Iiveki zeeveki zingabantwana kuphela inkululeko kunye nethuba lokulala. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kukwahluleka ukuzibamba, ubunzima obubi, inzondo. Ndinganceda njani? Ziziphi iindlela zokuzonwabisa (ngaphandle kweTV kunye nekhompyutha) ukunikela? Ngoko, intlanganiso yomzali: yintoni enokuyenza nomntwana. Ngoko ukuba ngaphandle kokulimala kwimpilo kunye nomdla kunye. Kukho iindlela ezingama-32.
Kukho ezininzi zokupheka ezilula onokuzifumana kunye nabantwana bakho. Ukuba ukwesaba ukuthabatha uncedo lwe-ovini (umntwana unokutshisa ngokuzenzekelayo), kutheni ungazami ukwenza, umzekelo, i-chocolate ice cream? Isiqhamo asiyibuhlungu.
Ukuba abantwana bathanda isicwatshi, kutheni ungavumelani ukuba bafike ngeenguqu ezahlukeneyo? Iziphumo zinokuba yiyona nto ingalindelekanga (umzekelo, isanti kunye nejamu, isobho kunye nobisi). Xa udlulayo, cacisa umntwana ukuba zeziphi iimveliso ezinokudibaniswa kwaye ezingenako.
Ubudala: Ngokukhawuleza ukuba umntwana angakwazi ukufikelela kwitafile.
2. Hamba uqalise i-kite.
Ngomhla ophumayo umoya, unokugijima emva kwenyoka endizayo ngenomdla. Ungathenga enye kwisitokethi seetoyi okanye uzame ukwenza ngokwakho. Enyanisweni, kubalulekile ukujonga kwiincwadi - kukho iteknoloji ethile. Kodwa umntwana uya kuvuya ukufumana njengenjongo yakhe yenyoka yakhe ekhethekileyo neyodwa.
Olu lonwabo "ludonsa" kunye nabantu abadala. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali banomdla ngokugqithiseleyo kumdlalo baze balungiselele ukhuphiswano lokwenene. Le ndlela yindlela ebalulekileyo yokuzibhenela kwaye uthathe umntwana wakho.
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3. Bafundise ukukhambisa ngomnqamlezo.
Kuzwakala kungaqhelekanga, kodwa olu hlobo luqeqesho luncedo. Olu phuhliso lwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi, kunye nemfundo yokunyamezela, nokuqhelana nobugcisa kunye nobugcisa. Unokuthenga iikiti ezikhethekileyo zokugcoba abantwana, ngoko abayizilimaza ngokwamasilane, kwaye iipatheni zesampula ziya kuba lula. Abantwana abakhulileyo banganikwa ukuzama ukufaka imodeli enzima kunzima.
Ubudala: 7 +
4. Yenza iiplanethi zamaphepha.
Faka ingcinga yakho kwaye udale umkhosi wamaphepha ephepha. Emva koko unokwenza ulungelelwano lwenkqantosi enokuzonwabisa ekhaya. Unokucinga ukuba kukhangeleka ngakumbi ukupenda. Unokwenza ube nobukhulu obuhlukeneyo nobume.
Hlela ukhuphiswano kwibala lolawulo. Okanye faka "iinjongo" eludongeni kwaye uphenduke uzame ukungena kuwo. Unokufumana iphephancwadi apho iilazi ziza kufakwa khona. Kwakhona, akunakulungelelanisa ukufumana umvuzo wowinqobileyo.
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5. Bhala ibhali.
Sebenzisa indlela ocinga ngayo kwaye ubhale inkcazelo yamagama kunye. Oku akufanele kube ngumsebenzi wobugcisa. Umzekelo, unokumema umntwana ukuba eze kunye nomnye ukuphela kwimixholo ayithandayo. Okanye yenzele yakho, apho i-protagonist iya kuba yedwa.
Unokuzama kwakhona ukubhalela ibali lefayile ndawonye kwezinye iindawo. Umzekelo, ubhala ekuqaleni, uze uvakalise isigwebo sokugqibela kuphela. Umntwana uyaqhubeka. Emva koko ukuphela kubhaliwe ngumntwana wesibini okanye uyise (ugogo, utata). Funda yonke indaba ngokuvakalayo - kudla ngokuhle kumnandi.
Ubudala: iminyaka engama-6 ubudala
6. Hlela iidaniso.
Mema abanye bahlobo bomntwana wakho, thabatha iCD kunye nomculo wabo ozithandayo uze ubavumele ukudanisa nento abayifunayo. Konke okufuneka ukwenze ukubonelela ngeziphuzo kunye nokutya.
