Nangona, umhla wokuqala kunye nokuqala kokuthandana okuninzi kuxhomekeke kumntu, kuba ngumntu onqobayo loo mfazi, ingqalelo yakhe kunye nomdla, okwenziwa ngabantu ngoku. Ngako oko, ngumntu omele azame ukwenza okulungileyo kumfazi ngomhla wokuqala kwaye uphephe iimpazamo.
Iingcamango ezenziwe ngomhla wokuqala ngabafazi. Enye yezona mpazamo ezibuhlungu kakhulu - ukuza kumntu kunye nomntu, engazibeki. Le nto yimbi kakhulu into eyenziwa ngumfazi-ukuza ngaphandle kokubumba, ngaphandle kwekhanda elihle, kunye ne-shabby varnish kwiisilumko zakhe nakwiingubo ezindala. Ukuya kumhla, kufuneka uzame ukuzibonela phambili kwiqela kwaye ugxininise isidima sakho sonke. Khumbula ukuba umntu uyathanda, okokuqala, amehlo akhe, ngoko ufanele umthande ngaphandle. Impazamo yomnye umfazi - ukuthetha ngokugqithisileyo ngomhla wokuqala. Amadoda ngokubanzi abathandi abasetyhini abangavaliyo umlomo. Akuyimfuneko ukuthetha ngokungapheliyo, kungcono ukuthula ngaphandle kokuthetha izinto ezingenangqondo. Awukwazi ukusasaza lonke ulwazi malunga nawe ngomhla wokuqala. Hlalani indoda engummangaliso, mamele ngakumbi kuye, uthethe ngaye, kwaye unikele ngolwazi malunga nawe kwiincinci ezincinci ngexesha lokutyelela ezininzi. Enye impazamo ukunyaniseka okugqithisileyo. Ixhalaba ngamadoda nabasetyhini. Ngentloni, ukuzithemba, ukukhokelela ekukhuni nasekunyameni, kungabonakalisa kakubi usuku lwakho lokuqala.
Impazamo eyenziwe ngomhla wokuqala womntu. Amadoda kufuneka ahlale ekhumbula ukuba atyhilela loo ntokazi, yingakho kufuneka athathe inyathelo ekuqaleni kwesazi kwaye abe ngabaququzeleli bobuchule. Enye yeempazamo kukungabikho kwinqanaba elipheleleyo kunye nokutshintshela intlangano yentlanganiso kumfazi, kummema ukuba acinge ukuba uza kuhamba kunye nendlela yokuchitha ixesha. Konke oku kufuneka kucinga ngendoda! Qinisekisa ukunika inkazana iintyatyambo ngosuku lokuqala. Iphutha liya kuza ngomhla ngaphandle kwesibonakaliso esincinci sokunakekelwa ngendlela yeentyatyambo okanye ibhokisi yeeholethi.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, akuvumelekile ukufika emva kwexesha, ukuza kwindawo yokuxilisa, ukulinda ibhinqa ibhotile yobhiya esandleni sakhe okanye ugwayi emlonyeni wakhe. Iphutha elingenakuthethelelwa liza kukuza kwakho ngomhla onempahla engcolileyo, enezipikili ezingcolileyo. Lo uya kuba ngowokuqala nomhla wokugqibela, ndikuqinisekisa. Akuvumelekanga ukuba unikeze ngesini isini ngomhla wokuqala kwaye uqale ukuthetha ngesondo. Ngokuqala kokubanga. Makube ngcono kumhla wesibini okanye kamva, kodwa kungekhona ngowokuqala. Inokwenzeka ukuba, le ntokazi ayinayo ingcinga ukuba ufuna ukukunanga emva komhla wokuqala, ngoko ungagxininisi ngokumanga ngosuku lokuqala. Nangona ubona ukuba uyithande kakhulu umfazi, kwaye ufuna ukuba oku kumanga, nokuba bhetele, kuya kwenzeka okungenani ngosuku lwesibini. Enye yeempazamo zendoda ibingxangayo kunye nemigangatho yokuqala yokuqala. Ibhinqa lifuna into into emangalisayo. Ngaba uyazi ukuba zininzi iintlanganiso ayenayo, ezifana nomnye, njengamaconsi amabini amanzi? Yima ebudeni obukhulu kwaye uze nento enomdla, yenza i-twist ngosuku lwakho lokuqala, ukwenza okokuqala kwaye ungakulibaleki.
Iimpazamo zenziwa ngosuku lokuqala, kunye namadoda nabasetyhini. Kodwa simele sihlale sikhumbula ukuba ukuqala kokuqala kumhla wokuqala kudla kakubi. Ngoko ke, ukucinga okupheleleyo komntu kunokunakongezwa kuphela ngexesha lokutyelela ngamanani amaninzi, nokuba ngubani na kufuneka azame ukuphepha iimpazamo ezikhankanywe ngasentla.