Ngoko, masiqwalasele ngokuthe ngqo kwesi sihloko: "Ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi: izinto ezinobungozi ezifihliweyo kwaye zicacile." Ubungozi bokuqala buyingozi. Ezi ziyobisi zenza zombini indlela yokuphila yendalo kunye nesidingo sengqondo sokuzithiba. Ukuqhotyoshelana kwengqondo kubangelwa ngumlutha kwiziyobisi. Iimpawu zalo ziyimfuneko yokuqhubeka nokwandisa umthamo, ukuxhomekeke kwimizi yokuxhomekeka kweso sifo, imfuno enamandla yesondlo esilandelayo. Ukuba akukho "uhlobo lokuqhekeka" oluneentlobo ezinamandla zonyango olubhekiselele kulo, "lubuthathaka" lunokuhamba kunye noxinzelelo, ukucaphuka, intlungu, ukukhathazeka, ukuguquka komntu. Ukuxhomekeka komzwelo kubonisa ubudlelwane phakathi komntu kunye neziyobisi zakhe, kwaye kunokubangela ukuba iimeko zithinteke emva kokuba umthamo uthathwa.
Ukuxhatshazwa kwezifo ezifana nokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi kunye nokulutha kweziyobisi kunokukhokelela kwesinye, umphumo obalulekileyo. Esinye isongelo esicacileyo, esilandelayo ukusuka kwinqanaba lokuqala, kukungazinzi izinto, iindleko ezinkulu zemali, ukuphazamiseka kweentlawulo, iingxaki ezibonakalayo xa umntu ogulayo engenakho ukuhlawula iziyobisi. Ngezihlandlo ezinjalo onke amaphupha aphukile, umntu unokufuna imali kwizalamane, esongela izihlobo, athengise izinto ezibiza kakhulu ukuze athenge enye idosi. Oku akuqhelekanga kwesi sifo njengokusetyenziswa kakubi ngokweziyobisi, kuba izidakamizwa ezivela kule ndawo zihlala zingabizi, kwaye isetyhizi zingasebenzisa iikhemikhali zendlu, kunye neziyobisi eziphuculweyo, ukuzanelisa iimfuno. Kodwa oku kuthatha enye ingozi ebalulekileyo. I-toxicoma inokuthi ibonakale ngokubonakala kwayo, kuba izixhobo ezinjalo ziyichaphazela ngokucacileyo-ngaphandle kobukeka obubi bezilwanyana eziluthayo, omnye unokukwazi ukujonga ukukhwabanisa emlonyeni.
Ukongezelela, kokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi kunye nokuxilongwa kweziyobisi, nokuba nomntu ohlukileyo, kuqulethwe ngokusicatshulwa ngokucacileyo ukuba emva kwezigaba zokuzonwabisa, ukwaneliseka ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo, imiphumo ebuhlungu, i-headache, i-nausea, ityantsi. Konke oku kumntu osebenzisa izinto ezinxilisayo, intliziyo iyancipha, iinkqubo zokucinga zivinjelwe, naziphi na izakhono zilahlekile, kwaye umntu uncinci nje ngomntu njengoko kufuneka abe-ohlakaniphile, ophucukileyo i-oval, ingqiqo.
Ukongezelela, izifo ezinjalo zenza ingozi enkulu, ngokwemigaqo yokuziphatha, ingqondo yengqondo yomntu ngamnye, umntu ngamnye ngesigulane-kwaye oku kuyingozi. Impawu zokuqala zokusetyenziswa zibonakaliswa kwinyanga enye ukuya kwezimbini. Oku kungenakukhathalela ebomini, umdla wokulahlekelwa ekufundeni nasekusebenzeni, ukungabikho emsebenzini, ukuqala inkqubela, umntu ulahlekelwa izakhono zakhe. Emva koko imiphumo yezinto eziphilayo zeso sifo zibangelwa ukwethuka, ukuphazamiseka, ingxabano, ukungazinzi ngokomzimba. Isigulane sesigulane sisoloko sitshintshwa kwizinto ezinzulu ezingenakunyakazela kwaye ezibuhlungu, ngokuchaseneyo, eziphakamileyo, ezivuyayo, ezivuyayo. Kwiinyanga ezintandathu emva kwexesha - ukunyaniseka nokunganakwa. Emva koko, umntu uqala ukwakha inkqubo yakhe yexabiso ngokuphathelele izilwanyana kunye nokusetyenziswa kwayo, okungeke kulungeleke ngokwabo. Uyabona ukuba ulahlekelwe yindlela yakhe, ubomi buba nengqiqo, izinto eziphambili ziyeke ukuba zibalulekile. Emva koko, ixesha lijika i-monotone - ukuthatha idosi kwaye akukho nto, yonke into iyajikeleza kwaye ayimfuneko.
Ukucinga okunjalo, ukunganakwa omnye usuku kunokubangela ukuzibulala. Ukongezelela, ukuzibulala ngokukhawuleza, njengosongelo kumntu, kwenzeka ngexesha lonke lokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi. Umuntu uzibulala yena kunye nomzimba wakhe, impembelelo yeziyobisi kuye, kuxhomekeka kohlobo lwawo - lukhulu. Umzimba wonke ubandezeleka, obangela ukugula nokufa. Ukongezelela, ukufa okuqhelekileyo kukugqithiseleyo. Isiphumo sokusetyenziswa kwisilwanyana ngumnqweno oqhubekayo wokwandisa umthamo. Eyokuqala, "encinci" iphelile ukuphakamisa phezulu, ngoko ke inani labo likhula rhoqo, elingafikelela kwindawo ephezulu yolu hlobo, ngenxa yoko kukufa okungalindelekanga, okuyiyo ingozi efihliweyo kumntu ngamnye. Ngokuqhelekileyo le dose yiyona nto inobungozi kwaye ingalawulwa.
Ukongezelela, ukufa kungekuphela nje kokugqithiseleyo, kodwa kwezinye iintlobo zamachiza kunye nokungabi nantoni. Ngokuqhelekileyo ubunzima bezezimali, ukungabikho kwamathuba okufumana iziyobisi yimiba evusa umngcipheko. Yaye ingabi nokugxila kwezinye iidakamizwa, umntu unokufa ngenxa yokungabikho kokutya okanye esinye isidingo esibalulekileyo esinokuvela kwindlela yokuphila engalawulwayo kunye nokuntuleka kwezinto eziphathekayo.
Ingozi ebhubeni iphinde ihlaselwe kwintsapho yesigulane, kuba abahluphekanga. Kuhlala kunzima kwaye kunengqondo ukubukela isihlobo esilugulayo, ngaphezu koko, okokugqibela kungakwazi ukulawulwa kwaye kuwonakalise izihlobo zabo ngokubenza babe ngamaxhoba obundlobongela ngokwengqondo okanye ngokwasemzimbeni.
Ukuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi kusetyenziswa ngokusobala kunye nosongelo olusongelayo, ngokungathandabuzekiyo oluchaphazelayo kwaye luchaphazela ubomi bomntu. Umntu uphulukana nokuziphatha, ukomoya, ngokwakhe, ubuntu bakhe, amaphupha kunye nezicwangciso, ithemba, ukungakhankanyi ngokubhekiselele kwimpilo nokubonakala. Yena ngokwakhe uyazibulala, othelekisa ubomi bakhe ngotshani, uba ngumlutha kwiikhemikhali kwaye imihla ngemihla ubeka ubomi bakhe engozini, obangela ukuba ubomi bakhe kunye nabathandekayo bakhe bangabinakulinganiswa.