Enyanisweni, oku akuthethi ukuba ukukholisa ibhinqa, indoda kufuneka ibeke i-tuxedo enhle. Nangona indoda igqoke iimpahla eziqhelekileyo, ezifana neT-shirt kunye nejee, iimpahla zakhe kufuneka zihlambuluke, zingagqithwanga.
Njengamadoda, ukubukeka komfazi kwimeko yomntu ongaqhelekanga kuvela ekubonakaleni kwakhe. Njengoko kwenzeka njalo isaga esaziwayo - hlawulela kwiingubo, khangela kwiqondo.
Ucela, ngaba kubalulekile ukuba ibhinqa ligqoke indoda? Ewe, ukuba ukubonakala komntu kuya kubangela iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo - lo mntu akajongwe ukushiya uphawu lwakhe ebomini yowesifazane.
Yintoni indoda ifanele ibukeke ngayo ukuba iliso lomfazi limele kuye ngaphezu kweyesibini? Okokuqala, hla mbulula. Inyaniso eyaziwayo kukuba abafazi, ngokwemvelo, bahlambulukile. Ngaba ucinga ukuba kunjalo, abafazi bazilungiselela ukuhlanjululwa - ukunyuswa kweenwele, ukunyuka kwinqanaba le-beauty, u-manicure kunye ne-pedicure? Hayi, konke oku kuvela kumnqweno wokuhlambuluka nococekileyo. Amadoda amaninzi akufumanisa kunzima ukuqonda intombazana.
Kukho amadoda anjalo angacacanga nakumntu omdala, oko, umzekelo, isock, kuyimfuneko ukutshintsha yonke imihla. Ngaphandle koko, zona zizixhaphazela ekupheleni kwesilwanyana esidumiweyo sehlabathi-skunk. Uthando olunjani nolubonakalisa ukubukeka okunjalo. Ubuninzi obunokufumana i-slob enjalo kubonakala kumangaliswe kunye nempumlo yentombazana encinci.
Elinye iphuzu elibalulekileyo. Ucinga ntoni, yintoni na intokazi ibheka kwindoda? Ngezihlangu zakhe. Uyakhumbula umlingiswa obalaseleyo kwifilimu eyaziwayo yaseSoviet, engavumi ukujwayelana nendoda ngenxa yeebhotile zakhe ezingcolileyo? Ndikholelwe, oku akusiyo nje umbhali oyimbali. Enyanisweni, umnini wezambatho ezicocekileyo nezandileyo unamathuba amaninzi kwisiqingatha esihle sabantu.
Ukuvumba komntu kubalulekile nakumfazi. Akunandaba, ihogela i-perfume ebiza okanye i-gel. Into ephambili kukuba ayiphumeli iphunga lomthunzi. Kwaye, umntu kufuneka akhumbule ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu empilweni nasekuphumeleleni kwabasetyhini ukuxubha amazinyo akho ubuncinane kabini ngosuku.
Ukuba umntu unenhlanhla ngokwaneleyo ukudlula, oko kuthiwa ikhowudi yokugqoka, oko kuza kuvela kwezinye izinto. Into elandelayo ukuba umbono womfazi uwele emehlweni omntu (oku kukuthi uhlambulukile kwaye ucocekile kuye, akayiqondi into) ukubonakala kwakhe. Ngokunjalo, umntu, umfanekiso, ukumncumo, iinwele, iinwele. Konke kuxhomekeka kuyo nayiphi inxalenye yomzimba womntu ekhangayo.
Ukuthanda abesifazana, indoda kufuneka ikwazi ukuthetha kakuhle kwaye imnandi, ugcine intetho ukuze loo ntombazana ingakhathazeki.
Ibhinqa liya kuphelisa umntu ngokukhawuleza ukuba ucinga ukusebenzisa ulwimi oluhlaziyileyo kwingxoxo yakhe okanye ephazamisayo. Ukuba indoda ithembele kuye, inokwakha incoko ukuze umfazi amphulaphule ngomlomo wakhe evulekile aze ahlekise amahlaya akhe.
Kwaye ngoku iingcebiso kubafazi! Izidalwa ezithandekayo nezilungileyo, ukuba ukujonga kwakho kwindoda engaqhelekanga kwakungekho kubanjwe nantoni na, okanye into ethile yakukhupha kule ndoda-ukubonakala kwayo, indlela yokuthetha ngayo. Musa ukwakha iinqaba ezivela entlabathi uze unike indoda ithuba lokuvuselela.
Ndikholelwe, intlanganiso yesibini neyesithathu iya kukudanisa. Usuvele udala kwaye kufuneka uqonde ukuba abantu abaguqulwa ngobudala, kwaye izilingo zongeza kumntu ngakumbi.
Thembela intuition yakho kunye nemizwa yokuqala, ngoko yonke into ebomini yakho iya kulungile!