Yintoni ukucoca?
Ubunzima bokuqala kwe-detente kaninzi ludideka kunye ne-frigidity yangempela, ngoxa kubanda kakhulu ukulala ngesondo akuqhelekanga. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kuhambelana nokunyanzelisa ubulili, ukungabi nantlontlo kunye nantoni na, ukungakhathaleli nangaphambi kwamava amaninzi. Ukongezelela, kukho ukucocwa kwesikhashana, okuphathwa ngempumelelo.
Ibhinqa elifumana uvuyo, kodwa kungekhona i-orgasm, ayikwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi yinyabi. Njengoko akunakwenzeka ukucingisisa njengento yokucoca. Yonke into inesizathu sayo, ngamanye amaxesha kuxhomekeke kwintliziyo, ngamanye amaxesha kumlingane, kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo kwizinto eziphilayo.
Ukuze ukwazi indlela yokujongana nengxaki, kufuneka uqonde oko kukuthintela ekubeni uphile ubomi obugcwele ngokwesondo.
Iimbangela zokucoca.
Isizathu sokuqala kunye nesizathu esenza ukuba i-orgasms ikwazi ukuyigcina ingqalelo impilo. Kwizo zesini kunye nokukhanga zichaphazeleka zizifo ezininzi zentsholongwane, ukungaphumeleli kwemvelaphi ye-hormonal, ukudandatheka, beriberi kunye nokutya kwamachiza athile. Ngoko, ngaphambi kokulila i-alamu kwaye uqale ukuxazulula ingxaki ngokwakho, kufuneka ufunde ugqirha kwaye ungabandakanyi zonke izizathu ezinokubanda ebhedeni, ezinokuthi zidibaniswe nempilo.
Isizathu sesibini sisengqondo. Ukungabikho kwamathambo kumabhinqa kunokuchaphazeleka ngokukhuliselwa kancinci ebuntwaneni. Kwezinye iintsapho, yonke imiba ephathelene nokuziphatha ngokwesondo ivinjelwe, kwaye isondo asixoxwa okanye sixoxwa njengento engcolileyo neyihlazo. Oomama amaninzi ngokukrakra iintombi ezinokukhipha isisu, izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo, kunye neentlungu zasendle ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ukukhusela isondo sokuqala. Le ndlela yokufundisa ngezesondo ihlala ibangela ukuba amantombazana akhule, aphenduke ngamabhinqa, kodwa aziva elala kunye nendoda, njengoko kusemfazweni, xa ingozi ivela khona.
Ukongezelela, musa ukukhupha impawu zengqondo. Abasetyhini banemvakalelo emininzi kwaye ukuze baphumule, abaninzi bafuna inani elingapheliyo leemeko. Yithemba kumlingane, umnqweno oqinileyo, umzuzu ofanelekileyo kunye nomoya, umoya kunye nentlalo-ntle. Ngamanye amaxesha izinto ezinjalo zingaba zininzi kakhulu ukuba zilungelelanise ngexesha elifanelekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha abafazi bacinga ngeemeko phantsi apho kukho i-orgasm epheleleyo. Akumangalisi ukuba akunakwenzeka - ukuba uzinika ithuba elilodwa kwisigidi, mhlawumbi asiyi kuphuma.
Isizathu sesithathu sinokuthiwa ukungahambelani kwamaqabane. Unokuthandana nomnye, unokuba nolwalamano oluhle, kodwa ubomi besondo buya kushiya kakhulu into efunwayo. Kodwa le ngxaki ixazululwa ngokulula. Kubalulekile ukuba ukhululiwe, ukuvumela ukuba i-caresses entsha, ifake, ukuvumela into entsha ebomini bakho, ukuba yonke into ingatshintsha ngokuphawulekayo. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ngamakhono akho nokuba wenza konke okulungileyo, kuyafaneleka ukujika kumntu wesondo.
Indlela yokunyanga?
Ukuba ukungabikho kwesifo akusisifo esi ugqirha ugqirha, kodwa ubunzima bexeshana kuphela, unokusombulula ingxaki yakho.
Ngokwesini, ininzi kuxhomekeke kwiqabane, ngoko ungathembeli kumntu ongakuthandiyo okanye angayithandi ngesizathu esithile. Ngomntu osondeleyo ukufezekisa ukunandipha okufunwayo kulula kakhulu.
Ungathuli ngeengxaki zakho, uthetha ngabo. Akukho nto eyoyikisayo ekubeni ungasweleki ngentshiseko, njengamantombazana kwiifilimu zoononografi. Nangona abantu banokungcola, kwaye oku akuthethi ukuba lixesha lokubeka umnqamlezo kwimpilo yesondo. Khumbula ukuba isondo esingavunyelwanga kunye noshintsho oluqhelekileyo lwababambisene nabo alona khetho olufanelekileyo ekufuneni ulonwabo. Nabo bafazi abasoloko bengenayo ubunzima bokufumana injabulo kwisini, abanakukwazi ukuphumla kunye neqabane elitsha.
Unganqikazi ukudibanisa inkumbulo, kuba isondo sele sivinjelwe kwaye akukho nto eya kuba yinto ebangela ukuba ujonge. Fumana into othanda ngayo, unokukunceda kuphela ngezilingo.
Zama emva kokuzama, kodwa ungagxininisi ekugqibeleni, kodwa kwiimvakalelo zakho, kwizinto ozithandayo. Kufanelekile ukuba uthembeke kunye nawe kunye neqabane lakho, ngoko akuyi kuba neengxaki zokuzonwabisa.
Abaninzi abafazi bayazibona bevuyisiwe, kodwa abazi ukuba yintoni i-orgasm. Abanye bafumana ulonwabo ngesondo ngaphandle kokukhupha, kwaye ungacingi nje ngolu ngxaki. Mhlawumbi, i-orgasm yinjongo efanelekileyo, ekufanelekile ukuba isebenze, kwaye, mhlawumbi, inkolelo nje kuphela, ngaphandle kobuphi ubomi obulungile. Khumbula ukuba yonke into iyimicimbi kwiimeko ezinxulumene nobuhlobo obusondeleyo, kwaye isibini sakho asifanele sithobele nayiphi na imigangatho. Ekugqibeleni, akukho mntu uza kufaka uphawu lwekhwalithi ebhedini lakho, ngaphandle kwakho.