Ngaba uye waqaphela ukuba amadoda ahlala eshiya ubuhle kwaye aqale ukwakha ubudlelwane kunye nabafazi beembonakalo ezintle? Ukutshabalalisa iincinci zabo zothuli kwaye ngaphandle kokuncinci kuncinci bacinga ukuba abafazi babe amaphupha. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Konke malunga neempawu zengqondo zolu hlobo "iigundane ezimpunga." Yintoni kanye - sifunda kwimiba yethu.
- Akakwazi ukuxhomekeka kumntu wakhe. Le ngongoma ayithethi ukupheliswa kobudlelwane kunye nokuzihlukanisa ngenye into, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo - ebomini bhinqa kukho izinto ezithandekayo apho ngandlela-thile uzalisekisa ibhasikidi yakhe yokumvakalela. Ezi zinto zingathanda izinto ezithandwayo, izinto ezithandwayo, imikhwa eluncedo, njl - konke okungeke kumvumele ukuba abe nexhala nangomzuzu, xa umntu engayi kuba ngeenxa zonke.
- Idibanisa imfihlelo kunye nemfihlakalo. Kunzima ukuthetha ukuba ibhinqa linomdla xa yonke into iyaziwa ngaye. Ngoko ke, thabatha umgaqo - ungaze uvule onke amakhadi kumntu. Kancinci, okhethiweyo wakho uya kwinqanaba xa ufuna ukufunda into entsha. Yaye loo ntokazi iya kuba ne-arsenal yeqiniso malunga nayo iya kubuyisa isibini kwisibini somhla wokuqala: "Unomdla kakhulu." Kutheni ndingazi ngale nto? "Ukwenza le ngongoma ibe yinto enzima kakhulu ngenxa yezinto ezimbini. , kungekudala okanye kamva, izakhono, izakhono kunye neenkcukacha ziya kugqitywa, kwaye okwesibini, umntu akafanele angene ngaphesheya kwaye angazami ukufihla yonke into, eshiya iimpendulo kuphela. kodwa nokuba nako ukukwazi ukwenza izipho, ukulolonga Laa binzana yazo: "Ndim apha into uye wafunda ukuyenza."
- Inika indima ebalulekileyo, ukugcina ukuzimela Kubuhlungu ukujonga abafazi abaxakeke ngokupheleleyo kwiinkathalo zasekhaya ngeengcamango: "Bandibonele, akudingeki ukuba nantoni na." Akunjalo, kubalulekile! Ubunikazi, obufezekiswe kwishishini lakho okanye okokuzilibazisa, okwenzele okuthile kwintsapho kwizinto eziphathekayo, kwaye lixabiswa ngumntu. Ngokuqinisekileyo uthatha indima ephambili kwintsapho, ungumcebisi kunye nenkxaso, kodwa yinto encinci eyenziwa ngumntu, ikhunjulwe ixesha elide.Iyona ndlela elula ukuqala emsebenzini kukuba ukuba uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali lweentsapho Mna yeekhomponenti ezimbini, inxalenye nemazi yayo iye ukubonisa ukuba nangona oko kancinane obulula, kodwa wamisa kakhulu nzulu.
- Akunakunqanda inkululeko yendoda Uhlala uhamba kwiiyure ezimbini, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ungubani. Ufuna ukubiza. "Unxibelelwano lwefowuni," Unjani na? "- uluhlu lwezinto ezinjalo zangaphandle zomntu. kunokwenzeka ukuqhubeka ngonaphakade. Kuyabonakala kuqala njengokhathalelo olugqithiseleyo, kwaye emva - njengenqandelelo yenkululeko. Mshiye wedwa kunye nemibuzo yakhe, kwaye uya kubuya kuwe ngokukhawuleza. Ukubuyela kumfazi wephupha ngumsebenzi omnandi kakhulu kumntu.
- Uqiniseke ngaye ngokwakhe Ngaba ngabafazi bathanda ukuncoma? Kakhulu. Ngaba bayazi indlela yokuzithabatha? Hayi njalo. Ukuncatshana, ukumncumo, igama elithi "Siyabonga" - i-arsenal yokuzithemba ayikho into enhle kakhulu, kodwa amadoda ayaqonda ukuba umfazi onjalo ahluke - ufuna ukuncoma, yabona indlela abaphendula ngayo, bazive ngathi uvelwano.