Musa ukwenza iimpazamo kwietekisi
Oku kubaluleke kakhulu ekuqaleni kwezonxibelelwano. Awazi indoda, kodwa ufuna ukuba ube ngumntu onengqiqo kuyo yonke into? Emva koko, thabatha ingxaki ukuba ungenzi iimpazamo zegrammatic kwimilayezo yakho. Khumbula, ezi mpazamo zentliziyo ayinanto nantoni na enokuyenza nge-online slang slang. Ngeke ukwazi ukufihla "AMAKHONDO" kumalungu enkundla aqondakalayo anamhlanje "Athandekile." Ukuba umntu uyakwazi ukufunda nokufunda, uya kukuqhawula. Ngoko kungcono ukulahla umyalezo wakho kwiLizwi kuqala kwaye nqakraza isheke lompelo.
Ewe, ngokwenene unako "ukuhlamba". Kodwa ke ungamangalisi ukuba entsha yakho ye-sobesednikokazhaetsya "ingulube." Umntu omileyo uya kuvuyela ukuthetha nentombazana efanelekileyo. Enyanisweni, isitayela sokubhala asikabiwo, ukuba asikho. Kodwa ubuncinane ubuncinane bepalenti ngokupeliswa kungagwenywa kwaye kuyimfuneko.
Musa ukukhawuleza imfihlelo
Kwi-network obschenisteitsya lula kunokuba ubhekane nobuso. Ngaphandle kwekhamera yewebhu inikwe amandla, ukungasebenzi kukukhawuleza kwangoko. Ngoko kubhala kulula kwaye kulula ukuthetha, kwaye uphendule nayiphi na imibuzo, kwaye uzibuze ngaphandle kwemida. Kule ndawo ibubuhle bezoxubusho ezingaphendulwanga. Kodwa kunobungozi. Musa ukukhawuleza ngeembonakaliso ngosuku lokuqala loqhagamshelwano. Khumbula, uhlangothi lokufuma kweso sango, sisengumuntu oqhelekileyo. Awuvuleleli kumntu wokuqala, musa ukusasaza iimfihlelo zakho, iingxaki kunye nokwesaba kanyekanye. Unxibelelwano lwenethiwekhi lufihla le ngqungquthela, kubonakala ngathi umnxibelelwano uyinto ephosayo, kuba ayibonakali kwaye ayizwakala. Kodwa le mvakalelo ayiphutha.
Iimpawu ezifanayo kunye neembonakaliso ezintle. Ewe, ukuba umnxibelelwano uya kuba yinkwenkwe engenakonakalisa-"intlanethi" ekhwankqisayo kwaye eyeka ukuthetha. Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ngaphesheya kweso siso uya kulindelwa yinkxalabo yangempela ngendlela yothando lomdala. Kuza kuvuselela izityhilelo ngenjongo enye kuphela: ukuhamba phambili kwiimidlalo ezisondeleyo ezithandanayo. Yaye oku akusoloko kufuna imvume yakho. Umntu oqhelekileyo onomnqweno wokwakha ulwalamano oluqinileyo nje akayi kuqhubeka ekunxibelelana nawe ukuba unegama elithi "isondo", "ibhedi", "ukubeka" kunye nezinye iinkululeko ngegama lakho.
Musa ukuqonda, ungagxeki
Ungazami ukubonakala uhlakaniphile ekuqaleni kokuthandana. Kuwe, into ephambili ayiyikusongela umntu olungileyo. Ngokukhawuleza, wenza isigqibo sokuba kunye naye uzama ukuqhelana nolunye uluntu, utitshala okhupha uxinzelelo lwe-intanethi. Hayi, ngokusemthethweni akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngabafundisi. Amadoda nje awanalo i-lyubyatumnichayuschih (oko kukuthi, uhlakaniphile - akayi kuqonda!) Abasetyhini omele ukhethe amagama, ukucinga kwakhona ngemibono yabo ebomini, utshintshe imikhwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, indoda kufuneka ikukhokele kwingxoxo. Ukuba unobulumko, ngoko uya kumnika ithuba.
