Sithanda ukunyamekela umntwana wakho. Kuyinto ekhethekileyo ukunyusa umntwana wakho. Kodwa oomama kufuneka baqonde: inkunzi yebhokhwe ngexesha lokutya akufanele ibe yintsimi. Akufanele avele kwaye aqinisekise ukuba unento nje yokuphathwa komntu. Ngaphandle koko, uya kulahlekelwa ngumdla wokutya njengenkqubo. Kwaye oku kubi kakhulu. Okokuthi, ukutya okulungiselelwe (isidlo sakusasa, isidlo sasemini, isidlo sakusihlwa) kuya kubonwa njengento enyanzelisayo, kodwa ayikho inkqubo enomdla kakhulu. Into efana nokugonywa kwi-polyclinic. Ukuziphatha komntwana omncinane kwitheyibhile kubaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa indlela yokufundisa umntwana omncinci ukuba aziphathe kakuhle etafileni?
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba umntwana ufuna izitya zakhe. Oomama abancinci banqabile ukuba bathe ukuthenga izitya zeemfuno ezikhethekileyo zabantwana. Kwaye kufuneka ndixelele ukuba isethi ekhethiweyo ngokufanelekileyo yintlanganiso kubo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kwisidlo. Iimpahla zezingane kufuneka zihlale zicocekile kwiikhabhinethi. Ukuba kungenxa yezizathu ezithile ixesha elide livulekile kwipenitshala yekhitshi, kungcono ukuwuhlanza. Ukuba usula izitya ngeelayile, qiniseka ukuba ihlambulukile. Ngoko akuthethiwanga ngezandla ezingcolileyo okanye ukuxubha itafile.
Ukugcina imbonakalo efanelekileyo ngexesha lokutya akuwona umsebenzi olula. Ubungqibelelo kunye nokuhleleka kufikeleleke kuphela xa ungavumeli umntwana ukuba achukumise ukutya. Kwaye oku akuhlanganisiwe kwizicwangciso zemfundo yomntu ozimeleyo. I-apron, obopha umntwana, kufuneka ihlambuluke. Kuyimfuneko ukuhlola, ukuba kukho akukho mvelaphi yokutya okomileyo kunye namabala ambi.
Ngexesha elide, unokwenza ingqalelo yengane kwinto yokutya yakhe itafile ibonakala ngaphambi kokuqala kwesidlo. Ngoko ubeka phantsi itekisi yokubeka isakhono ngexesha elidala kakhulu. "Masifake isitya kunye nekomityi, faka imfoloko kunye nepuni. Khangela, yintoni iphosta enhle onayo. Masibophe. Ukuba kukho into echithwe kwi-spoon, i-shirt ayiyi kungcola. " Abanye abazali bakholelwa ukuba akunakuncedo ukuthetha izinto ezinjalo kubantwana abancinci, kuba bengasayiqondi into. Kodwa oku akunjalo. Kuze kube seminyaka emibili, ukuphindaphinda okubukhali kwanoma yiyiphi iminqweno kuya kucelwa ukuba ihlehliswe yintsana engqondweni. Oko uMama athi akakabonakali njengobunzima nokumisa. Ingane iyakulandela nje imigaqo ayithatha kuqala phantsi kwefuthe lolawulo lwendalo kunye nomzekelo ngamnye womama. Kodwa nangona kamva, ukuqonda intsingiselo kunye nokunyanzeliswa kwazo, umntwana uya kwenza konke yena kunye nentando yakhe yokuzikhethela. Kwaye, ngaphandle kokungabaza kwaye ungaboni isizathu sokubhikisha.
Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana ahlambuluke ngesandla esicocekileyo kwi-subconscious njengemfuneko ebalulekileyo yokutya, waba ngumkhwa. Ngendlela, ukuba unyanzelekile ukuba ukondle umntwana wakho kwindawo apho awukwazi ukuhlamba izandla zakho ngamanzi, usule ngendwangu ebomvu. Izandla zakho nazo zichaphazelekayo, ngakumbi xa unceda umntwana adle. Qinisekisa ukuba uchazela umntwana ukuba kutheni ukwenza oku.
