Ubudala bomntwana bokuguquka luvavanyo lwangempela kubazali. Ingane yomsindo kunye nesithandane esandulayo iphenduka ngokukhawuleza ibe yintsholongwane enganelisekanga kwaye ihoxiswe. Kwintsapho kukho ukungaqondani, ukuxabana kunye neengxabano, kubazali, njengabantwana ngokwabo, abahlala bengalungele. Kwiingxaki eziphambili zobutsha kunye nezindlela zokuzisombulula kwaye uthetha kwinqaku lethu lanamhlanje.
Abavukeli abancinci: izizathu zokuguquka kokuziphatha kubantwana abaselula
Ngaphambi kokuxazulula iingxaki zentsha, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda imvelaphi ye "inyawo" ngee-whims kunye nabahlaziyi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, isizathu esona siphezu kweenguqu zomzimba, okanye kunoko, ekuhlaziyweni komzimba. Esi siqhwithi sangempela se-hormonal, esinoxanduva lokuguquka kwemizwelo, iinyembezi ezingenangqiqo kunye nokunyanzeliswa kongeza kwintsholongwane. Iqala malunga no-6-7 kwibakala. Kulo thuba iingxaki zokuqala zengxaki zentsha zivela: i-acne, ukuphula izwi, ukuphuhliswa okungafaniyo komzimba. Esi siqhwithi siza kuphelisa kuphela xa utshintsho lwezinto eziphilayo ukusuka kumntwana ukuya kumntu omdala, malunga neminyaka eyi-16-18, luphelile.
Kodwa kungekhona nje i-hormone ukubeka ityala kwizinto eziyinkimbinkimbi zokuziphatha kwentsha. Uninzi lweengxaki zinokuqulunqwa kweengxaki zengqondo: ukungaqondakali kwabazali, ukukhanyela oontanga, ubunzima beentlalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iingxaki zolutsha ziyakwazi ukwahlula zibe ngamaqela amakhulu amathathu: amava omzwe, ama-physics complexes, iingxaki zokunxibelelana.
Iingxaki zobutsha: amava anamandla angamava
IiHormoni - izinto eziphambili ezenza isigxina ekukhutsheni. Baye "bafana" kangangokuthi kwanokuba umcibisholo omncinci ungabangela ukuba impendulo enamandla kakhulu iphendule. Ngoko ke amandla owaziwayo olwaqalayo, okoqobo okuthintela umntwana. Namaqhinga angenangqiqo, ukuguquka kwemizwelo, ukuxinezeleka, ukungquzulana nazo ziphumo zentlungu enamandla.
Unokukunceda njani? Yiba kufuphi kwaye uxhasane. Kungcono ukwenza okungafaniyo, umzekelo, ukwabelana ibali elifanayo ebomini kunye namava akho. Ngokuqhelekileyo intliziyo intetho entliziyweni kwaye uyeke ukugxeka nokuhlekisa amava abantwana.
Iingxaki zobutsha: iinkomfa ngenxa yokubonakala
Nangona umntwana engenazo iintlungu kunye nobunzima obunzima, oku akuthethi ukuba uyavuya ngokubonakala kwakhe. Abaselula banemvakalelo malunga nokuzikhethela kwaye abanqabile kakhulu ukuhambelana nolwazi lwangaphandle lwangaphandle. Oku kubangelwa utshintsho oluthile lomzimba, oluqhelekileyo lunomfanekiso we-spasmodic.
Unokukunceda njani? Zama ukucacisa ukuba umzimba onjalo awuyi kuba njalo kwaye kungekudala uzakuguqula ukuphucula. Ukunyusa umntwana kumdlalo. Kuboniswa ukuba abantwana ababandakanyekayo kwimidlalo esebenzayo bayakwazi ukufumana iingxaki eziselula.
Ingxaki zobutsha: ubunzima beentlalo
Kule nqanaba kunokubanjelwa njengento engabonakaliyo impawu zobunqunu (ubuncwane, iintloni, ukuzihlukanisa) kunye nokubonakaliswa kokuziphatha okungahambiyo (utywala, ukutshaya, ukutshabalalisa, ukutshaya iziyobisi). Isizathu seengxaki zidla ngokungahambelani nendlela umntu azizwa ngayo nendlela abanye abayibona ngayo.
Unokukunceda njani? Ukukhuthaza oonxibelelwano oluthile lwezentlalo, khuthaza ukunxibelelana nabahlobo abasondeleyo kunye nabafunda nabo. Ukuba umntwana akanalo abahlobo, kufuneka ufune ukumnceda. Ngokomzekelo, bhalela kwicandelo lezemidlalo okanye isangqa semibalelo.