Xa ikhandlela elalikhanyisa isidlo sothando, intliziyo yakho iqala ukubetha nzima. Kodwa kungekhona ukulindela oko kuza kulandela i-dessert, kodwa ngenxa yokwesaba intlungu - wakho umhlobo ongunaphakade wobubele kunye nomnqweno. Kutheni amaxesha amnandi kakhulu ekunxibelelana nentanda yakho endikukhuphayo kakhulu? Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba uzilahle?
Andifuni kwaye akunako?
Isizathu semvakalelo engalunganga ngexesha loqhagamshelwano lwezesondo zowesifazane wesimangalisa unokungqinelani kwengqondo kunye neqabane. Kwaye imfundo engafanelekanga, xa abazali bevela ebuntwaneni babakhuthaza intombazana ukuba isondo siziphatha okubi kwaye siyingozi. Konke oku kukhokelela ekubeni umzimba uqala ukumelana nayo yonke imikhosi engenakufunwa "ukungena", okubangelwa ukuxhatshazwa kwemisipha.
Enye ingxaki "yintonga" yentlungu: ukuba unakho into engathandekiyo, awuyi kuze uyikhohlwe kwaye kwimeko efanayo uya kulindela ukubonakala kwazo. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka njalo kwaye: le ndoda ayisichukumisanga le ntokazi, kwaye sele sele idibanisa amazinyo.
Ukuphuma kwinqangi engqumbo, okokuqala, kufuneka utshintshe izimvo zakho kwiintsebenziswano ezisondeleyo. Funda iincwadi ezinikezelwe kulo mxholo, jonga iifilimu zothando-zothando: ziya kunceda ukuvusa isimo sengqondo.
Ukuba uyamthanda umntu, zama ukumenza unqweneleka kakhulu. Yenza imeko apho ubulili obungenakwenzeka khona, kodwa ungabonisa uthando omnye komnye. Kule nto, idama lokubhukuda, i-cinema okanye iqela. Ukuthandana nothando kunye nokujonga ubuso bakhe kwaye ubonakalise, uya kunika ukhululekile kwiingcamango zakho kwaye uzive unomnqweno.
Kuya kuba yinqweneleka kwaye iyahlulwa
Indlela yokonwaba ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ngesithandwa samanje sineengozi ezininzi - ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo, ukukhulelwa ngokwesini, ukunyuka kwexesha lokuya kwi-latex ... Uvakalelwa kukuba, le ntombazana ayikwazi ukuphumla kunye neentlungu ngenxa yengcinezelo yenyama.
Ukuze ungacingi ngeengxaki ezinokwenzeka, qinisa ukwesaba kwakho kwaye ucinge ngendlela onokuzikhusela ngayo. Idilesi kumfazi wesifo somzimba - uya kunceda okanye ukuncedisa ukuthatha i-contraceptive. Futhi ugweme oonxibelelwano kwiintsuku "ezinobungozi".
Ukuvakalelwa kwokhuseleko kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwanomfazi wesimanje uphinde wathonyelwa yindawo yokwenza uthando. Ngethuba lobudlelwane bakho, akufanele ukhathazeke ngumbono wokuba i-creaking ebhedeni iviwa emva kodonga, nokuba unina okanye umntwana uza kungena kwigumbi.
Elula, othandekayo.
Mhlawumbi "uluthando lwenu" luhlobene nento yokuba ukhethiweyo wakho unomzimba omkhulu wesini. Ukuba uthe cwaka, le ndoda inokungazi malunga neengxaki zakho. Ngokwenyama, akayiva nemingcipheko, oko kuthetha ukuba uyancinci amandla akhe kwaye akayikulawula imizamo yakhe. Ngelixa ungaziceli ngokucacileyo ukuba "inzuzo engaphantsi", iqabane lingenakuqonda ukuba izandi ozenzayo aziyiziphakamiso zokunyakaza, kodwa zibuhlungu intlungu.
Ukuthetha nomlingane kwesi sihloko esibucayi, ungagxininisi ekudumiseni kwaye ungakhathali ukuphindaphinda umthandi omhle yena kunye nokuba uziqhenya kangakanani ngobukhulu besithunzi sakhe. Kwaye ke, ngokuzisola, zithi ukunyaniseka kwakho kunye nokunciphisa ukungahambi kakuhle akuhambanga kakuhle nobudlova. Ukuvuma okunjalo kuya kumenza abe mnene.
Ukubaluleka kubaluleke kakhulu. Ubundlobongela kwi "classical performance" kukhetha ukuthanda isenzo sokulinganisela. Kwakhona, kufuneka uthabathe isinyathelo kuqala kumntu, uphume phezulu. Ngoko unako ukulawula inkqubo ngokwakho kwaye ungesabi nayiphi na imiphumo engalindelekanga.