Ukufundisa umntwana omncinci ukuba aziphathe kakuhle etafileni, ungamlandeli. Ukuba umntwana omncinci uthatha i-spoon kwaye uzama ukwenza into nayo, musa ukuyithatha. Okokuqala, umntwana uya kuzama ukusebenzisa le nto ngokwengqiqo yakhe. Kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuphumelela ngokukhawuleza. Uthobeka ngobumnene kwaye uthatha isigxina somthengi kwaye uqondise ukunyakaza kwakhe, amazwi akhuthazayo. Emva koko, makhe ndenze ngokwam. Ukuba ubona ukuba umntwana akayi kuvela nantoni na enhle, yithathe ngokucophelela ngesipuni sayo uze uqhubeke uzondla. Kwaye, ke, qi niseka ukuba uphelise iziphumo zemizamo engaphumeleli ebusweni, izandla kunye ne-apron yomntwana. Qhubeka udla ucocekile. Ingane iyakwazi kwaye isebenze ngexesha lokutya. Kodwa ukuphelisa imiphumo emibi yalo msebenzi - ngelixa usebenza. Musa ukulandelelana ukuthobeka. Into ephambili kukuba akaqhelekanga ukutya isiqwenga sokutya phakathi kokusasazeka etafileni, ubuso kunye nomzimba, ngokuzichukumisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo nokutshatyalaliswa kwakhona.
Ukuba ubingelela ngokusisigxina ngokuzimela, ungavumeli umntwana ukuba aqonde ukuvavanya kunye nephutha lezakhono ezifunekayo ekutheni ukutya, kwaye umngcipheko ukwandisa ukuba 'ubulale' kuwo umdla kwisondlo esizimeleyo. Emva kweminyaka eyi-1.5-2, iintsana ziya kufumana ezinye iindlela ezininzi zokuzifeza. Yaye umnqweno wokufunda ukuba nepuni kunye nefoloki ayiyi kuba phakathi kwazo. Abangenalwazi, abantwana abaneminyaka elilodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, bafune ukuzithoba phantsi kwihlabathi ngazo zonke iindlela ezikhoyo, kwaye akukho zininzi zazo okwamanje. Kwaye amandla okungaxhomeki kumntu omdala etafileni ngowona obaluleke kakhulu.
Ngokuqhelekileyo isitya seesitya sezingane ziquka ngokukhethekileyo i-kids spoon, iforki kunye nomsi. Ezi zinto azibalulekanga ngaphantsi kwamacwecwe kunye neguggi. Emva koko, ngaba uncedo lwabo umntwana angadla eyedwa. Emva kokutya kukuqala ukungena ukutya okuqinileyo, mfundise ukusebenzisa imfoloko kunye nomese.
Abantwana bathanda ukuthatha i-spoon emlonyeni wabo, bayiguqule khona, bathabathe ngamazinyo abo. Isenzo esinjalo sisemvelo, kodwa akufanele sibe ngumkhwa. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi zinto: kubi, kuphazamisa umntwana kwinkqubo yokutya, kuba i-spoon iqala ukudlala indima ye-pacifier, kwaye ukuba i-spoon ithathelwe indawo yifoloko, inokubangela ingozi enkulu umntwana. Awudingi ukukrazula i-spoon emlonyeni wakho, kodwa kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ukuba unyango olunjalo nge-cutlery alukwazi ukuba yinto evamile. Ngomntwana omnye oneminyaka elilodwa kule ndawo, unokuyithatha ngokucophelela kwaye uyiphathe ngokutya "ngokwemigaqo," uze uphinde ubuyise isipuni kumntu odlayo. Umntwana omdala, ukuba lo mzi uyaziphinda kwaye ube ngumkhwa, unokuxelela ibali elithile elifundisayo, umlinganiselo wokwakha ochazayo.
Vumela ukuba uholele isipuni kwisitya, qaphela indlela umatshini okanye i-puree idonsa ngayo i-spoon kwisitya. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo nokuba ubeke izimvo malunga noko umntwana angakuqwalasela xa ewuqwalasela: ukuvumelana, ukuthungwa, ukuvumba. Akunandaba nokuba umntwana ubandakanye umdla ekuthinteni i-porridge okanye imifuno ngezandla zakhe. Musa ukumgxeka. Qaphela nje ukuba kulungile ukutya i-spoon nge-spoon. Emva koko uya kufumana yonke into kumntu odlayo, kwaye akayi kugubha etafileni. Kodwa ukuba ubona ukuba uvavanyo luba ngumdlalo ongenalo nxulumano nomsebenzi wakho, umise kwaye ugxininise kwisidlo sakusihlwa.
Vumela isitya esinikezela umntwana asihlali singenanto kwaye singabi namagama. Tshela ukuba umntwana useplasini encinci, ngokuthe ngqongqo ukuthetha intetho yakhe, kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yomntwana. Xa inkunzi ikhulile ngokwaneleyo ukuba ingene kwincoko enentsingiselo kunye nawe, mcele ukuba abonise ukutya kwisitya, obiza kuso, okanye ukuyibiza wena. Ngoko uya kulungisa ukukwazi komntwana ukwahlula phakathi kohlobo kunye neentlobo zokutya ezahlukeneyo. Oku kuya kumnceda ukuba acacise ngakumbi iminqweno yakhe kwixesha elizayo.
