Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, xa enye yezonxibelelwano zokuqala zentlalo ibonakala, oku kwabangela uvuyo lwangempela. Wonke umntu wayefuna ukudala iakhawunti yakhe kwaye wandise inani labangani. Njengoko unokulindela, ngokugqithiseleyo kwexesha, ingxaki yavela ngokuxhomekeka kwabaselula kwi-intanethi.
Injongo yokuqala yezonxibelelwano zentlalo yayikudibanisa abantu. Siyabonga kubo, kwaba lula ukugcina unxibelelwano olude. Abaninzi bafumana izihlobo zabo, abafunda nabo, abahlobo babantwana. Ubuchule bokuhambelana nenethwekhi bubeka imali ngokubanzi kwi-akhawunti yefowuni, ingakumbi ukuba iinkonzo ze-intanethi zingenamkhawulo, kuba akufanele ubize elinye ilizwe. Kukulungele ukusombulula iingxaki ngokukhawuleza, ukongeza, unokubambisana nabantu abaningana.
Isici esihle sezonxibelelwano zentlalo kwakukho amathuba okudala amaqela anomdla. Wonke umntu uya kukwazi ukufumana into ayithandayo, ukusuka kumaqela aseburhulumenteni abathandayo, ekugqibeleni ingxoxo yamabhobhofrithi asetshisayo okanye izinto ezintsha ezifashisayo. Amaqela anjalo akulungele ulutsha lwabafundi, kuba kubonga kubo kusoloko kunokwenzeka ukufunda iindaba zaseyunivesiti, ishedyuli okanye izabelo kwizifundo.
Kwaye ngakwelinye icala ngeendlela ezininzi kwakulo msebenzi owabangela ukuba kuxhomekeke kubantu abatsha. Ngesinye isikhathi kwakukho "uqobo" lokujoyina amaqela. Kwiimeko ezininzi, zonke iimemo zenziwa ukuba zikhangise, ngokusemgangathweni, nayiphi na impahla, nakwiisayithi eziphangaleleyo. Ngokubanzi, okwaneleyo ukubeka isihlungi kwiimemo kunye nengxaki iza kuxazululwa ngokwayo, kodwa iya kunceda abo bangqubana neposi. I-Adolescents, abathi ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo abanako ukunakekelwa kwabazali, bashiywe kubo kwaye ngaphambili bexhomekeka kuxhomekeke kwiintanethi zentlalo. Akufuneki ukuba, ukuthetha okunjalo kumaqela akukho nto ekhokelela kuyo nayiphi na into enhle.
Nangona abaphikisanayo nabaxhasi bezonxibelelwano zentlalo ngamanye amaxesha bawela kuxhomekeke kubo. Kwaye isizathu sokufikelela kwiifayile ze-multimedia. Ndiyabulela "i-sotsialkam" akufuneki uchithe ixesha elikhangela i-movie entsha okanye ingoma evelelwe kwirediyo, kuba konke oku kusenokwenzeka kwiphepha lomntu. Yaye ngelixa i-clip imithwalo, uqala ukujonga imifanekiso, iifoto, uze ubalekele ngokupheleleyo ukuba kutheni uhambe. Ngoko ngoku qalisa uqala "ukuxhoma" kwi-intanethi ngaphandle kwesidingo.
Iintanethi zentlalo, ezifana ne-Facebook, i-VKontakte, i-Twitter, ikuvumela ukuba uqaphele ezininzi zeemeko ezenzeka ebomini bakho "abahlobo", abadumileyo. Ukuxhoma kwi-albhamu yosuku lokuzalwa oludlulileyo, uhambo oluyimpumelelo, iifotoshoots, imimiselo eqingqiweyo-konke oku kunokuba buxoki, ngaphandle kokuba befakwe kwi-real-acquaintment yakho. Kodwa inzululwazi ihamba phambili - kwaye uhlala ngokukhawuleza, uzama ukungaphuthelwa kweendaba kwaye ngokukhawuleza ube ngumlutha. Kunokuba kuphelile? Ukwenqatshelwa kwihlabathi langaphandle, ukujonga abantu ngokuphela kwiprogram ekunxibelelwano kwezentlalo kunye nokuchitha ixesha, elingasetyenziselwa kunye nabahlobo bokwenene, ukuba bafunde indlela yabo imicimbi engekho ngayo, kodwa ngoqhagamshelwano.
