Ngaba kukufanele ukuba ngowokuqala ukuthatha inyathelo?

Kukho iintsuku xa uzele amandla kunye namandla, kukho ukufuna ukuqokelela, ukuqokelela abantu kuwe, ukwenza, ukwenza, ukuthatha isenzo ... Kukholelwa ukuba ukuthatha konke ezandleni zakho kungumgangatho wabathembeli kuphela, kwaye ukuba kuwe akuveli kwimvelo , akukho nto enokuyenza kwaye awuyi kukwenza isigqibo. Kodwa akunjalo? Zininzi iindlela zokutshintsha ikhosi yeziganeko zobomi. Ndiza kusebenza kum. Ngaba kukufanele ukuba ngowokuqala ukuthatha inyathelo kunye nento oyenzayo?

Ukunika amandla

• Ukubonakalisa - into evumela ukuba unqande ngokukhawuleza iimvakalelo, iingcinga, ukwenzela ukuba ungagxininisi imeko enzima, ukukhusela imiphumo emibi;

• ukuzimisela - ukukwazi ukwenza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza, ezinolwazi kunye neziqinileyo ebomini.

Nyathelo

Ukuhlakulela ezi mpawu ngokwabo ngumsebenzi wangempela, into ephambili kukuba ufuna kwaye uqale ukwenza ngokufanelekileyo. Njani? Kulula!

1 inyathelo. Kujoliswe kwinqanaba loqhagamshelwano. Ngaphandle kwayo nayiphi na indlela. Kuphela ngokufunda ukuthetha nabantu, ngokuxhasa ngenkxaso intetho, ngokufanelekileyo ukubuza imibuzo nokuphulaphula, ekugqibeleni uza kuziva amandla okubonisa isicwangciso. Uya kufunda ukuva abanye abantu: uya kukwazi oko bafuna, oko bafuna. Njani ukwenza oku? Ngokomzekelo, kuzo zonke iifunivesithi zemidlalo, abadlali bezakhono bazama ukufundisa indlela yokusebenza kunye nokuthetha. Kwaye oku kwenziwa yindlela kuphela: iqela lithathwa kwisitrato kwaye libeke phambi kwabo umsebenzi - umzekelo, ukuba ujwayelene nomfokazi, umcele icebiso okanye awanga ehlathini. Zama nawe. Ekuqaleni kuya kuba nzima, kodwa ekugqibeleni uya kufumana inkululeko yangaphakathi - i-initiative iya kuba ngumgangatho ocacileyo.

2 inyathelo. Funda ukuthatha uxanduva kwizenzo zabo. Ewe, le ngenye yezigaba ezinzima kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, sonke siyabantwana ekuhlaleni, kwaye sifuna umama, utata, ugogo, umzalwana, kwaye emva koko umyeni, umphathi, wayemthanda wonke umntu ukuba asenze isigqibo. Zama ukumisa ngexesha kwaye ungadluli kwiinkxalabo ezikufuphi, onokukwazi ukuziphendulela wena. Awunayo incini, efihla intloko yayo entlabathi kwingozi yokuqala.

Ukuthobeka kwabantu

Ngenxa yengqondo yethu yeSlavic kunzima kakhulu ukuthatha inyathelo ezandleni zethu. Kukho izizathu ezininzi kule meko. Okokuqala, unqulo lwethu lobuKristu lusifundisa ukuthatha yonke imihlali kunye nokwehluleka ebomini njengento yokwenene kunye nokuthobeka. Okwesibini, izizwe zaseMpuma Yurophu ziyahlukaniswa ngothando lwabo lokuzinza nokuzimela. Ngako oko kubonakala ukuba ngokwemiqathango yehlabathi lanamhlanje, kubalulekile ukuphula iingqungquthela eziye zabekwa kuthi kuthi kangangamakhulu eminyaka.

