Ukubhiyozela umhla wokuzalwa komntwana ekhaya, ukuze le mini ingayibaleki na? Ncedisa umntwana wakho abe ngumninimzi wokuzalwa kwakhe, ngoko uya kukhumbula ngeli mini, kwaye namhlanje kuya kuba ngowakhe. Musa ukwesaba intuthuzelo kunye nengxolo ngokuhlwa omnye, zama ukwenza ieholide ibe nemihlali kwaye ujabule. Kukho iingcebiso ezininzi malunga nendlela yokulungiselela usuku lokuzalwa komntwana wakho kwaye wenze iholide ngaye kunye nabahlobo bakhe.
Qala ngokulungiselela usuku lwakho lokuzalwa okungenani ezimbini iveki. Ngeli xesha, uza kuba nexesha lokuthetha kunye nohlu lwabantwana lwabahlobo abamenywe. Makhe axelele ukuba ngaba ngabafana abasuka kwinqanaba okanye kwiklasi yonke - ngoko unokumthobela ngobuchule inani leendwendwe, ngokusekelwe kubhajethi yentsapho kunye nobukhulu bendlu yakho. Emva kokuthatha isigqibo malunga neendwendwe, khetha usuku lokubhiyozela - kunengqiqo ukunika umntwana wakho ukugubha iholide ngeveki-ntsuku, ukuba umhla wokuzalwa ngokukhawuleza wawa ngeveki. Zama ukucacisa ukuba bonke abahlobo abasondeleyo bangaza ngalo mhla. Ewe, ukuba umema abantwana abaneposi okanye i-postcard, wena nomntwana wakho, bonise ukuba kuya kubakho ixesha elide lokubhiyozelwa. Kuya kuba lula kubazali beendwendwe ezimenyweyo - ngoko banokuzikhetha okanye zilinde ixesha elithile. Hambisa izimemo kwangaphambili: ezine ukuya kwiintsuku ezisixhenxe ngaphambi kosuku lokuzalwa "olusemthethweni." Faka idilesi yakho kunye nenombolo yefowuni kwisimemo. Umntwana wakho uya kuba nomdla ekuzameni nokwenza amakhadi omemo, kwaye abahlobo bakhe baya kuba nomdla ngokufanayo ekufumaneni.
Ukubhiyozela usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana ekhaya lihle, zama ukudala umoya weeholide - uyihobise igumbi ngeebhola, iibhande, iimbhombo, udwebe iphosta "Siyakwamkela ukuzalwa!". Sebenzisa ithoni enye engcono kwi-design. Ngokomzekelo, iibhola ezibhakabhaka zinqunywe kwiphepha lefu eliluhlaza, uthinte iintyatyambo eziluhlaza, jongela igarland. Vumela izitya ozilungiselelayo ziza kuba namazwi amakhulu. Okanye ubhale kwiiflegi zeenkcazo, ukuba abantwana bafunde.
Ukwenza abantwana bazive bekhululekile, bakhulule isikhala kwigumbi lokuzonwabisa. Ungakulibali ukuba yonke into umntwana wakho ejwayele ukuyenza - ukungafihla i-antique vase okanye ukuvula ikhabhobho ngezinye i-crystal - abanye abantwana bangenakukwazi malunga nayo kwaye ekuphakameni kokumnandi nje abaqapheli izinto ezinjalo. Qulunqa itafile ukuze ivule ngokwaneleyo, yenza indawo eludongeni ukuze ukwazi ukuhambisa itafile, ukwenza indawo yokuzonwabisa.
Umntwana wakho ubaluleke kakhulu, ngokokuba umama wayebukeka kakuhle, ngoko cinga ngokubonakala kwakho kwangaphambili. Zinike umphefumlo emva kwazo zonke izilungiso kwaye ubuncinane isiqingatha seyure ngaphambi kokuba kwamkelwe iindwendwe kunye nomntwana wakho.