Qaphela kunye nokugxeka. Awazi le ndoda, ukusilela kwakhe kwezithixo, ukuthanda kwakhe kunye neziqhotyoshelweyo. Ukuxoxa ngezihloko ezintle, njengefashoni, izinto zokuzilibazisa okanye isimo sakhe sengqondo ebomini, unokuphazamiseka ngokukhawuleza ukuba uxoxe naye ngokugxeka kwakho. Kuhlala kuyimfuneko ukuqala ukuthetha ngokucothayo: ukuhlolisisa umhlaba ngokufanelekileyo, ngaphandle kokusabalalisa amakhadi, ngoko kuthetha, etafileni.
Jonga izinto zakhe
Ngokwe siseko sale bhunga kuyinto yesiko yokwakha yonke intetho. Umnxibelelwano kufuneka abone ukuba uyamqonda, ukuba unomdla kuye, kwaye ungaphuthelwa kuzo zonke izandi ezihamba ngeendlebe (kwimeko - idlulile amehlo). Ukuba uyaphendula ngokucacileyo imibuzo yakho, ngoko awuyidlale amahlaya onke ixesha. Ukuba i-ostabeste ayimnandi, unako ukuhleka amaxesha ambalwa, kodwa akusiyo yonke ixesha. Iimpendulo kufuneka zibe, kungenjalo kuya kuba nzima ukuba umntu ahlale ebona i-emoticon okanye into efana ne "hee-hee" endaweni yoko. Oku akunxibelelwano, kodwa izikhukula, ezigcwele iiforam ze-intanethi, kwaye akukho nto imiyo.
Kwakhona uyathintela imicimbi yakhe - yibani nenyameko kubo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba izolo wachaza ukuba ugijimela kwintetho ngokuhlwa, kwaye kusasa uza kubuza: "Wenze ntoni izolo, bekuphi ukuzonwabisa?" - oku kunokumcaphukisa. Uya kuqonda ukuba imicimbi yakhe "ecaleni lakho", ukuba awuyikhumbuli into ayithethayo ngaye, ukuba awunomdla kuzo zonke ezi zinto. U-Ilion uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba ukhangele yena, bathi, "ukubetha" okanye akunjalo? Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuba i-mogotobidet - kuba awuzange udibane. Ngokubanzi, ukunyamekela izinto ezincinci zobomi bakhe, ukuba ufuna ukuqhubeka noqhagamshelwano kwaye uguqulele kwisitishi esinzulu.
Aphuhliswe ngothando
Ukuba uthabatha, kwaye ngaphandle kwakho isandi sokuthandana sithandabuzo siphuma kuwe kunye nesinye isigwebo, uyazi indlela yokuzikhusela. Indoda ayikwazi ukukunqanda ukuhamba kwezandla zayo, bajonga enye into. Ngona mntu othethekileyo kunye nomntu onothando - kungekhona ngengqondo ye-psychopathologist, kungekhona isitya sezinyembezi. Ungcono ukumphulaphula. Makhe amtyhilele iimfihlakalo kuye, uya kubona kuwe iqabane elithandekayo, oqonda kakuhle kunabo bonke abantu.
Konke malunga nokuqala kobudlelwane. Xa sele ulazi kakuhle, ngoko kuya kukhangela ukongeza i-romanticism, nokugxeka, kunye nokuvuma. Into eyona nto kukulungisa lo mnxuwa ongaqinisekanga. Bonke abanye bangcono ukufumana malunga nezinye iintlanganiso ezifanelekileyo. Ewe, banokuthi bathathe indawo ye-Intanethi ngokukhawuleza, ikhamera yewebhu, imakrofoni enee-headphones ezikhethekileyo. Unokwenza ingqungquthela yenkomfa yomsindo, ukuhlaziywa ngokubambisana kweefilimu kunye nengxoxo esilandelayo, ukwabelana nge-e-card kunye neefoto zazo. Kodwa akukho nto izakufaka endaweni yendalo yangaphandle.