Ekuphenduleni umbuzo: "Indlela yokwenza umntu akholelwe ukuba ndiyena mhle? "- akukho nto inzima. Into eyona nto kukukholelwa kuwe kunye namandla akho. Kodwa okokuqala, okokuqala, kuyimfuneko yokwenza ukuba intombi iqhayisa. Kwaye okokuqala, okokuqala, kufuneka wenze konke okusemandleni kumntu kwaye umbonise ukuba ungoyena mkhulu, uninzi .... Umbuzo kuphela oshiywe yindlela yokwenza ngokuchanekileyo oku kunye nendlela yokuziphatha ngayo, ukuze iqabane liqaphele konke oku ngasentla. Ngoko, makhe sizame ukwenza umthandi wakho aqonde ukuba "uyindlovukazi."
Ukubonakala kuyisiqinisekiso sokuqala sempumelelo .
Khumbula ukuba ukuze ube ngowona nto, kufuneka ulandele le meko. Ukubonakala okulungileyo nokugcinwe kakuhle apha kumile kwenye yeyona ngongoma yokuqala. Ewe, akukho mhlaba wonke oza kubeka ngokuchanekileyo indlela omele ukhangele ngayo. Kwaye, ngokukodwa, ukuba yenze ngokucokisekileyo komntu. Amadoda ahlala ekwahlukileyo ngongoma kunye neengcamango zabasetyhini. Kodwa, ukuba unayo, ke usenomdla wakhe. Kuhlala kuphela ukwenza izilungiso ezimbalwa kwi-makeup yakho, iinwele kunye ne-wardrobe kwaye uya kukholelwa ukuba uyindlovukazi. Ngendlela, kumntu, kubaluleke kakhulu kwimeko enjani yokuphuma naye kunye nabantu kwaye u tyelele abahlobo bakhe. Yena, njengokungathi "wayenomsindo angakhange adumise, ngokukhawuleza komona" usoloko ehlambalaza eminzini yomphefumlo wakhe xa uncedisa, okanye uqaphele ukuba iqabane lakhe lithandeka ngaphezu komntu wonke. Ngenxa yoko, qhubeka uzama ukugxininisa isidima sakho kwaye ufihle ukungaphumeleli (ukuba kukho). Ngaphandle koko, ukuba unomdla obalaseleyo kwaye uhlale ugqoke kakuhle kwaye naluphi na umqathango onokubonakala ufanelekile, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kwenza ukuba uzuko lwakho luqhayise ngawe. Ngoko naluphi na umzekelo, musa ukuphumla kwaye ungayeki ukunikela ingqwalasela eyiyo ngokubonakala kwakho. Nika umhlobo wakho ithuba lokumthanda kwaye ukholelwe ukuba emva kwakhe yintombazana enhle kakhulu neyintombazana, "ngokunyanisekileyo" ibukele amanye amadoda, kodwa iyenayo kuphela!
Akukhona nje umzimba, kodwa nomphefumlo ...
Akumangalisi, kodwa abantu bayayixabisa ihlabathi elizityebi lentombazana, kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukuzimela ngaphandle kwezilwanyana. Umele ujabule, kulula kwaye unomdla kunye nawe ukuchitha ixesha kunoma yintoni imeko. Kufuneka ukwazi ukuzolalisa umntu xa ecasulwa ngento ethile, unike iingcebiso, wabelane naye ngezinto ezithandwayo kunye nezinto ezithandwayo. Oku konke ngeendlela zonke kubonisa ukuba uya kuba yinto engcono nje kuphela njengentombazana, kodwa nangomhlobo.
Intombazana enhle kakhulu yintombazana enentombi .
Yiyiphi indoda eyayikugcoba ngayo kwaye igqoke ezandleni zakho, umele ukhumbule kunye nemithetho emibini yokugunyaza yobomi obusondeleyo, efundeka ngokuthi: "Ubundlobongela buyiyo, buya kuba" kwaye "Iingcamango zesini zenzelwe ubudlelwane obude." Khumbula ukuba nayiphi na indoda iyathanda iintlobo zesini. Kungenxa yoko akufanele ukwesaba ukunikela kumthande wakho. Hlalani nikhululekile kwaye nisoloko nikhulume ngokukrakra ngeemfuno zenu zesondo. Abafana bayayithanda le ntombazana kwaye ngenxa yoko bayayithanda ngakumbi.