Ubudala: 8 +
7. Nika umntwana ukuba athathele.
Kuthetha ukuphakamisa ukuvinjelwa kokugxuma, ukugijima nokunyuka. Myeke umntwana ukuba anqabise. Kuya kuba kuhle ukulungisa isikhungo sokudlala ekhaya. Yenza izihlalo kunye kwaye mazivumele ukuba zibe ngumjelo. Beka ingubo phantsi, kunye nemithwalo embalwa kuyo. Oku kunokuba udibanise amatye. Ewe, kuyavakala kungamangalisa, kwanekwesaba. Kodwa kholwa mna: umntwana wakho uya kuvuya! Ngaphandle koko, umsebenzi osebenzayo uyakunceda! Ewe, unako ukuthumela umntwana ngaphandle kokuhamba. Kodwa oku kufanelekileyo kuphela kubantwana abadala. Kodwa kuthekani ngezingane? Kwaye indlu ikhuselekile.
Ubudala: 4-12
8. Paint iingubo.
Kulo ntloko ngokukhawuleza kubonakala umfanekiso we-hippie, kodwa le ndlela yokuzonwabisa ayihlangani naso. Mhlawumbi unesiqwenga seengubo zangasese, okungekho wena kunye nomntwana wakho ongagqoki. Phakamisa! Kukhona ipende ekhethekileyo yombumba. Unokuzixuba, ukhangele umdala osekuqaleni. Phucula! Lihle! Umntwana wakho uya kuvuya.
Ubudala: 9 +
9. Vula "ixesha lokuzingela" ngezinto.
Fakela uluhlu lwezinto ezonwabileyo eziza kufunyanwa ngumntwana. Ungazifihla kwangaphambili. Vumela umntwana ukuba abe ngumzingeli. Okanye umqhubi. Umgca wokuba kukuba uyamdla ukuba ahambe ekukhangekeni. Unokuzingela indlu okanye umyezo wakho. Unako kwaye kwintendelezo yezakhiwo eziphakamileyo, kodwa ubukele umntwana, ungamlahli.
Ubudala: 8 +
10. Yenza i-sundial.
Tshela umntwana wakho ukuba ngamaxesha amandulo abantu basebenzisa njani ukuchaza ixesha elangeni. Indlela yokwakha i-sundial. Into oyifunayo yikhampasi ukucacisa ukuba ungasentlaphi. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokwenza oku ngaphandle kwekhampasi. Emva koko faka intonga kwisiseko sesangqa (ungayidonsa emhlabathini okanye kumaphepha) kwaye usebenzise amanqaku njengeholo eliqhelekileyo. Ngoku unako ukugcina umgca wesithunzi sendawo, ngokulandelanayo, ukuhamba kwelanga.
Ubudala: 7 +
11. Tyalela isityalo ndawonye.
Ukulima kwezityalo akusiyo nje into eyenza umdla, kodwa nesifundo esihle sengqondo. Umntwana uya kufunda ukuqonda ukuba isityalo siyinto edinga ukunakekelwa. Ukuba ikhula, idla kunye nokunyanga okungafanelekanga. Kunomdla kakhulu kumntwana ukuba agcine indlela atshintsha ngayo, uhlale ebona iziqhamo zomsebenzi wakhe. Zininzi izityalo ezinokuba umntwana omncinci angakhula ngaphandle komgudu omkhulu. Ingaba ngumthi omncinci kunye nengca.
Ukuba awunayo intsimi, ibhokisi okanye iibhotile ezincinane yindlela yokuphuma kuyo. Kwaye akuyi kuba nantoni na ngexesha lonyaka ohlala kulo mntwana. Zama ukukhula utshani ezifana ne-basil, iparsley okanye i-watercress. Akunzima, kwaye ungadla emva koko.
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12. Yiya kwimidlalo.
Amanqanaba amaninzi okuzonwabisa anamathuba amaninzi okuboleka abantwana kwimidlalo eyahlukeneyo yezemidlalo - ukusuka kwi-kartial arts ukuya kwi-badminton, ukusuka ekubhapheni ukuya kwi-tennis. Ukongezelela, baqhele ukubonelela ngezixhobo zemidlalo kunye neyunifomu, ngoko akudingeki ukuba uthenge konke.
