi kunye nokunyamekela ootitshala, ngoko banokuba yinxalenye yoluntu.

Amaqela amathathu ahlukeneyo abantwana abonisa ukuba uluntu alulula kwaye lukhuselekile. Umncinci kunye nokuphambana nomthetho-iingcamango ezingenakulinganiswa, kuba umntwana ngale ndlela uzama ukukhupha nokuphula i siseko kunye nemithetho. Nangona kunjalo, akudingeki ukuba uqwalasele la maqela ukuba i-postulate, kuba kukho ukungafani. Umntwana omncinci unokuhlakulela ngokuzimeleyo, ukuba aphethwanga ngabantu abathathu kunye nemeko yendalo.