Ukutshala imali yakho kwisini esithandanayo, ukuyenza ibe mnandi kwaye ungayibaleki ubusuku bonke, kwaye inkwenkwe yakho iya kuthi kuwe kaninzi ukuba uyona nto ibhetele kwaye iya kubaxabisa ubudlelwane bakho. Ukongezelela, loo mntu uya kuziva ngathi ungumlingo oqobo, kunye nokubulela oku kuya kuwela emagxeni akho.
Ubudlelwane obungenza umntu azi ukuba uyona mhle .
Umfana uhlala efuna ukuziva enamandla, ehlakaniphile kwaye enhle. Musa ukulibala ukumnceda ukuba aqiniseke ngalo. Emva kwakho konke, ngubani na, ukuba akunjalo wena, kunye nomncedisi wakho okanye ngegama elinobubele, unokumqinisekisa ukuba indoda yakhe "Ndingcono" kunabo bonke abanye. Ngoko musa ukulibala ukuba, okokuqala, kufuneka uziqhenyce yinkwenkwe yakho, kwaye ungakulibali ukumxelela ngaye, kwaye yena, ngexesha lakhe, uya kuqhayisa ngaye. Yenza imeko yakho oyithandayo intuthuzelo epheleleyo kuzo zonke iinjongo zeli gama uze ubonise ukuba ungubani ngempela. Into ephambili kukuba kufuneka aqonde kwaye akholelwe ukuba kulungile kuye kuphela. Oku kubakho ukulala kwisiseko sobudlelwane apho kungekhona nje umfana oxabisa intombi yakhe, kodwa ngokuthe ngqo.
Ngendlela, obani, njengokuba singabonakaliyo, ubuqili besetyhini. Awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwalo apha. Ngoncedo lwakhe, unako ukuphatha umntu okhethiweyo ngokuncinci ngoncedo lwe-caress kunye nokujonga kakuhle. Ngoko unokwenza intandokazi yakho ikholwe yakho. Kodwa, okubaluleke kakhulu - ungaguquli intonga kwaye ungacacisi imeko.
Ukunikezelwa kwezifundo ezifunyenwe "kumakhosikazi . "
Ekugqibeleni, sinqumle, ngokusekelwe apha ngasentla, ukuba siphendule kwaye sikunike iingcebiso eziza kwenza loo mfana akholelwe ukuba uyintombazana engcono kakhulu.
Umfana akasoze akuxelele ukuba uyona mhle, ukuba uya kuthi:
- ukuhlala ubomi bakhe kuphela, ukumthanda kuphela kunye nokulandela umfana kwizithende zakhe;
- baninzi banokumxela ukuba uyona mhle;
- thelekisa kunye namanye amadoda (ngokukodwa abafana bafana);
wabotshwa waza waqhwala embhedeni;
- Ungazibukeli wena kunye nokubonakala kwakho;
- cinezela kuye ngokuhlaselwa rhoqo kobukhwele nokungathembeki;
- ukubeka iingcamango zakhe nezigqibo kuye.
Umfana uya kukuxabisa kwaye aqwalasele okulungileyo, ukuba uya kuthi:
- rhoqo ubeke iliso kunye nembonakalo yakho;
- thabatha umdla ebomini bakhe kwaye uqaphele yonke into eyenzekayo kuye;
- Ungesabi ukuxoxa naye ngeemfuno zakho zesini kunye neengcamango;
- engayivuli ngokupheleleyo phambi kwakhe, abe neyakhe intsikelelo, eya kugcina othandekayo kwiintlanzi;
- ungamkhathazi lo mfana wenze njalo ukuze anike ixesha lokukukhumbula;
- ukumnika i-caress epheleleyo, ingqwalasela, uthando kunye nenduduzo, ebonisa ukuba uyindoda yangempela;
- ukuba ube ngowakho kwaye ungakulibali ukuba ungumfazi!