Ukuxhomekeka kukwazisa kwakhona izicelo zokukhanya. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu bayabandezeleka kuye nawuphi na imidlalo ekhompyutheni ayifaka yonke into. Ingxaki kule meko iphinde iphelelwe yimali. Ukuthengwa kwemali yebhonasi, ukutshintshwa kwinqanaba elitsha. Ukuxhamla, umntu akayikulawula izenzo zakhe kwaye unako ukutshala imali eninzi kwiibhonasi ezinjalo. Ngenxa yokulungelelanisa, siyaqaphela ukuba baninzi ngabazali kwaye inkunkuma enjalo yenziwa, njengomthetho, ngaphandle kolwazi lwabo.
Oku kungabandakanya umnqweno wokunyusa ukwandisa ukulinganiswa kwintanethi ukunika izipho ezibonakalayo, ezikhulayo ngokwemvelo kwizigidi zeSMS. Kwaye ukuba uyayiqonda, ke ukulinganiswa kukuvumela ukuba ube ngaphezulu kwoluhlu lwabahlobo, kwaye akukho. Ngokwenene kuyimfuneko ukuba isetyenziswe? !!
Kodwa zonke ezinye izicelo zingaba luncedo kakhulu. Ngabo unokuphulaphula i-rediyo, ukuguqulela itekisi, khangela isantya sokudlulisa idatha. Mane ufake uphawu lokutshekisha kwisethingi, ukulahla zonke izimemo kwaye awuyi kuhendwa ukuba ufake i "flash drive drive" engadingekile.
Abaninzi abaselula banokubamba imifanekiso kwisimo esifanelekileyo. Ukuxhomekeka kudla ngokuwa kulabo abadala umfanekiso wabo ocacileyo nge-akhawunti. Ngaloo ndlela, abantu bazama ukuzibhokoxa, ngakumbi ukuba yonke into ayifuni njengamaphephancwadi kwiprofayili yabo. Njengomthetho, abafuni ukuhlangabezana nabo ebomini, kuba besaba ukubonakala phambi kwabantu njengoko bekunjalo. Olu hlobo lokuxhomekeka luphelelwe izifo zengqondo, ukuvalwa kwaye kungekhona umnqweno wokudibanisa ngaphandle kwenethiwekhi. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, uncedo lwe-psychologist luyimfuneko.
Nangona ungenayo ingxaki enjalo, cinga ngendlela yokuthumela ulwazi lomntu kwiphepha lakho. Ngethuba lethu, amanxibelelwano enzentlalo ayasetyenziselwa ukuthetha kuphela, kodwa nokuqokelela ulwazi oluthe ngqo malunga nomntu. Ukuba ufuna ukucacisa inombolo yoqhagamshelwano okanye idilesi yebhokisi yeposi, vala iphepha ngaphandle kwabasebenzisi.
Ukuxhomekeka kwabantu abatsha kwiintanethi ezithandwayo zentlalo yintyantyambo yoluntu yanamhlanje. Kwaye kufuneka wenze imizamo emininzi yokusingatha le ngxaki. Ukuba ubomi bakho bambi bufana ne-anecdote eyaziwayo: "Ndaya kwi-intanethi imizuzu emihlanu - iyure nesiqingatha sele zidlulile," ngoko lixesha lokuthatha isenzo kwaye sizincame ekutshiseni kwexesha kwikhompyutha. Musa ukujika ukuthetha ngokubhaliweyo, kungcono uthathe kwiintanethi zentlalo kuphela luncedo kwaye uyakwazi ukucofa iqhosha elithi "phuma" ngexesha.