Ukudlala ngecala lomfazi otshatileyo

Ukungaqondani ezininzi kwiindawo zokungcebeleka kubangelwa kukuba abathathi-nxaxheba kwi-adventure yothando bathanda iinjongo ezahlukeneyo kwaye maxa wambi banesimo sengqondo esichaphazelekayo ngokubhekelana nomdla. Umntu wokuqala ufuna ukuzonwabisa, amaphupha okulula, nakuba ukhula ngokukhawuleza, ubudlelwane ngaphandle kwembopheleleko.

Ibhinqa liyakwazi ukususela kumnye ubusuku obumnandi ukuba likhule inomxholo wonke kwaye lixabise imemori yakhe iminyaka emininzi. Kwaye kukuhle, ukuba ngaba yizikhumbuzo nje: ngokuqhelekileyo siqala ukuva ubunzima, sithintela ingcamango yethu ebalulekileyo ukuba kwenzeke ntoni, ukuvalela ubudlelwane bokwenene, ukudlulisela onke amandla kwi-call, ukudibana kwintanethi yoluntu okanye ukuqeshana okudlulayo emva kokubuya kwi-resort. Ukudlala ngamehlo kwicala lomfazi otshatileyo akusiyo indaba yefestile ngexesha lethu, kodwa i-byl. Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, ngenxa yokulahlekelwa ngamandla amaninzi kunye namathuba okwenene ekudaleni ubudlelwane obugcweleyo, lo mfazi ufika kwisigqibo sokuba ukhohlisiwe, engafuni ukuqonda into elula yokuba wazikhohlisa. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ibhinqa liqala kwaye lifumana i-adventure yothando ngaphandle komntu onyanisekileyo, kodwa kunye neyakhe, iminyaka eyithandekayo kwaye ngoku, ekugqibeleni, inikwe ithuba lokufumana iphupha. Indoda kula maphupha ithatha indima yecandelo elongezelelweyo, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, umphuphi ngokuqhelekileyo akanalo ixesha okanye umnqweno wokumjongela kangcono, ubuncinane uzame ukufumana uhlobo lomntu olusondele kuye. Isifo esiqhelekileyo sesifo sikaTatiana Larina: "Umphefumlo wawulinde umntu ... Wayelinda." Le ngenye yezizathu eziphambili zokuguqula ukudlala ngothando ngecala lomfazi otshatileyo ukudideka. Kodwa kukho abanye ...

Kutheni sifunyenwe kumntu omtsha?

Kutheni uninzi lweengcali - ezivela kwiingqondo zengqondo ziza kubalingisi beenkwenkwezi-zikholelwa kakhulu ngcamango "yesibini uchungechunge?".

Into ebangelwayo, entsha inomtsalane

Ngaloo mntu, awukaze ube neengxaki zezemali, ukuxabana kunye nokunyaniseka okubuhlungu. Awukakwazi ukuzisebenzisela yona ukuze ukwazi izinto zakhe ngeempawu ezivaliweyo kunye nesimo sokunyusela ukuqonda ukuba zininzi zamanxiwa zebhiya wayedla kwangaphambili. Yonke into yakho - ukufumanisa kunye nesityhilelo. Hayi, ngokwemiqathango yesimo somzimba, intsha ikhona yengqondo engapheli iintsuku ezingamashumi amane.

IHormonal splash

Xa sele udibene nento entsha yesondo, umzimba uphendule ngendlela ethile: ivelisa i-hormone, iipheromones kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-neural, ezikuqala ukukwenza ukuba zikhangele emehlweni, kwaye okwesibini, zenze uvelise ukwanda kweengqungquthela zayo. Ubuninzi bentsholongwane ye-hormones iiveki ezintandathu.

Ngaphambili

Kulo tyelelo, siyaqonda ukuba siphile ubomi obungcono kwiiveki ezimbini kunokuba sikwazi ukwenza ezinye iintsuku ezingama-350 ngonyaka. Ikhefu liyithuba lomntu (kunye nomfazi) ukuba abe yinto ayefuna ukuyenza ukususela ebuntwaneni-obunomdla-ovulekile, onobuqili, onobuqili, onamandla, kodwa empeleni akusebenzi: kunzima, kubiza kwaye kuninzi kakhulu. Akunakutsholwa ukuba le nkohliso ngokuzikhethela. Wena, naye, ukhululekile ekuhlambeni nasekuhlaleni, ube nexesha lokuxilonga i-Balinese kunye nokugibela amahhashi, kungekhona ekhaya. Kwaye akukuko ukukopela ... Okungokoqobo kungcono kunokuba kuqhelekile.

Kwi nku luleko!

