Kutheni abafazi bathanda ngesondo?

Phantse wonke umntu uthi bayakuthanda. Enyanisweni, i-cunnilingus kunye ne-fallatio kwamanye amadoda namabhinqa iyinto enyanyekayo. Uvela phi lo mbini? Kutheni abesifazana bathanda ubulili bomlomo, kunye namadoda?

"Andiyomanga," uthi i heroine uJulia Roberts, uhenyukazi kwi-movie ethi "Mhlekazikazi." Kwabanye, eli binzana lifanekisela isondo se-pragmatic, engenalo isithunzi sothando.

Ziqhelanise ngeentsingiselo

Ukwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo kuqhutyelwa phantse wonke umntu olala ngesondo. Bambalwa abalinda ukuvuma ukuba "abanakulungelelanga" -ngomqondo wangempela kunye nomfuziselo. Kodwa abantu abanjalo bakhona, kwaye akukho ncinane kubo. "Ngaphandle kwintetho phakathi kwabo, akulula kubasetyhini ukuba bavume ukuphazamiseka kwe-fallatio. Abaninzi bam bahlobo bathi bayayithanda, kuba bafuna ukunikela ingcamango yokukhululeka, abafazi abangenakulinganiswa. Kodwa eneneni, oku akunjalo. " Omnye akayithandi ukunambitheka okanye ukuhambelana kwendoda, ukunyakaza komntu kwilungu lendoda emlonyeni kubangela ukuhlanza ukuxuba. Kukho namadoda angasoze awanike iqabane ukuba enze i-cunnilingus. "Ngokungafani nokulala ngesondo, umlomo, ukunambitheka, ukuthintela, kunye nomoya wokuhogela kubandakanyeka. Kwenzeka ukuba ukubonakala komntu kukhangisa, kwaye ukuvumba kwayo kubangela ukunyaniseka. Uphando kwintsimi ye-neurology iye yabonisa ukuba abafazi bathandwa ngokukodwa kula madoda awavumbayo akafani nefumba likayise. Ngoko kukho ukukhetha okungaziwayo kwezakhi zofuzo ekuzalweni kwenzalo efanelekileyo. Inxaxheba ebalulekileyo kwisondo lomlomo idlala ngococeko. Ukuba imigaqo yayo ilandelwa, ngoko lo mkhuba uvame ukukhuthaza iqabane. Ukubandlulula kuphela okanye amava angaphathekanga angaphazamisa. Ukuqhayisa kunye nokuhlambalaza kuyingxenye yobudlelwane bezocansi kuzo zonke izibilini, apho thina, abantu, sinabo. Okumangalisayo kukuba, yile nto inokunqanda isondo ngomlomo. Ukukhawulela - kuthetha ukufana nesilwanyana.

Ndiziva ndikhululekile

Khumbula ukuba ubulili bubunokuzikhethela. Apha ungadlala, uze kunye nento entsha, uzame kwakhona, ujabulele inkululeko yakho, uzive ukhethekileyo kwaye ujabulele ukuba onke amalungelo ayenu ngokwawo. Zama iindima ezintsha. Ukwabelana ngesondo kubonisa ukukwazi ukunika nokufumana, ukuthembela nokuphumelela ukuthembela, ukulawula nokuthobela. Imisebenzi ayinikezelwa kanye kunye nabo bonke, sinokuyitshintsha kwaye ifike ngeendlela ezintsha. Musa ukunyanzeliswa. Ngesondo, kuphela umdlalo "wobundlobongela" uvunyelwe - ukunyanzelisa akuyona ndawo. Emva koko, ukuziphatha ngokwesini esinye sezibonakaliso zeminqweno yethu. Ukuba sinamahloni okubandakanyeka kwisondo somlomo, akukho nto yokuziphoqa ukuba senze oku. Kukho ezinye iindlela ezininzi zokufumana nokuvuyisa. Kweminye, isondo somlomo sinokufanelana nokufanelana ngesondo. Ngaphambi kokuba kuqalwe umsebenzi wesondo, abantwana abaselula bayaphumelela, bafumane ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo, bajabule kwimimandla engabonakaliyo ngaphandle kokuchukumisa izitho zangasese (ukuqabana, ukugubungela, ukuxubha, ukuxubha ngokubambisana kwezitho zangasese ngokwezambatho, njl.). Kwaye ke kuphela kudlulela ekuvuseleleni izitho zangasese ngezandla kunye nokukhuthaza ngomlomo. Mhlawumbi, ngenxa yalesi sizathu, umntu uqonda i-caresses yomlomo njengesimo esasifanelekileyo sesini. " Ukwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo kaninzi kuninzi kwabanye, izibini ezitshatileyo ezihlala kwiindawo apho inkcubeko idinga ukulondoloza ubuntombi ngaphambi komtshato, ikhefu. Ukongezelela, ukuvinjelwa kwenkolo kwisondo ngomlomo kusekhona. Kodwa nanko, akukho nongqondo omnye: yile meko kuthi kwezinye iimeko zikhuthaza ukonwaba, ukuyifaka ngento yokuphulwa kweengxube zangaphambili.