Ukuba akukho ziko ezifanayo kwidolophu yakho okanye akukho nanye ixesha lokuya khona - ungene kwimidlalo ekhaya! Vula umculo kwaye wenze imisebenzi embalwa elula. Ukuhlelwa kweebhotile zeplastiki. Okanye udlale itafile ye-tennis ngeencwadi kunye nebhola elincinci. Okanye uqhube ibhola ekhatywayo. Kukho inketho ezininzi. Into ephambili - zibandakanya imbali kwaye uphonye ubuvila.
Ubudala: 7 +
13. Yenza ifama yegusha.
Ukuba unako ukutsala umdla wakho kumntwana ngegadi, yenza uhambo olulandelayo - yakha ifama yeefama. Kuya kubakho ukufumana umququzelelo-umquba womyezo wakho. Ukongezelela, abantwana baya kuba sekuhlaleni okungenakuchazwa ngokuqokelela nokugcina izidalwa eziphilayo. Emva kwemvula, ixesha elihle lokuzingela izibungu. Emva kokuba uqokelele ngokwaneleyo-bawabeke kwibhokisi enkulu okanye esinye isitsha kunye nenani elincinane lomhlaba. Musa ukulibala ukwenza izimbobo kwisibambo, ngoko iimbongolo ziya kukwazi ukuphefumula. Uyakwazi ukondla ukutya kwenkunkuma kwiimbungu, kubandakanywa iibhola zeqanda kunye nokucoca kwezityalo. Iifom ziya kwenza umquba oza kuwusebenzisa kumyezo wakho.
Ubudala: 7 +
14. Dlala abadwebi.
Luhlobo luni lomntwana aluthandi ukwenza izandla zakhe zingcolile? Thatha udongwe oluthile lokumisela, ummese weplastiki kunye nokuma. Ungakwazi nokuthenga udongwe, ukuba ufuna ukugcina "ubugcisa" obunobuninzi ixesha elide. Phucula! Makhele umnxibelelwano wakhe. Ndikholelwe, uya kuyenza ngenomdla wokwenene.
Ubudala: 8 +
15. Funda iincwadi ezivela kwithala leencwadi yakho.
Njalo indlela efanelekileyo yokuphazamisa. Ukongeza, kunokuba luncedo xa umntwana efunda ngokwakhe. Ungayifunda enye ngexesha. Okanye khuphisana ngokuhlaziya. Indlela efanelekileyo yokuchitha ixesha nomntwana wakho ngobusuku obusika obusika okanye ngaphambi kokulala.
Ubudala: iminyaka engama-6 ubudala
16. Dlala umdlalo webhodi.
Kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi ukuba kukho abadlali abaninzi. Xhuma kule ntsapho yonke. Kukho imidlalo yebhodi ebomdla kakhulu, apho kunzima khona ukufikelela kubantu abadala.
Yiyiphi inzuzo enkulu yeemidlalo ezidibeneyo? Kukwazi ukulahlekelwa! Umntwana makafunde oku kwaye aqonde ukuba ukulahlekelwa yinxalenye yomdlalo.
Ubudala: 7 +
17. Hamba ukuhamba.
Ingaba uhlala kwisixeko okanye kwidolophana, unokuhlala ufumana indawo enomdla ukuhamba. Umzekelo, hamba apho ungakaze ube khona ngaphambili. Okanye uhambe kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo, uzijonga ngamehlo endwendwe. Njengokuba awuzange ube khona ngaphambili. Okanye uzicinge nje nge-Pathfinders, abaphandi beempazamo ezahlukeneyo kunye neemfihlelo zemvelo. Kwaye unokuhamba nje, ukhangele yonke into ejikeleze ngokuthe ngqo kunexesha eliqhelekileyo. Ngoko unomdla kwaye unesiqiniseko sokubamba umntwana wakho.
Ubudala: iminyaka engama-6 ubudala
18. Yiya kwi-zoo.
Nangona uhlala kwisixeko, kukho ithuba lokuba yedwa kunye nendalo. Umntwana uya kuba nomdla ekujongeni izilwanyana ezisuka kwiindawo ezihlukeneyo zeplanethi, ngakumbi ukuba uya kuthetha malunga ngamnye kubo. Kwakhona nethuba elihle lokusondela kwintlango ukuba udibaniso lomntwana wakho owedlule wayephethe ikati okanye inja.