Indoda esatshatileyo, ukuphumla ngaphandle komfazi, iya kuzama ukulungiselela ixesha elilahlekileyo, kodwa ukunika loo nto into engekho (okanye ayikwazi) ukunika umfazi osemthethweni. Nangona kunjalo, kuma-99 amacala angama-100, akukho namnye kula madoda ocinga nantoni na engathi yimbi kuneveki ezimbini kwiindleko zabo zomtshato. Nangona kunjalo, nangona kunjalo, ufuna ihlobo ukuba lingapheli - kwaye, kubonakala ngathi likulungele ukuya kuyo nayiphi na ingxaki, nje ukugcina inani lomntu othi, njengokuba ucinga, ukuzisa iholide, ukukhanya kwelanga, ukuthandana nokuphila kwakho. .. Hayi, zama ukulahlekelwa yintloko yakho kwaye uhlolisise amathuba akho. Ukuba ulandela i-logic, ngoko ke, kufuneka uqhube kumntu, ubuncinci akukude nawe kummandla: kufuneka uqonde ukuba ukuhlala kwidolophu enye kwaye, kungcono ukuba kunjalo, malunga nendawo enye yentlalo, ufumana ithuba elithe ngqo ukudala "into enzulu" kunokuba ubudala bakho, iindawo kunye neentlalo zibandakanyeka kwezobudlelwane bakho njengezithintelo. Kodwa ingqiqo kule miba ayisoloko iyindawo. Emva koko zibuze, ube ngumfazi oneminyaka engu-40 ubudala ophumelelayo ukusuka kwisixeko esikhulu: ngaba ulungele ukuxhasa nokukhuthaza iplumberhi eneminyaka engama-23 engenakunqandeka ukusuka kwidolophu encinci yaseRussia ephakathi ukuba uyayiphendula kwintando yothando kwaye, ushiya yonke into, ikukhawuleza kwi-capital? Ngaba uya kukwazi ukuzivumelanisa?

Khumbula ukuba iinzame zakho "zokuyeka konke" akunakwenzeka ukuba uvivinye ixesha. KwiJordan yasePetra, kukho ibali malunga nomkhenkethi wase-Australia owawuthandana kakhulu neBedouin eyashiya ilizwe lakhe kunye nosapho waza wahlala emqolombeni iminyaka emininzi. Nangona kunjalo, emva kweeminyaka embalwa, wahlala egcwele ubomi obunqamlekileyo kwaye wayefuna ukubuya nomntwana wakhe kwilizwe lakubo, wayefanele ahambe kwizinto ezininzi ezithandekayo ngaphambi kokuba yonke into iphele kakuhle. Enyanisweni, ngokomthetho we-Sharia, umntwana ungowentsapho kayise ... Ngoku e-Petra (kwaye kuphela) ungathenga incwadi ye-Australia yaseYustralia engenasiphelo "Ubomi bam neBedouins." Kunconywa kakhulu ukuba uyayifunda ngaphambi kokuba unqume ngesinye isibalo egameni leemvakalelo. Nangona kunjalo, masingakulibali malunga nokunye. Ngokomzekelo, ukusuka kumgaqo ongatshintshiyo othi ukususela kwiintando zamaholide awunakufumana into enhle. Ukuba ucinga ukuba uyakuxabisa, thatha ingozi!

Iindlela zokudibanisa ulwazi

Ukuze uqhubeke uphumelele, uvelise kwaye ngokubanzi njengoko ufuna, kufuneka uqale ukunyamekela ngaphambi kokuba uhlukane. Pheka umhlaba! Ukuze "ufumane ithuba lokusihlangabeza emva kokubuya?" Ukuze ufumane intshiseko epheleleyo "ewe!" Sebenzisa "inkqubo yehange". Njalo xa umntu ehamba kahle nawe - uyaziqinisekisa, ukhululekile kwaye uyavuya - "lungisa" lo mvakalelo ngokuthintela ngokuthe ngqo kwindawo enye (umzekelo, kwi-bbow bow "ukuze indawo" eyimfihlo "ihlale ikhona kuwe). Emva kweentsuku ezingama-7-10, uya kuba ne-reflex-conditioned response-to respond to a special touch touch. Emva koko ubuze umbuzo, ngaphandle kokulibala ngephutha ngokubeka isandla kwisigodlo sakhe ... Kodwa ungakulibali ukuba u-1-2 uthinta "i-anchor" isungulwe, "ulungiselele umhlaba" kufuneka uvela kumhla wobaziyo ...

Catch in vanity

Indoda ifuna ukuthandwa. Ewe, phulaphula, mamela kwaye ujonge - kwaye, mhlawumbi, uya kufuna ukukubuyisela ebomini bakhe. Khumbula iresiphi kaLily Brik: "Simele sivuselele indoda ukuba iyamangalisa kwaye iyancipha, kodwa abanye bayayiqondi le nto ... Hayi, bonke abanye baya kwenza izicathulo ezintle kunye neengubo zangaphantsi zelinen."

