Intombazana ngokukhawuleza iphakamisa umbuzo: kodwa ndingaqala njani ukudibana nomfana, ukuze angayonakalisi idumela lakhe. Ukuba uphakathi kwababandezelekayo, ke le nqaku iyakubakho.
Masihlalutye le meko ngeentsiba:
Isigaba 1: ukucocwa kweentsiba
Usenokugqiba ukuphuma ekulweni ukuze ulwe ngqalelo abantu. Oku sele kuseyinyathelo elide ekufezekiseni injongo. Kodwa oku, ngokwemvelo, akwanele. Sifanele sisebenze ekubonakaleni kwethu kuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho nto iphikisanayo yokuba uluntu lunike lona umfazi zonke izinto eziphambili, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba abanako ukukhangela. Nantsi yonke into ifana nemathematika: ngokugqithiseleyo umfazi ulungele kakuhle, amathuba amaninzi okufuneka athole intlekele. Yiya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca esondele, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele uziphephe ngokuqeqeshwa, ngoku nje indlela yokuphila enempilo ifane, kwaye umoya ophilileyo, njengoko bethetha, emzimbeni ophilileyo.
Ewe, uye wasebenzisa imali yamahhala ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, kodwa akusiyo isizathu sokuphosa iinkqubo ezifana nokuguga, ukuguqulwa kunye nezinye iinkqubo eziyinzuzo. Kodwa unako ukwenza oko ngokwakho. Futhi ungakulibali ngokukhishwa kweenwele, intombazana enhle ifanele ibe yinto epheleleyo kuyo yonke into. Oku akuthethi ukuba ngosuku lokuqala uya ku-home guy, kodwa oku kuya kwenza uzive ukhululekile.
Kwaye ngoku malunga "neentsiba." Ewe, asiyi kukunika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokujonga imfashini ngeli xesha, nguwe oya kuthatha isigqibo, kodwa kukho enye into efanelekileyo: kufuneka ugqoke ngokungeyona into engavamile, mhlawumbi ibe yinto enqabileyo kunokuba iqhelekileyo. Kwaye kukuhle ukujonga umzobo kuyo yonke imiphumo esuka ekhaya, kuba awuyazi apho lowo mzini uya kuhlangana nawe.
Ikhanda . Ewe, ndingathanda ukuba neenwele ezinjalo, oza kuzibona rhoqo ekukhangiseni i-shampoo elandelayo. Kodwa kuya kufuneka usebenzise i-mask, iyakucelwa ngisho nasekhaya, kunye ne-balm for hair. Ewe, umnqweno wokugqiba uya kuba ngumnqweno oyintandokazi yakho, uyibeke kwizinwele zakho.
Isixhobo sentombazana enhle kukuba ubuhle bayo, ngoko sebenzisa !!!
I-2step: Ukuphuma ukuzingela: phi na ukumazi njani
Sakhetha indawo yokuzingela. Hamba apho kukho amadoda amaninzi. Unokuba utshintshe imisebenzi kwenye apho kuya kubakho amadoda amaninzi kwiqela, umzekelo, isitolo sekhompyutha kunye nokunye okuninzi. Kakade asikho kwiingxoxo zenkonzo, njengoko zihlala ziba nesiphumo esibuhlungu, kodwa zisebenza kwiqela lamadoda ophakamisa ukuzithemba kwakho, uya kuziva ukuba uyathandeka kwaye unqwenelekayo.
Ukuba awufuni ukutshintsha imisebenzi, yenza udibanise indlela yakho yesiqhelo ukuseka abantu abaselula kunye nabafana. Ingaba ngamagobhu ebusika, ii-discos, iiklabhu zemidlalo, ukuqeqesha. Enyanisweni, kulula ukuyifumana into enomnqweno wakho, kodwa awukwazi ukuhlala ubiza ubuhlobo besikhathi eside. Kodwa awazi ukuba ikuphi ixesha lakho elindelekileyo, ngoko yenza! Intombazana enhle ayifuni ukubayike nantoni na.
Ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokuba uqhelane nomfana, ukuba bekubonakala kukuhle kuwe. Sebenzisa ukumomotheka kwakho!
Thatha iqhinga! Ewe, oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele uthabathe umntu ohlwempu nahab, kodwa ngokukhawuleza uya kuba nombono ongekho. Ngoko ke, isinyathelo sakho sifanele sibe ngumomotheka, umboniso okhangayo, indawo evulekile.
Nika umqondiso kumntu onomdla kuye, ukuze yena ngokwakhe akwazi ukwenza isinyathelo sokuqala ukuba aziwa.
Enye ingongoma ebalulekileyo kukuba ufuna ukudibana nani. Kakade, inkosana yehashe elimhlophe liphupha lomntwana. Musa ukucinga ngexesha lakho elizayo! Emva kwakho konke, ungumntu oqhelekileyo kunye nokuba unobomi bakho obuhle kunye nezimbi. Yinyamezela.
Isigaba sesi-3: Indlela yokuziphatha ngexesha leentlanganiso
Ewe, ukuza kwenzeka, kwaye yintoni oyenzayo ngokulandelayo? Kulula kakhulu: sebenzisa iindlela eziqhelekileyo zengqondo. Le nqubo ibizwa ngokuba ulungelelaniso lwezakhono zabantu. Ngale ndlela usondela kwaye ujwayelene. Yiphulaphula ngokucophelela! Memeze! Emva koko, amadoda afuna ukubonakala eqinileyo kwaye ehlakaniphile phambi kwentombazana. Unokuyichukumisa ngengozi, ukubona iimvakalelo ezintle ebusweni bakhe, qiniseka ukuba uhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Ukutshintshana kweefowuni kuyisibambiso somhlangano olungiselelwe kakuhle, okwenziwe yindoda, kwaye akukho nhlobo abayinike yona ukuba bathathe inombolo yakho kuwe. Eli nyathelo ngumsebenzi wezandla zamadoda!
Nantsi sele sele ufumene umyalelo wezinyathelo-nge-nyathelo zokukhohlisa umntu, ngoko uhlala phi, ngokukhawuleza sele ulindele wena.
Kodwa ngokwaneleyo ukuphupha, ixesha lokuba usebenze. Abahlobo abaphumelelayo!