Ubudala: iminyaka emine ubudala
19. Yiya kwi-cinema.
I-DVD ngexesha lethu kulula ukuyifumana, kodwa akukho nto ifanisa ne-cinema. Kwiiseshoni zezingane, ithikithi idla ngokuncinci, kwaye umntwana uya kufumana ukuzonwabisa ngaphezu kwephahla. Xoxa naye ngezinto ozibonayo, wabelane ngemibono yakho. I-Cinema yihlabathi elimangalisayo, imbonakalo eya kuhlala nomntwana ubomi. Kholwa, kunjalo.
Ubudala: 7 +
20. Yiya kumlambo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kufuphi nomzi wakho kukho umlambo. Hamba khona kunye. Amanzi ngumthengisi omhle. Uza kuphumla kuphela ukusuka kwelinye lihlala ecaleni komlambo wamanzi. Umntwana uya kuhlala efumana into eyenziwa ngumlambo. Into elula ukuvumela ukuba izikebhe ziphume. Khangela ubutyebi obulahlekileyo elunxwemeni. Hlanganisa amatye athandwayo, ama-seashells. Jonga iintlanzi okanye abalobi. Awuyi kubukeka nantoni na.
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21. Fumana amanxuwa amakhulu.
Iingqungquthela, iindawo ezilahlayo, imingxuma kunye nemigodi yindawo yemilingo. Bathabatha ingcamango yamantombazana kunye namantombazana. Bafuna ukuwela iinqwelo, ukugijima kunye nokuhla kwezitepsi zokuhamba kunye nokukhangela izibhamu. Ukuba akukho zindawo zembali kwindawo yakho - cinga ibali lakho! Ngokomzekelo, vumela echibini emaphethelweni abe yilezi zamatshizi zentombi enhle. Okanye i-pine emgodini - iphendulwe kanye ngumoya okhohlakeleyo. Fantasize! Fumana indawo enomdla kwaye uhambe khona nomntwana.
Ubudala: iminyaka engama-6 ubudala
22. tyelela i-museum.
Siyazi ukuba iimyuziyamu ziyakhathaza abantu abaninzi, kodwa iimyuziyam ezininzi sele zenza umgudu omkhulu wokuba lunomdla kubantwana. Ukongeza, olo luhambo luncedo kakhulu. Emva koko, yintoni enye onokuyifunda ngembali yelizwe lakho, ubunjani, izithethe, ihlabathi lezilwanyana kunye nezityalo. Yiya-uya kuba nomdla.
Ubudala: 7 +
23. Thatha nabo kootatomkhulu.
Uninzi lwaba bantwana bathanda le mihambo. Bathanda ukuthetha nabantu abadala, kuba bona ngokwabo basondela kubantwana abaneminyaka yobudala. Kutheni ungamenyanga unyana okanye intombi yakho ukuba abuze indlela abahlala ngayo xa babengabantwana. Benzani ukuzonwabisa? Ziziphi iimidlalo zabo ezithandayo? Ngaba babukele iTV? Abantwana bakho baya kumangaliswa yimpendulo.
Ubudala: 9 +
24. Hlela uphando lobutyebi.
Fihla nayiphi into ebalulekileyo (ngokomntwana) naphi na endlwini okanye egcekeni. Emva koko bhala amathiphu ambalwa, okanye imephu, okanye inkqubo yeempawu ezikhomba kwindawo apho ubutyebi bufihlwe khona. Ingcinga engakumbi! Kodwa ungagqithisi ubunzima bezabelo. Emva koko, ukuba umntwana akanakucinga naluphi na uluhlu - uya kulahleka umdla kumdlalo, kwaye adideke ngokupheleleyo. Yenza izabelo ngokusekelwe kwiminyaka yomntwana. Kuya kuthatha inzame, kodwa isiphumo siya kukukholisa. Umntwana uya kuvuya.
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25. Dlala i-bowling.
Lo mdlalo uza kuzisa unonwabo olukhulu kuphela kubantwana, kodwa nakwabantu abadala. Hlela umququzeleli ekhaya! Sebenzisa iindlela eziphuculweyo: iibhotile - iibhotile zeplastiki, ibhola - nayiphi na into enokukwenziwa. Qala ibhokisi ukurekhoda amanqaku. Misela umvuzo oyintloko. Kungcono ukuba yonke intsapho ijoyine umdlalo. Unonwabo ngakumbi kwaye unomdla.