Yenza isipho angenakukukhanyela

Ngaba wakwazi ukufumana uluhlu lweminqweno yakhe kwaye ufumene umgangatho oqhelekileyo? Ngenisa ngobumnene incoko kumakhonsathi okanye umdlalo onokukutyelela emva kokubuya. Iphosta ilula ukuyifunda kwi-intanethi, ikhona nakweyiphi na indawo.

Bamba kwi-sms ngothando

Ngaphambili, vusa umdla wamadoda kwiindlela ezinokuthenjwa njenge-SMS-zonxibelelwano. Ujwayele ukufumana kuwe iifom ezimfutshane, ezithandana okanye ezihlekisayo, uya kuzimela ngasese kwaye xa uhlala ngapha nangapha. Ngaphandle koko, eli sihlandlo esihle kakhulu sokutshintshisa amanani omnxeba kwangaphambili ... Ungumqeshwa wehotele apho uchitha iholide lakho. Kubasebenzi bezokhenketho kubonakalisa isimo sengqondo sabakhenkethi. Inveli eya kuba ngumcimbi, kuye - ukuzizonwabisa nje phakathi kwehotele eholide imihla ngemihla. Ungowama-aborigine kweli lizwe eliphambili apho uphumle khona. KwiiGrike, iTurkey neeYiputa, ukunyamekela abavakhenkethi abanobuhle banomcimbi wozuko. Ikhowudi engafaneleko idinga ukuba banikele ngokukhawuleza isandla kunye nentliziyo, kodwa musa ukuthatha izifungo ezishisayo. Ngaba kwenzeka ukuba ufumanise ukuba wakukhohlisile? Kwabizwa ngokuba nguEdward Ivanov, kodwa wabona ithikithi egameni likaRobert Vasin? Uthi wayengenamntwana, kwaye umfanekiso weamawele wawa ngaphandle kwesikhwama? Nangona ukukhohlisa kungenacala, kubonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba awukhulumi nomntu wangempela, kodwa nge-mask. Unengqiqo ekufumaneni apho uhlala khona, ubuninzi obuyifumanayo, ukuba kaninzi kangakanani ekhaya, uninzi kangakanani imali oye wathatha ... Ungakulibala malunga nobukho bobugwenxa abasebenzisa uthando lwabesetyhini ngeenjongo ezingafanelekanga. Ungazivuli kumntu owaziyo iintsuku ezintathu. Ingqalelo kuwe, uqala ukubonisa kuphela emva kohlobo lokusela utywala, kodwa ekhanda elincinci ligcinwe. Ungazivumeli ukuba le nqwenelo yokugcina idumela lakho. Kunokwenzeka ukuba unxulumano olunzima kunye notywala.

Imbonakalo yezenzo zoqhagamshelwano zichazwe ngolu hlobo lwezinto ezibonakalayo. Amandla kuloo ndawo, asebenzisana namandla akhe, ashukumisa i-destiny yethu. Kwenzeka ukuba indawo oyikhethile (kwaye ukhetho aluzange lwenzeke ngengozi, nangona kubonakala kuwe ukuba uvele uthathe ithikithi elivuthayo), liqhuba ngakumbi ukubonakaliswa kokungahambi kakuhle kwaye kulungele ngakumbi kwiimvanoveli kunendawo yokuhlala. Hayi, kwenzeka ukuba emva kokushiya "indawo yakho yothando", ulahlekelwa ngenye yamandla omtshato. Le ngenye yeenkcazo zokungabikho kweentando zeeholide. Nangona, kukho amaxesha apho siya khona elwandle, ukuhlangabezana nokuthanda bonke ubomi. Esi sivakalelo "siza" nathi ekhaya size siphumelele ngokupheleleyo kwihlabathi eliqhelekileyo. Ngokubanzi, sinokuthi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba i-horoscope yomntu ishintsha kakhulu emva kokuhamba, kwaye ezi nguqu zinokuhluke kakhulu. Umntu unokuphumelela kakhulu kwishishini, uthando, ubudlelwane nabantu - nantoni na ... Kodwa mhlawumbi, ngokuchasene noko, kuba nethamsanqa. Konke kuxhomekeke kwisikhokelo esithile oya kuhamba kuzo, kunye nakwiindawo zeeplanethi kwi-horoscope yokuzalwa kwakho. Kodwa ngoncedo lweenkwenkwezi ngokwenene kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhethe indawo enjalo kwiplanethi, xa uhamba kuyo uya kuba nethamsanqa inceba. Ngendlela, ukuba unakekele ithemba le-novel yolwazi kunye nokuqhubekeka kwalo, unokujika kwi-horry astrology, kuba yinkwenkwezi yenyaniso. Uthetha malunga nokuba ngaba kukho umcimbi (ewe okanye akukho), kwaye unokukwazi ukuxela malunga neemeko ezihamba kunye nesiganeko. Nangona kunjalo, xa ukhetha indawo yokuhamba, i-astrology yokukhetha inokukunceda.