Emva koko, akukho nto inzima kwingxoxo yakho. Kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile, abaninzi abafazi bazama ukufumana zonke iimpendulo kwiincwadi baze batyelele uncedo lomhlobo. Kodwa kuphela ukuthetha ngesondo kunye nendoda.
Abasetyhini abaninzi bayesaba ukuthetha ngeminqweno yabo. Kodwa ukuba yonke into injalo kwimeko yakho, zama ukuxubusha umnqweno wakho othandekayo ngaphandle kwamagama. Mthabathe nje kwaye umbonise indlela othanda ngayo okanye ucebise ukumdlala umdlalo ongaqhelekanga.
Unokusungula izinto ezininzi kumdla. Kwakhona unokumbhalela ileta, echaza into ophuphayo kunye nayo yonke into ichaza ngokucacileyo oko kwenzeka khona. Ngaloo ndlela, unokukudlulisela kuye, uyintoni na into oyifunayo kwaye umemele enze iphupha lakho lifezeke. Yaye qiniseka ukuba uchaza kwileta yakho yintoni indoda enqwenelekayo onayo, into oyiva ngayo ngaye nakwiphupha. Indoda iya kuvuya ngokudumisa, kwaye uya kuvuyela amaphupha akho.
Zama ukuchaza umntu wakho malunga neyona ndlela efanelekileyo xa ulala naye. Mxelele oko uvakalelwa ngoko kunye neengcamango ozenzayo entloko yakho. Ndikholelwe, indoda yakho iya kukuvuyela ukuva konke oku kwaye yinguye onokukunceda. Ngexesha elizayo uzakuzama kwakhona ukukholisa kwaye uphumeze amaphupha akho.
Musa ukwesaba ukuthetha, uphonsa zonke iimingcele zakho, uphupha uze uphawule, funda ujonge ukuthetha nomntu wakho.
Kukho amaxesha apho umntu eqala ukunyanzelisa uluvo lwakhe, kodwa awufuni ukwenza konke. Ufanele uzame ngokucacileyo ukuba uchaze loo ndoda ukuba awukwazi ukuzonwabisa kwaye ungaziva ukhululekile. Uze undikholelwe, uya kukuqonda, kwaye unako ukuhambisa umnqweno wakho kumntu oyintanda. Ewe, ukuba ungumntu onqwenela ukuqonda, funda wena umntu oza kuba ne-idyll epheleleyo.
Ngoku, sibulela kwinqaku lethu, uyazi indlela yokuthetha nendoda ngesondo.