Ubudala: iminyaka engama-6 ubudala
26. Hlela ukhuphiswano lwe-karaoke.
I-compact disc ne karaoke zibiza kakhulu kwaye zikhona zonke izitolo zomculo. Kukho iingoma kunye neengoma zabantwana. Makhe umntwana akhethe ngokwakhe, ukuba angathanda ukucula. Makhe azibonakalise. Musa ukugculela, ungagxeki, ungamhleki. Nokuba ingazange isebenze kakuhle, kuya kuba mnandi. Ukongezelela, akuyiyo into yokuba wena uya kuphucula.
Ubudala: 8 +
27. Thatha i-origami.
Imvelaphi yobugcisa yaseYapan yase-Japan ngendlela elula ifumaneka njengonwabisa oluhle. Unokufaka iphepha elikwiphepha elinikeziweyo - kwaye ngoku ulungele uhlobo lweemeko nezinto. Ubunzima bomfanekiso obwenziweyo buxhomekeke kwiminyaka yomntwana. U-Origami ngumsebenzi othakazelisayo. Ngendlela efanelekileyo, inokuvelisa kwiingcamango zomntwana zobuchule kunye nomoya wobuhle.
Ubudala: 8 +
28. Yenza "uhlobo oluthile lwe-junk".
Hlanganisa umthwalo wezinto ezifana neebhokisi ezindala, iibhotile zeplastiki, izixhobo ezingenasiphelo kwaye uvumele ingcamango yomntwana yenze nantoni na kule nkunkuma. Ingaba ngumkhombe okanye imoto, i-castle yenkwenkwezi okanye i-spaceship. Into ephambili - inqwelo yefantasy.
Uza kufuneka unikezele umntwana wakho ngentambo yokubambelela, isisi, i-glue kwaye ulandele izenzo zakhe. Enoba akwanele oko.
Ubudala: iminyaka engama-6 ubudala
29. Jonga iinkwenkwezi.
Ukujonga ngokukhawuleza kwisibhakabhaka esicacileyo sasebusuku kungabonwa ngamava kunye nokuzonwabisa. Oku kunokuba lunomdla ngakumbi ukuba unokuxelela unyana okanye intombi yakho ukuba uyibona yiphi iimbane, yintoni iplanethi ibonakala, njl njl. Funda amanqaku ambalwa kusengaphambili ukuze ukwazi ukuphendula imibuzo engundoqo yomntwana.
ukudlala umdlalo "oko kubonakala ngathi." Ukujonga kwiiklasi zeenkwenkwezi, wabelane ngeengcamango zakho, oko kubonakala ngathi. Okufanayo kunokwenziwa emini ngemini.
Ubudala: 8 +
30. Fundisa umntwana ukuba ahlangane.
Oku mhlawumbi kufanelekile kumantombazana, nangona amanye amakhwenkwe angenomdla. Ukuzibona kuyona ndlela efanelekileyo yokukhupha i-assiduity, ingqalelo kunye nokucinga. Cinga ngeendlela zakho zokwakha, imodeli yeengubo zeedopi, iipuphu ezintle kunye neetyshi ezithambileyo. Kukho iincwadi ezininzi kule ndaba eziza kukunceda ukuba ungene kumcimbi ongakumbi.
Ubudala: 7 +
31. Yakha i-den.
Yonke into oyifunayo yengubo enkulu, iphepha lekhadibhodi kunye nemithwalo embalwa. Zizenza ngathi usempandeni yemvula okanye kwenye indawo kwisiqithi senkangala. Ibhokisi elikhulu liyimpembelelo enkulu emqolombeni. Kuyakuthi mhlawumbi umncedise umntwana ngeeyure.
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32. Yenza umthi wentsapho.
Ngaba abantwana bakho bayazi kakuhle njani intsapho yabo? Ngaba bayazi nto ngabazali bazali bakho? Akukuphela nje ukudweba kwemithi yokuzalwa kwemigcobo, kodwa ibuye ifundise inkalo ethile. Unokumba ezinye iinkcukacha ezithandekayo malunga nosapho lwakho. Into ongazange uyayiqonda. Zama ukubuyisela imbali yobomi bakho ngokubanzi. Oku kuya kuba ngumsebenzi obalulekileyo kwaye kumnandi kumntwana wakho kunye nawe.
Ubudala: 7+
Ekupheleni kwintlanganiso yethu yomzali "into enokuyithatha umntwana" Ndifuna ukuqaphela ukuba unako ukuzonwabisa nantoni na. Into ephambili kukuba ubonise umdla kulokho oyenzayo. Ukuba umntwana ubone ukunyamekela kwakho, umdla wakho nothando lwakho. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, akukho msebenzi oya kumnceda. Yaye wena ngokwakho, kholwa nam, naye.