Okokuqala kufuneka uthande kwaye unqwenele iqabane lakho, kunye naye, kwaye okwesibini, udinga iqabane lakho ukuba ukwazi into oyifunayo ebhedeni kuwe, ukuze ufumane umxhelo ophezulu, kakuhle, okwesithathu kufuneka ukwazi ukuba umlingane ufuna ntoni embhedeni, ukuze afikelele kwinqweno yolonwabo. Ukuba ngeemeko ezimbini zokuqala, thina, ngokuqhelekileyo, asinakukwenza, ngoko yimeko yesithathu ngokupheleleyo ezandleni zethu (kwaye kungekhona kuphela). Kwaye le nqaku kufuneka ikuncede ukuba uyayiqonda into umntu ayithandayo ebhedeni.
Ukuchaneka ngakumbi, kule nqaku ayiyi kuba nayiphi na imiyalelo ecacileyo kunye ngqo, yenza njalo njalo njalo, kuba, kuwe ongathethi, umntu ngamnye indlela yakhe. Kuya kuba neengcebiso ngokubanzi ukukunceda ukuba uqonde oko amadoda anjengokulala.
Ngoko, masihlawule iingcebiso.
IBhunga kuqala. Ukuqonda, kufuneka ucele.
Njengoko uyazi, isidalwa asiyilona sidalwa nje, kwaye loo ndoda ngokubhekiselele kule nto ayikho. Kwaye ke, indlela elula yokufumana oko akuthandayo kwisini, mbuze ngqo, kwaye ixa liye, indlela echanekileyo iyona mfutshane. Kwaye ke akufuneki ukuba uloyike, ukuba ndiza kuqwalasela okanye ndibale njengento ephoxisiweyo okanye ichithwe, njengokuba kukho ukubonisa, inxulumano enjalo inomdla kubantu. Kubalulekile ukuba iqabane liqonde, kwaye likwazi ukucacisa ngokucacileyo ngamazwi oko akufunayo, kunye noko akuthandayo ebhedeni.
Ibhunga lesibini. Ungesabi ukuzama.
Indlela yokuqala, i-alas, kwaye ayisoloko ifanelekile kwizizathu ezininzi (ukuthozama, imfundo, njl.). Kule meko, inzululwazi iya kusihlangulo. Kwizenzululwazi, kukho indlela yokuphanda njengolu vavanyo, kwaye, njengommiselo, unikeza iziphumo ezibalulekileyo ezibalulekileyo. Yiloo nto kwaye kufuneka uyenze ekusebenzeni (kunye neencwadana ezimbalwa, iifilimu okanye iiwebhsayithi kwi-intanethi) - oku kuya kunceda uqonde oko umntu akuthandayo ebhedeni. Xa usuqalile ukuguqa, lixesha lokuqalisa ukuzivocavoca. Phakamisa bakho abafana ngokwabo, amatsha amatsha, imidlalo ye-erotic, ugqoke kwiilwimi zobungcali, ungayenza ukukhanya kwe-Garden-Mazo. Kuphela ke, ungazami yonke into kanye, kwaye ubulili bakho buya kuba yinto ephosakeleyo yoononophala. Emva kwakho konke, nakwiimvavanyo kufuneka ukwazi umlinganiselo!
Isiluleko sesithathu. Yiba nzima.
Njengoko siyiqonda, noBuratin akafuni ukulala nelog. Kwaye indoda enyameni negazi ayikwazi ukuthetha. Ngoko ke, thina bafazi, akudingeki sibe yilogi, kodwa kufuneka sihlale sikhuthele, sikhumbule, ngesondo esifanelekileyo, kubalulekile ukuba bahlale bebandakanyeka kumaqabane omabini. Qala umdlalo wesondo, intombazana encinci, umcengceze, ukhanyise umlilo emehlweni akhe. Amadoda njengabantwana, uya kumxelela ukuba uyona mhle ebhedini kwaye uya kukholelwa ngokukhawuleza!
YeBhunga inombolo yesine. Yenze ihle!
Iimeko ngexesha lolwalamano, kumntu oqhelekileyo, kubalulekile. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha wonke umntu ufuna ukuzama, kodwa ke, ama-sheets amnandi, umoya ophumayo, konke oku kufana nabantu. Ekugqibeleni, ukulala ngesondo ekhitshini kungcono kwaye kuyamnandi xa ithebula lihlambulukileyo kwaye ikhitshi ihlambulukile. Njengoko bethetha, umntu wamanje usetyenziselwa ukuthuthuzela, kwaye nangona ngesondo akafuni ukuyeka kuye, kwaye oku kuyafuneka ukuba kuqwalaselwe.
Mhlawumbi ezi zicebiso ezine ziyintloko ukuze uqonde oko abantu abathandayo ngesondo. Ngenxa yokuba, njengoko sele sichazwe ngasentla, umntu uyathanda ikhabe, enye i-cartilage yengulube, kunye nomsebenzi wethu kukuchonga ukuba ngubani oza kukutya.