Ukukhulelwa komntwana kunye nemiqondiso yokukhulelwa kuyafana nawuphi na ubudala. Umehluko kukuba kwiminyaka eyahlukeneyo kukho iingxaki zentlalo. Ngokomzekelo, ukukhulelwa komntwana esemncinane (iminyaka eyi-17-20) kubandakanya iingxaki ezininzi. Kule minyaka, abazali bahlala bezinzile kwiinyawo zabo, abanalo amakhaya abo. Akulungele ukukhulisa umntwana, ngoko bafuna uncedo lwabadala, kokubili ukuziphatha kunye nezinto eziphathekayo.
Amaqabane angaphezu kweminyaka engama-20 aneminyaka yobudala obubele abantwana. Ziyimpilo, zizele amandla. Ukukhulelwa nokugqithiswa kokubeleka kweli nqanaba kwabasetyhini kakhulu ngaphandle kweengxaki. Umgca wecala kuphela kukuba ngeli xesha le sibini esitshatileyo asinaso isiseko sezinto ezizinzileyo. Ibhinqa lifuna ukwenza umsebenzi, ngoko ke akayi kukhetha ukuba nomntwana esemncinci.
Umdala ongaphezu kweminyaka engama-30 ubudala xa abafazi bade bafeze impumelelo kwimisebenzi yabo, bazinzile kwiinyawo zabo, indlu yabo ifakwe. Ngoko ke, ngoku amaninzi amatshabini anquma ukuba nomntwana eneminyaka engama-35-40.
Ukukhulelwa komntwana kule minyaka kudibene neengxaki ezahlukeneyo, kodwa oku akusoloko kwenzeka. Abazali abangaphezulu kweminyaka, umngcipheko omkhulu wokukhulelwa umntwana onokukhubazeka kwe-chromosomal.
Ukukhulelwa komntwana kunye neempawu zokukhulelwa zilandelana. Umntwana ukhulelwa njani?
Ukukhulelwa komntwana kwenzeka, ngenxa yokuxuba kwamaseli wesini kunye namabhinqa wesini - iqanda kunye nesidoda.
Ngethuba lokuvuthwa, i-ovum ekhulile ivela kwiiyunithi zowesifazane, ojongene nokuzalwa ubomi obutsha. Ekuqaleni, iqanda likwiphepha elizaliswe ngamanzi. Phakathi kwimijikelezo yokuya esikhathini, iqanda livuthwa kwaye lilungele ukuchumisa. Ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, i-200-300 yezigidi zesidoda isilisa singena emzimbeni wesibhambathiso, esithintela ngaphakathi kwimizimba yesini yangaphakathi yesini. I-Spermatozoa ihamba ukusuka kwisini ukuya kwisibeleko. Kwindlela yokuzala, abafazi besilisa bashukunyiswa kwiintsuku ezimbini. Iqanda, efunyenwe kwi-tube fallopian, lidibana ne-spermatozoa elukhuphayo. Ukungena ngaphakathi kweqanda spermatozoa kuqala ukukhupha i-enzyme ekwazi "ukubetha" igobolondo yayo. Ngenxa yoko, enye i-spermatozoon ivela ngaphakathi kweseli yeqanda. I-spermatozoa esele iyakubhubha. Ngaphakathi kweseli yeqanda, i-membrane membrane iyancibilika, kwaye idibanisa neqanda ngokwayo, eyenza i-zygote-i-unicellular embryo. Njengoko i-embryo ikhula kwaye ikhula, iyahamba ecaleni kwiphubhu ye-fallopian ibe kwisibeletho, apho ifakelwe khona udonga lwayo. Eli xesha lithatha umyinge weveki.
Emva kokukhulelwa komntwana, lo mfazi unemiqondiso yokukhulelwa, ebonakalayo kwimpilo yakhe nentlalo. Impawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa - ukulibaziseka kwinyanga, isisongela kunye nokuhlanza, ingakumbi ekuseni, ukunyamezela.
Ezi zilandelayo ziyimpawu zokukhulelwa:
- Ukukhathala ngokukhawuleza;
- Ukutshatyalaliswa;
- Ukuvutha;
ukunyaniseka;
- utshintsho kwisondlo (mhlawumbi landa okanye linyamalale ngokupheleleyo);
- utshintsho kwiintlobo ezikhethiweyo.
Emva kokuba unempawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa, kufuneka wenze uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ekhaya, okukuvumela ukuba ufumane ukukhulelwa kweveki emva kokuba kwenzeke.
Uvuyayo uvakalelwa!