Usuku lwaBasetyhini lwe-Spring kunye nobuhle

Ukuqinisekisa ukuba uqhube kakuhle ngendlela ophupha ngayo ngoSuku lweTyhini lweNtshonalanga noBumnandi, kuyafaneleka ukuba "uncedo" oluncinisekileyo lwakho nomthandayo. Ngaba uyazi ukuba uya kubhiyozela Usuku lwaMaTyhini lwaMazwe ngamazwe ukuba ungumfazi waseTaliyane?

Abazukulu babo beematronti zamaRoma abhenelayo, ngexesha labo iSuku loBhinqa bazalwa, bafika kwisigqibo sokuba ubukho babathandekayo babo kwimini yamakhosikazi entwasahlobo kunye nobuhle, bethetha ngokungathethi. Amadoda ngalolu suku avunyelwe kuphela ukuhambisa isiqingatha sabo kwindawo yokubhiyozela (esinikwe phambi kwesipho esinobugcisa), aze ahambise ekhaya.

Ilingela ngakwesinye icala. Kodwa kwelinye, kubonakala kum ukuba le ngcamango isondele ekubeni kunye nomthandayo. Fumana i-roses ebomvu i-roses ebomvu (iris purple okanye i-white tulips), hamba kunye kunye nokuhamba ngothando kwindawo epakini (ulala embhedeni okanye ufike kwi-premiere ye-soul-mellow melodrama), kwaye ngokuhlwa ukutyelela ivenkile efanelekileyo (cwangcisa isidlo sasekhaya kunye okanye umeme umcimbi kwiqela elikufutshane bahlobo). Iskripthi sale mihla yamakhosikazi yasentwasahlobo kunye nobuhle sinokuba nantoni na, into ephambili kukuba uyayichitha ingalibaleki, uvakalelwa kukuba uyathandwa kwaye uyakwazisa, uyaqonda ukuba unoyolo ngaphandle "kweenjongo."


Ulindele ummangaliso
Ucinga ntoni, sisilindele ntoni ngoSuku lweBasetyhini? Iintyatyambo, ubucwebe obugqibeleleyo, iingubo zangaphantsi zobushushu, iipesele, iifumba ezifake imfashini? Kakade, akukho namnye kuthi uya kukwenqaba kwezi zipho, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, uya kukhubeka xa bengayifumani isipho esikuloluhlu njengesipho. Kodwa izipho, nantoni na ongayithethayo, ziphela zezinto ezintle kakhulu kwizinto esilindele ngokulangazelela ngoMatshi 8. Silindele okungakumbi: izinto ezimnandi, apho thina ngokwethu singenakukwazi ukuchaza, kodwa xa zenzeka, siya kuqonda ukuba "Ewe, yiloo nto ndiyiphuphayo!" Imimangaliso, imimangaliso, ekugqibeleni. Imimangaliso abazalwana bethu abathandekayo bayilungiselela ngalo mhla. Kodwa ukuba bekunjalo kanye neliphuphayo, masize bancede abameli bethu abakhethiweyo ekuphunyezweni kwabo ncinane.


Ukubakho kwangaphambili kweeholide
Ngokuqinisekileyo ebomini bakho uye wajamelana ngokuphindaphindiweyo nenyaniso yokuba indlela yokubhiyozela iSuku lwaBasetyhini (nangona kunjalo, njengamanye amaxesha aphawulekayo) wena kunye nomlingani wakho uhlukile. Kunyaka ophelileyo wena, umzekelo, uphupha ukuba wena kunye nomyeni wakho uza kuchitha le mini kuphela, kodwa wathabatha waza wamema abahlobo (kwakulungile nangona wayepheka ukutya kwakhe). Kwaye umhlobo wakho osondeleyo wayenethemba lokuba umyeni wakhe wayeza kumnika intshontsho ye-bulldog yesiFrentshi, abaye bayayithanda kulo mboniso. Kodwa ufumene isandi sesipho, esibi kunazo zonke ongazange uhlangane nayo (ngenhlanhla, inokubuyiselwa kwisitoreji, okwenziwe ngasese). Siyabulela kule mizekelo engekho ebomvu, ekugqibeleni uqaphela: iqabane lakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuba usondele kangakanani, kasayi kuphinda ufunde iingcamango zakho. Kwaye xelela indoda yakho ngokukhawuleza ngokuthi yiyiphi "iinqwelo ezibomvu" okanye "iindlovukazi zamakhosikazi" ophuphayo kulo suku lwentwasahlobo, bhetele ngaphambi kwexesha. Oku kwenziwa njani? Iingcali zengqondo zithi amacebiso akho ayimfuneko, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo, kwaye uqulethe iinkcukacha ezicacileyo eziza kunceda umntu akhumbule umnqweno wakho. Ngokomzekelo, "Yisiphi isikhwama esenziwe ngesitayela esintombazana. Black suede, uthando lwam! Ndicinga ukuba ndabona okufana nesitye kufuphi nevenkile. " Unokuqiniseka, umyeni wakho uya kuvuyisa uloncedo lwakho. Into yodwa, musa ukunyusa. Kuya kuba mnandi kuye njengokuthi uqikelele. Ngokufanayo, unako ukuhlalisa "uhlele" ngokukhawuleza nendlela ochitha iholide. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uthetha ngamaxesha ambalwa malunga ne cafe ephawulekayo evuliwe kwindawo yokuhlala kunye nendlela ongathanda ukusela ngayo itiye apho kunye ne-branded charlotte, mhlawumbi, ngomhla we-8 Matshi isifiso sakho siya kuzaliseka.


Ndiyabonga kakhulu! Qinisekisa ukubonisa uvuyo lwakho xa kukho naluphi na uvuyo, ukubonisa ingqalelo, isipho. Ncumo, mbulela ngokunyanisekileyo, wenze uncomelo kwintetho kunye nefantasy yomthandayo. Nangona akazange ... nceda ucoce. Nangona konke, wazama, wacinga, wakhetha, wachitha. Mhlawumbi awuzange umxelele lo mlingane ulwazi olufanelekileyo, ucinga ukuba kufuneka aziqaphele ngeeminqweno zakho, okanye ukucoca ngokucacileyo. Ungakhathazeki kwaye uphazamise umhlobo wakho. Thenga oko uphuphayo, okanye ubuze ngexesha elizayo. Ieholide ezizayo phambili kakhulu!