Ungayisebenzisa njani umhla wokuzalwa komntwana?


Unyaka ngamnye, siyazibuza indlela yokuhlela umhla wokuzalwa komntwana. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, sasivalelwe kwikhekhe elula kunye namakhandlela kunye neebhaluni, kodwa ngoku oku kulindelekileyo kwabantwana banamhlanje baye batshintsha. Yaye wonke umzali unethemba lokuba kulo suku olukhethekileyo umntwana uya kuvuya yaye uyavuya. Indlela yokuchitha ixesha lokuzalwa komntwana ukuze avuyiswe, kwaye iya kuxutyushwa ngezantsi.

Ukuququzelela lo msebenzi, kuya kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukwenza lo cwangciso lulandelayo:

1. Umxholo weeholide;

2. Inani leendwendwe kunye nobulili babo;

3. Indawo kunye nexesha;

4. Iimeko (ukhuphiswano, izabelo, imidwebo, njl);

5. Imfuneko;

6. Imenyu

Ngoku qwalasela into nganye.

Iimfuno zosuku lokuzalwa

Ngaphambi kokuba kuqale ukubhiyozelwa, kuyafaneleka ukuba kubuze umntwana oko akufunayo kwiholide. Oku kufuneka kwenziwe ukwenzela ukuba umntwana awazi nto. Nangona abazali basondelene nomntwana kunye nolwazi lwemiba yakhe, ngoko bayazi into ayithandayo kunye nokokumangaliswa nguye. Ingaba yiholide enomdla kwindlela yamaNdiya, ama-pirates, abafokazi, iindlovukazi kunye neenkwenkwezi, izilwanyana ezisetyhini, njl njl. ngoko wakho umntwana kunye nabahlobo bakhe baya kuba ngabathathi-nxaxheba ngqo kwiindaba zefayile kwaye baya kukwazi ukufumana izinto ezingenakulibaleka. Kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwizilwanyana zabo ezizithandayo. Ukuba ulindele isihloko kusengaphambili, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba ulungiselele zonke izinto - ukunyusa kwegumbi, iiprops, amamenyu, njl. Ukuba, umzekelo, umntwana wakho uyamthanda uWinnie wePooh, iibhola okanye izitya ngomfanekiso wakhe ziya kulungeleka. Kukho iisethi ezipheleleyo kunye namaqhawe emilingo. Kodwa akukho konke. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba isihloko sakho sigqibeleleyo kwaye siphucule kangcono ngumntwana, udinga umntu onokubamba usuku lokuzalwa, ngokubhekiselele kwisihloko esikhethiweyo. Ngaba unokuzenza ngokwakho? Mkhulu! Ukuba akunjalo, qwa lasela kwangaphambili. Ingaba ngumzali onokuzihlaziya ngokufanelekileyo nabantwana. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, ucinga ukuba kwisangqa sakho akukho mntu unako, ngoko kufanelekile ukubuza umbuzo kwinqanaba labangani kunye nosapho ukuba umntu ulungele ukwenza lo msebenzi. Ekugqibeleni, unokucela uncedo kwimibutho apho abaculi ababandakanya khona. Eli liqela labantu ababandakanyeke ngokufanelekileyo ekuhleleni imicimbi yabantwana. Kodwa, kufuneka, ingqalelo ingqalelo yomntwana wakho kwaye, nokuba uya kuthemba umntu omtsha kumdlalo.

Inani kunye nesondo sabantwana

Kubalulekile ukucinga kwangaphambili malunga nenani labantu abamenywe kwiqela. Into ephambili - makangene inxaxheba kwenkqubo yokukhetha iindwendwe. Akufanele kube ngunyanzeliso okanye iingcebiso ezingenakunyusa. Akunjalo, kwaye uyazihlaziya kunye nabahlobo-makakhethe, kwaye ucinga ukuba ukhethe. Kungcono ukuthumela isimemo ngokubhaliweyo-oku kuya kuba mnandi kwiindwendwe ngokwabo kwaye kuya kunika umcimbi ukubaluleka nokubaluleka. Abantwana bayabathanda xa bebhekwa njengabantu abadala. Makhe bafumane isimemo sangempela sokuba "abadala" - baya kukhumbula le ixesha elide. Namela ingqalelo ngesondo sabantwana abamenywe. Kuxhomekeke kule nto, phuhlisa isitayela esifanelekileyo sokumema kunye nokubhaliweyo kubo.