Umbuzo wobunzulu beemvakalelo

Umlomo ungomnye wemimandla eyingozi kakhulu yomzimba wethu. Ukuzimisela okanye ukwenqaba ukunyamezela umlingane ngomlomo nangolwimi kubonisa indlela enkulu okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukufuphi kunye nokuthembela kwimbini ayanele. Ngomsindo oqhelekileyo, kunokubambisana ngakumbi kunokwenza izinto zesini. Yonke iminyaka elishumi yokudandatheka kwakhe uLaura wazama ukuqonda ukuba kungani i-fallatio kunye nokumanga ngokukhawuleza yaba yinto enyanyekayo kuye. Wafunda iincwadi, waphulaphula oko abantu abakubudala beentlobo ezahlukeneyo besithi. Ndade ndafika kwiklasi yeengqondo zengqondo ukuba ndiyihlole. Ndandichukumise ngakumbi ibali lenye ibhinqa elivela kwiqela, u-Olga. Wayemthiyile ukumanga, ingcamango ye-blowjob, yabangela ukuba adideke, kwaye ngocansi wayethanda ukuba iqabane lakhe lisemva kwakhe. Kodwa ngolunye usuku wathandana kunanini ngaphambili. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza wayefuna konke oku. Yajika yonke into ubomi bakhe besondo. Wajika emva kwe-54. " Ukubandakanyeka ngesondo somlomo, sibona ngqo phambi kwezitho zesini zesini. Bahluke kwiwethu-kwaye oku akunakuyithandayo. Kodwa uvakalelo olunzulu lukunceda ukunqoba ubundlobongela. Ukuvakalelwa kwintswelo kunye neemvakalelo zigqithise intloko, kwaye ukuzonwabisa kukuqala ngaphezu kokunyaniseka. Ngamanye amaxesha, i-alas, nangenye indlela: senza into ethile, siziphoqe ukuba sinqobe intshutshiso ngenxa yokwesaba ukushiywa. Oku kuyindlela embi. Ubundlobongela ngokwakho kunokukhokelela ekubeni emva kwexesha, nayiphi na indlela yesondo iya kuphelisa uvuyo. Akunjalo wena okanye iqabane lakho kufuneka unyanzelekile ukuba wenze nantoni na. Nangona kunjalo, kuyafaneleka ukucheka, unikele kwaye uzame. Ukukhawuleza kwenjabulo kuvula iindlela ezintsha zokuzonwabisa. Ngezihlandlo ezinjalo, izithintelo zangaphambili ziphulwe kwaye izibambiso ziyabonakala. Xa uLaura avuma ku-Oleg, umyeni wakhe wesibini, ukuba wayekhatywe ngesondo ngomlomo ngaphambi kokuhlangana kwakhe, wayenomdla: "Ndandicinga ukuba ngaba yinto engokwemvelo ukuba abafazi bavelele ukuthanda kwabo njengaye - ngokwenene ukuba banambitha. Ndathetha nabambalwa bam bahlobo - yaye wamangaliswa xa efumanisa ukuba abanye babo abayithandi ukumanga, kwaye i-cunnilingus ibangele ukuba baxhamle. " Ukuba inkwenkwe ikhula kwintsimi "yasekhaya", ngoko unokukwazi ukufumana imithetho efana nayo. Ngale mithetho, ezinye izinto azikwazi ukuyenza, kwaye kutheni-engacacisiwe. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba i-cunnilingus "ayikho ngendlela ye-patsan." Ndandinamadoda elamkelekileyo abathanda ukuthatha i-cunnilingus, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba bathathe kwi-intombi yabo igama lokuba akaze atshele nabani na ngalo. Enye into - fallatio. Abanye abantu babonakala bengacingi ukuba balala ngesondo. UBill Clinton wathetha ngokuzithemba kwingqungquthela yenkomfa ngoMonica Lewinsky, kunye naye owayengena kumdlalo womlomo: "Andizange ndilalane nalo mfazi." Ukwabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kokungena - kuba ngamanye amaxesha kuyindlela yokuzibophelela ngezibophelelo, ukufumana ukwaneliseka, ukuphepha ukuthandana kokomoya. Ngesizathu esifanayo, abanye abafazi baqonda i-fallatio njengehlazo. Kodwa esibini esithandanayo, i-caresses yomlomo ifumana intsingiselo ehluke ngokupheleleyo: bayangqina kwithemba kunye nomnqweno wokwenza enye ibe mnandi.

Ngaphandle kokunyanzeliswa

Ulonwabo lukhokelela ekunandiseni. Oku kufuna ukunyamekela nokunyamekela. " Ngenxa yokuba isondo somlomo esivela kumlingane sincike, mhlawumbi, ngaphezu kweyiphi na enye. Konke, zonke izinto zenzeka ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kwaye imeko nganye ichaza iimfihlelo ezintsha zothando uthando alchemy.