3 inyathelo. Funda ukwenza. Kwaye isigaba esinqununu, xa sele sele ulungele ukunyakaza, sele ulungele ukunyakaza, kodwa ngokwenene kukho iingcamango, abaxhasayo kunye nabaxhasayo, kwaye kufuneka uhambe unenjongo yokuthatha isenzo. Ngokuqhelekileyo unqabile ukwesaba. Emva kwakho konke, yonke into entsha, kwaye akukho siqinisekiso sokuba iqhinga lakho liya kuxhaswa, ukuba isicwangciso esilungileyo asiyi kuphelelwa. Kubalulekile ukubonisa ngokucacileyo injongo kunye nesisiseko. Iqhinga lolwalamano, nokuba luthando okanye ulwalamano, luhlala lubangela ingxabano eninzi. Ngubani omele athathe isinyathelo sokuqala sokuxolelana emva kokuxabana - indoda okanye ibhinqa? Iingcali zengqondo zibonisa ukuba isinyathelo samakhosikazi kufuneka sithengise ukuba senze okuthile-kwaye oku kusabela ngokuqhelekileyo kwanoma yimuphi umntu ofanelekileyo. Ukhetho luhlala lenu. Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba nakuphi na ukuzonwabisa okumele ukwenze, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kuvezwa njani, isinyathelo sokuqala.

Umgca omhle

Isilungiso - isiqwenga esilungiswayo. Umntu othatha uxanduva, uthatha isinyathelo sokuqala ukudibana, uhlala ehlala entloko ... Oku kufuneka ukuba kulungele. Njengomthetho, iqhinga lidibeneyo kwiindidi ezinjalo. Emsebenzini - ukuphunyezwa kwezicwangciso zabo zokudala, iinjongo kunye neengcamango. Ubunono, ukuzimela, inzondelelo-imikhomo emithathu eya kukunceda nje ukuqonda ingcamango yakho, kodwa iphinde uyikhuthaze, hlawulela iqela labahlobo. Kufuneka ube nenjongo ecacileyo kunye nenjongo, ukuzithemba kunye nesidingo seengcamango zakho kunye nezicwangciso, ukulungelelanisa izinto ezahlukeneyo ezingalindelekanga. Zive ukhululekile ukubonisa iingcamango zakho, ukucinga, ukungathandabuzeki, ukuze uzibonakalise njengomntu. Amadoda ayavuya ukuqonda ukuba kukho umntu oya kubaxhasa njalo kwaye ulinde. Khumbula, indoda inomdla kumfazi onomdla kuye. Kodwa iqhinga lezesondo eziqinileyo libonwa njengendlela yokulandelelana kwezinto, kuba kufuneka ukuba ziphikelela kwaye zinenkani, zihambelane ngqo kwiinjongo zabo, ngakumbi ukuba zixhalabisa intliziyo yowesifazane. Kodwa ebomini yonke into ayithethi njengokuba ufuna. Kwaye abantu bafana nabantu abafana nabasetyhini, kwaye banokungathandabuzeki kunye neengxaki. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukukhupha umntu okhethiweyo ukuba enze into ethile, mcedeni ahlakulele iimpawu eziza kuvula umnqweno wezenzo ngexesha. Ukulindela ukuba umntu uza kuza kwaye ashintshe ubomi bakho ngokukhawuleza - kuyamangalisa, kwenzeka kuphela kwiinganekwane, eqinisweni, kungekudala okanye kamva uza kufuneka wenze izigqibo uze uthwale uxanduva lwakho. Yibani ke! Musa nje ukuyidlula, okanye igama lesiteketiso "indiza ecasulayo" akunakwenzeka ukukholisa.

Ukukhula kobugcisa

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Indawo epholileyo

• Ikhoneni elithule apho ungakha khona okanye ucinge ngokucokisekileyo ngcamango yakho. Iingcamango ezintle kubo bonke abantu abakhulu beza ngqo kwindawo ababeziva bekhululekile ngayo. Ngokomzekelo, i-Descartes ezinkulu zenze izinto zakhe ezithe zalala embhedeni, kwaye u-Edison wayalala kwibhubhoratri ukuba avume ngokukhawuleza zonke iimbono ezaza engqondweni. U-Hemingway wayekuthanda ukusebenza kwimisebenzi yakhe eParis Cafe "iLilac Farm". Kunokuba ungcini?

Umgca

• Siyakwandisa - ngakumbi esaziyo, sifunde, sihambele imibukiso eyahlukeneyo, imibukiso, siya phesheya, sifuna abantu abanomdla kunye nabasandul 'ukutshabalala, mhlawumbi iimbono ezithakazelisayo nezobugcisa ziya kuza kwiingqondo zethu.

Ukuzonwabisa

• Enye yeendlela ezilula ukuphuhlisa amandla angaphakathi ekudaleni. Vumela iziphumo zingabonakali, kodwa wabonisa iqela.