Indlela yokuphila kude kube ngumtshato wegolide

Wonke umfazi othabatha amaphupha akhe othandekayo ukuba aphile ngokuvuya emva kwakhe. Nangona kunjalo, kude nalo lonke iphupha lizaliseka. Abafazi abaninzi banokuzibonela ngokukhawuleza ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuxazulula iingxaki eziye zavela ngaphandle kokulimaza inzala yomntu, indlela yokuphephisana ngamazwe ngokugqithisana. Mhlawumbi ke, ezinye izibini ezitshatileyo zihlala zingakhange ziqaphele umtshato wazo "womthi". Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe ukuze uhlaziye kwaye uphile ngokusemthethweni umtshato "wegolide"? Mhlawumbi, icebiso elilandelayo eliluncedo liyakunceda kakhulu: Okokuqala - susa iilazi "ezipinki" ezivela kuwe! Emva kwakho konke, usuyintombazana enkulu ukukholelwa ngokuthethekileyo kwinduna ehashe elimhlophe. Unako, ewe, uphupha okufutshane malunga nalo, kodwa kuphela. Kwaye ebomini boqobo zama ukunyamekela ngakumbi kwiindawo ezikufuphi kuwe. Mhlawumbi, uya kuba nethamsanqa ukufumana umqhubi ofanelekileyo kwisandla nangentliziyo yakho.

Ukuba awuyi kuphumla amabali enothando malunga neCinderella ekhangayo, ngoko, ngokudibanisa ingcamango, yiza ngeqhinga lakho! Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ukhumbule ixesha elihle kakhulu lothando lwakho. Kungenzeka ukuba emva koko unyakale kwiminyaka engama-20, umntu obomvu obomvu uya kubonakala uyinkosana yangempela. Intloko oyithandayo!

Okwesibini - ukuba ukholelwa ngokuthe ngothando olugqibeleleyo, kuya kufuneka ube neentlungwini ezincinane. Ngokutsho kweengxelo ze-psychoanalyst abanamava, amathuba okuba nempilo yomtshato eqhubekayo ikhula ngokuthe ngqo ngenxa yomtshato "ngenxa yothando olukhulu". Kwaye uyayifuna?

Nangona kubonakala kuwe ukuba ufumene uthando lokwenene, oluqaqambileyo olukhulu, musa ukukhawuleza isithsaba. Qonda kakuhle ukulungele ukumkela wakho umthandayo kunye nazo zonke iziphoso zakhe, qi niseka ngamandla olwalamano lwakho.

Okwesithathu , ulungele, xa utshata, kungekhona nje ukufumana iimpawu zokunakekelwa kwindoda yakho ethandekayo, kodwa uyamnceda. Faka isicelo semali efanayo yokusebenzisana. Emva koko, lo umehluko phakathi "kobudlelwane obuphezulu" esasinokuphupha ngawo. Ngaphandle koko, ngokukhawuleza nobudlelwane obuhle kakhulu obungabonakaliyo.

Okwesine - musa ukuthatha ngokungathí sina isicatshulwa sokuthi umtshato uya kuba ngumqobo kumsebenzi wakho, ukuthintela ukunxibelelana nabahlobo bokuqala kunye nezinye izinto ezingenangqondo. Umtshato, ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kunciphisa ubungakanani benkululeko yakho, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba ukuzimela kwakho kuya kucinezela. Into ephambili ebomini bentsapho kubudlelwane obuthembayo phakathi kwabatshatileyo.

Okwesithathu - ukuyeka ukunyaniseka ukuba uya kuthandana ngokuthanda kwakho nje ngokuba uthanda ngamandla, njengemihla yokuthandana ebusheni bakho. IiHormones zoqhankqalazo ngexesha lexesha zinomdla wokuphelisa, ngoko uyiphathe kakuhle. Okuqhelekileyo. Ngamaxesha ambalwa "ubeke izinto ngokulandelelanayo" ebuhlotsheni bakho obusondeleyo, bahlaziye kunye nomlingane wakho othandekayo.

Okwesithandathu , awucingi ukuba emva kwesitampu kwi-passport yakho ubudlelwane bakho buya kuphuhlisa ngempumelelo ngokwabo! Khumbula ukuba ubomi bentsapho ngumsebenzi wemihla ngemihla yobabili bomtshato.

Ngesixhenxe , awunakuze ukwazi ngokuphathelele umyeni wakho yonke into. Oku kubangelwa ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kuye. Musa ukumxelela ngento yonke into encinane. Kwaye akusebenzi nje kuphela ulwalamano nabahlobo kunye nomsebenzi wakho, kodwa nakwiimfihlelo ezincinci zokukhanga kwakho. Indoda ayikho isidingo sokuba wazi ukuba kutheni izihlathi zakho zinzima, kutheni amehlo ekhanya.

Okwesibhozo , akuyiyo yonke into yokuba iqabane lakho liqaphele ukubeka iliso okanye uzame ukuhlala kufuphi naye. Ndikholelwe, kungekudala uza kudana kakhulu. Bathi indlela efanelekileyo yokunyandana kukuba uhlale kufuphi.

Yenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo kwiingcebiso ezilapha ngasentla: phila ubomi bakho, ufumana kuyo uvuyo kunye novuyo. Emva koko wabelane nabo ngesithandwa sakho nesithandwa sakho.

Ngoko uya kukhululeka kunye kunye. Kwaye kuphela kule ndlela uza kuba nethuba lokwenene lokuphila kwimtshato "yegolide" ngaphandle komtshato ovuyayo!