Xa udibana neendwendwe ngokuqinisekileyo kunye nomsunguli wemibhiyozo, zama ukunika abantwana indlela yokuvakalelwa-ndixelele ukuba bajonga njani kakuhle namhlanje, phawula into ekubonakala kwayo. Zilungise kwiinwele zakho okanye iimpahla xa kunesidingo, bancede banqande kwaye babonise apho isibuko siphi. Ukuba ugubha usuku lokuzalwa kwentombi yakho, zama ukunika indawo okanye igumbi lokugqoka abahlobo bakhe.
Ukufumana iindwendwe eziye zafika ngeemathoyizo zomntwana, ngelixa ezinye ziqokelela. Zama ukungabi phantsi etafileni, musa ukuphatha abantwana ngaphambili, ukuba kunokwenzeka, gqubuthela izitya nge-napkins. Ukumboza umnyango ekhitshini, ungashiyi izinto ezimangalisiweyo emehlweni. Qala ukudlala imidlalo kunye nabantwana, xa uninzi lweendwendwe sele lisebandleni, luya kunceda abantwana ukuba baphumelele kwaye baqhelane, kunye nabangemzini - ukwenza abahlobo. Kukho imidlalo yokuzazana, inokubaluleka ngakumbi kubantwana abancinci abavakalelwa ngakumbi bebini. Ngokomzekelo, lo mdlalo: sinqume iintliziyo ezivela kumaphepha ahlukeneyo ahlukeneyo kwaye usike kwisigamu, senze iinqununu zibe ngumkhonto kunye nokuxuba, cetyisa ukuba abantwana bakhuphe enye into baze bafumane isiqingatha sabo. Ukuba inani leendwendwe liyinqaba, yinqumle intliziyo enye ibe ngamaqatha amathathu. Omnye umdlalo osondeleyo: lungiselela ubude obufanayo beentambo ezinemibala, malunga neemitha ezi-2, zazisasaza phantsi, xuba, ngamnye makathathe isiphelo saluphi na intambo aze afumane iqabane lakhe kumgca.
Kwaye ke, zonke iindwendwe kwiqoqo - lixesha letafile! Yilungele, ukuba into iya kuthululela kwaye iphulwe, igcinwe ngobuninzi bemfuneko yee napkins. Lungisa isitya esingenakubuhlungu ukuphuka, ngokulula-ukulahlekelwa, sebenzisa izibuko eziphantsi ezisezantsi. Beka zonke izitya ngendlela enokufikelela kuyo wonke umntu. Kwaye phakathi kwetafile, ngokuqinisekileyo, lungise ikhekhe ngamakhandlela. Unokuxhalabisa ngokuvuna okuzayo, ngoko ulungiselele ii-pie, ii-cookies kunye neengqengqwana ezingayi kuqubuka kakhulu. Ungazami ukumangalela ngokungabalulekanga abantwana abaneentlanzi zabo, inani leentliziyo kwikhekhe, sebenzisa ukhilimu ongaphantsi. Sika ii-pie kunye namaqebelengwane zibe ngamaqhezu amancinci ukwenzela ukuba zilungele ukuthatha. Amaswitshi kufuneka abuye amancinane. Makube nelaphu ezaneleyo. Unokwenza isiraphu okanye ugxobhoze umjelo ngamanzi, kodwa qiniseka ukuba iziphuzo azinandi kakhulu. Xa utshayela itiye, khawuleza ucinge ukuba kuthatha amanzi amaninzi ukutshisa. Unayo amanzi abilisiwe ngamanzi abilisiwe, ukuze ukwazi ukunciphisa itiye elitshisayo.