Indawo kunye nexesha lomcimbi

Umhla wokuzalwa kufuneka uhlelwe kwindawo apho umntwana eziva ekhululekile kwaye ephephile. Uninzi lwabo luhlala luhlala ekhaya kunye nosapho. Ngelishwa, ngenxa yeemeko zezindlu ezahlukeneyo, abazali bahlala bengazi ukuba benzani kule meko. Ukuba unethamsanqa ngemozulu, ungayichitha usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana kunene kwididi, enceda ezininzi izinto zokuzonwabisa, inkululeko yokuhamba kwaye ikuvumela ukuba ube nenkululeko. Xa imozulu ingavumeleli oku, kubalulekile ukujonga kwindlu yakho, njengendawo yokudlala. Ungazama ukulungelelanisa izimo zendawo kunye nezixhobo zolu hlobo lweholide.

Kungekudala kuye kwaba nethuba lokuhlela imihla yokuzalwa kumaqela ahlukeneyo kunye namaziko okudlala. Oku kungaba yinto efanelekileyo, kodwa kufuneka uqaphele iinkcukacha ezininzi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwiiklabhu, ingaphakathi lenzelwe ngendlela enokuba nezinto ezininzi ezinobungozi, njengemiphetho ebukhali, iindawo eziphezulu zokufikelela, ukufikelela ngokuthe ngqo kwezibane, njl njl.
Ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzalwa kwabantwana iminyaka engama-7-8 iiliyure ezimbini. Ngelo xesha abantwana banomdla kakhulu kwaye banomdla. Imisebenzi emide ibangela ukukhathala, ukuxhalaba, kunye namaxesha amaxesha nokutshitshisa nokuxabana phakathi kwabantwana. Inqaku elihle kukuba phakathi kwesiqhamo esiqhelekileyo kuyinto yesiko ukukhonza ikhekhe - kubantwana le nto iyintandokazi kakhulu yeholide. , Kungcono ukuququzelela imihla yokuzalwa ekuseni okanye, njengendlela yokugqibela, ngaphambi kwe-15: 00. Ngeli xesha, abantwana banomdla kakhulu kumdlalo.

Isimo

Into enhle kukuba, unokuvumela ukucinga kwakho kuqhube. Funda kumntwana oko angathanda ukudlala nabangani bakhe, unokukunceda kakhulu kule nto. Kukho ezininzi iincwadi apho amaninzi emincintiswano, imisebenzi kunye nemidlalo kunye nabantwana bamaxesha ahlukeneyo asetyenziswa. Cinga iminyaka yobudala bakho xa ubhala iskripthi, ukhetho lwakhe kwimidlalo, abalinganiswa bakhe abathandayo. Unokucela uncedo kwiingcali. Into ephambili - isigqibo malunga nesihloko, kwaye ezinye ziya kwenza kube lula.

Imincintiswano kunye nemidlalo kufuneka zilungiswe kunye nomxholo onikwe. Umntu obandakanyekayo kwimibhiyozo yokuzalwa komntwana kufuneka athathe amanyathelo ukuqinisekisa ukuba zonke iimpumelelo zabantwana zidibene namaqhawe abo abathandayo. Abantwana bafanele bazijabulise - kufuneka kube nemincintiswano (kubo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba ngaphandle kweyodwa), iipuzzle, iigrafle, ifuna izinto ezifihlekileyo (ubuncwane), njl njl. Musa ukuphazamisa imisebenzi yabantwana, ingakumbi ukuba umdlalo abawuthandayo - kufuneka ubanike inkululeko yokudlala ngokwaneleyo. Imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo ingaquka ukufumana umzobo womzimba womzobo (umzobo ebusweni) kunye nomzekelo weebhaluni, ezingafuneki ubuchule obukhulu. Njengomthetho, izilwanyana zengcali zibandakanya kule nto

Props

Kufuneka wenze kuqala uluhlu. Cinga kwangaphambili into oyifunayo kwimidlalo kunye nemincintiswano, kunye nokuhlobisa igumbi okanye igceke. Cinga ukukhethwa komntwana wakho kunye nezinto ezithandwayo. Ukuba uthanda ukudweba, lungiselela iziqwenga zeeman kunye upende. Bala kwangaphambili inani leprops ukwenzela ukuba ngelixesha leeholide aliyi kuvela ukuba umntu ulahlekile into ethile. Thenga iiplastiki, upende, iindophi, izitya kunye nomfanekiso wamagorha e-feiry, iincwadi kunye nayo yonke into esekweni sakho.

Imenyu

Akukho nto inzima. Abantwana bathanda iilekese - wonke umntu uyazi oku. Bonke ababalulekanga kubo. Ndikholelwe, akunakuqonda ukufihla itafile enkulu kubantwana. Baza ukuzalwa komhla wokuzalwa ukuze bangadli, kodwa badlale baze bahlekise kunye nabahlobo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abayi kuphulaphula ukutya. Into ebenokuyityelela ikheke ngekhandlela. Yiloo nto, kwaye kuyafaneleka ukunyamekela. Kwaye malunga nabanye - ungakhathazeki. Iipesele ezininzi kunye nejusi yemvelo - yiyo yonke into oyifunayo yokuzalwa komntwana.