Iingcebiso zokugcina ubuso bomntwana kunye nokuphatha kakuhle xa kudla ukutya kubhekisela kwicandelo lezinto eziqhelekileyo. Kodwa abantwana baqhelanga bengenalo ukungcola. Ngokukodwa xa uzama ukuzidla. Abanye oomama bakholelwa ukuba ukunxibelelana ngokusondeleyo kunye nokutya kunika umntwana ithuba elongezelelweyo lokuqonda kunye noluncedo. Ngoko kunjalo. Kodwa ukuziva ukwahlukileyo phakathi "kweendleko zokuvelisa" kunye nomkhwa wokunyamezela kufuneka ufundiswe ekuqaleni. Musa ukukrokra ukuba umntwana udibene xa edla. Ngomusa, kodwa ngaphandle kwemvume ecacileyo phawula le nyaniso uze ubuze umntwana ukuba asule nge-napkin. Kodwa qalisa usula, uze unike umntwana. Ngendlela yokuziphatha komntwana omncinane etafileni, ungakulibali ukumkhuthaza. Ikhono lokususa ukutya okungaphezulu kunzima kunzima ukuyiqonda, kunye nokukhahlela. Ukuba umntwana ocolileyo ubonakala ehlekisayo kuwe, unokuthetha ngawo kunye nobawo okanye ezinye izihlobo zentsana. Kuze uklikhaze kwikhamera. Kodwa qaphela - ungenzi ube ngumdlalo ohlekisayo, ungamcaphukisi umntwana ukuba athathwe ngokutya ngokukhethekileyo. Akufuneki ukuthetha, ngamanye amaxesha unako ukuvumela i-luxury ukuba ingcolile ngento ekhethekileyo ethambileyo kunye ne-brandy. Kodwa makube njalo le nto ngaphandle kolawulo.
Uvuyiswa gqitha kukuba umntwana ulungile kwaye uyonwabile ukutya ukuba bakulungele ukumbulela. Ingakumbi ukuba umntu odlayo akahlali ethanda ukukholisa. Kodwa akukho mntu uphelile imithetho yezinto ezilungileyo. Kwaye ngoku ukuba kubonakala ngathi ungumthwalo ongadingekile, ngoko umntwana usenokuza kukubonga ngesidlo sasemini okanye isidlo sakusihlwa. Emva koko, uya kuyifumana kungakhathaliseki le meko.
Ungaqala njani ukuxhoma imilinganiselo etafileni? Ewe, ngaphezu kwayo yonke, ngumzekelo wakhe. Ukuba umntwana usemncinci, oku akufanele kukuthintele ukuba ungamthandi "umdla onqwenelekayo" okanye uthi "yidle impilo yakho." Kwaye xa edla, kuyamnandi, kodwa kungabi nzima ukuba ucele ukubulela uze uthi "Siyabonga, Mama" endaweni yoko. Bese ucele ukuphinda la mazwi. Yonwabe ngokunyanisekileyo, ukuba ngenxa yemigudu yakho umntwana uya kuthetha la mazwi eyedwa. Ngokukhawuleza loo mkhwa uvela xa intsapho ihlala rhoqo etafileni kunye. Umntwana kumzekelo wabantu abadala uyazibona ezi ziyimodeli eziyimfuneko zentlonipho yokuqala. Kunzima ukuba abantwana bafikelele kwimimiselo ethile, ngakumbi xa bengaboni umqondo kubo. Abantu abadala abakwenzayo kungabikho ngaphantsi, imeko yabo kuphela yinkimbinkimbi ngobukho bemikhwa esele isungulwe, kokubili okuhle nokubi. Emva koko, kunzima kakhulu ukuhlaziya ngaphandle kokufunda.
Abantwana abakhulileyo bathanda umdlalo odlala umdlalo olula, obunxulumene ngokusondeleyo kwinyani. Izitya zezingane ziyakwazi ukudlala kwinkqubo yemfundo ayiyona indima yokugqibela. Kutheni ungahlali phantsi kwetafile ezilungelelanisiweyo zabalingisi beethayi kwaye ungaqali ngokuziphatha kwabo okufunayo etafileni. Kanye kunye ne-kid, khuthaza ukuziphatha okulungileyo nokufanelekileyo nokukopela ukungafanelanga. Abantwana bathanda ukufunda ngaphandle kwewethu. Banike eli thuba. Bayeke bakhonze izilwanyana ngokwawo itafile yokutya, bathabathe ukuba bahlambe izandla zabo, basule iipketi. Bayeke ukugcina umyalelo kwithebula njengomdala. Makhe bafune "isithandwa esinomdla" ngenxa yabo kwaye baxolelwe ekupheleni kwesidlo sakusihlwa. Akuyi kuba yinto enqabileyo yokuhlamba izitya kwaye usule itafile. Yaye niqiniseke ukuba niyabulela ngokunyanga!