Emva kokuba "umthendeleko" usuphelile, memela iindwendwe ukuba uzibeke: udibanise iinwele, uhlambe izandla. Zama ukususa ngokukhawuleza etafileni, kubandakanye nabancedisi abancinci. Lungiselela i-masks okanye i-headgear ukuze ujonge ngakumbi, enokuthi idlalwe phakathi kwabantwana kwi-lottery win-win in "kwigumbi lesibini" leholide yakho. Ngento nganye, faka inombolo, yenza amakhadi afanele ngamanani. Masks kunye neengubo zifihle amehlo emehlweni abantwana, umzekelo, zifakela ngomkhonto. Beka amakhadi etafileni phantsi, ufihle inombolo, okanye ubeke kwisitya. Ukudweba ikhadi, ngamnye umdlaleli womdlalo ufumana umvuzo wakhe - isiskiti okanye ingxowa. Cinga ngemidlalo apho abathathu bokuqala abaphumeleleyo bangahlawulelwa ngamabhaso, kodwa zama ukuguqula le midlalo ibe yimpumelelo yezipho. Ukwenza oku, enye imidlalo kunye namabhaso kunye nalawo angabikho mdlali. Amanqaku angabonwa ipen, ipensela, ipenki, iipuzzle, izibuko, amabheji, amasosha nezinye izipho.
Ngexesha lokubhiyozela usuku lokuzalwa komntwana ekhaya, zama ukuthobela ingqalelo kuyo yonke iindwendwe ezincinane, ungaqali mntu. Ukuba omnye wabantwana akangxamanga ukujoyina inkampani kwaye ehleli ekhoneni, ungagxininisi kwisimemo, sebenzisa amanye amathuba, umzekelo, unika ukukunceda ukuzisa into etafileni okanye ukuhambisa izihlalo. Ukuphatha iindwendwe ezincinci ngamagama, ugweme olo hlobo "njengabantwana." Ukuba uthe: "Bantwana, ngoku siza kuba nomdlalo omnandi," qwa lasela ukuba akukho mntu uvile, kwaye uya kufumana igama, njengoCrarade Dynin kwikampu yobuvulindlela. Ukuba kukho ingxolo eninzi kwindlu yakho, iholide yayiyimpumelelo. Ukuba iminyaka yobudala ifikelele kwiminyaka eyi-12, ke uzilungiselele oko kufuneka ukunyanzelise ukuze abantwana bangabi ncamango, bengakwazi ukuba benzani.
Kucetyiswa ukuba ukhethe imidlalo oyaziyo, ngoko akufuneki uphinde uphinde usebenze. Zama ukukhetha imidlalo ehambayo, xa unokufudumala kwaye wenze umsindo kunye nedesktophu ezithulekileyo, apho ungabonisa khona ubuchule bakho nobuchule. Ukutshintsha phakathi kweemidlalo, abantwana abayi kukwazi ukunyusa okanye "balele". Musa ukulibala ukuchaza imigaqo ngokubanzi phambi komdlalo ngamnye. Thatha inxaxheba kumdlalo njengenkokeli okanye njengomdla inxaxheba, kodwa ungakulibali ukuba awukwazi ukudala inzuzo kwiqela odlala kuyo
Ngokuqhelekileyo kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-12, iiyure ezingama-4-5 zokuzonwabisa zanele. Kwaye nangona baya kukuncenga ukuba ukwandise ixesha, unganikeli! Ukuba ixesha liza kusondela, qalisa ukulungiselela abantwana ixesha elizayo, xa ngamnye wabo elindele ekhaya. Ekupheleni kweeholide, ukunika izikhumbuzo ngohlobo lweefowuni, umzekelo, qiniseka ukuba ziyafana. Okanye unokwahlula kwiingxowa zamakhwenkwe namantombazana. Iipakethe ezikhunjulwayo "iikhopi" onakho kwiikhonksi eziqhelekileyo ze-cellophane. Ungakulibali ukubonga zonke iindwendwe ezincinane ngokuza kukugubha usuku lokuzalwa komntwana wakho ekhaya kwaye uvuyisele inkwenkwe yokuzalwa, kwaye uvakalise ithemba lokuba intlanganiso yokuqala kunye nabo.