Ukusebenzisa ukuncoma akuncedi kuphela ukukholisa umncedisi, kodwa ukuseka kunye naye unxibelelwano oluhle kakhulu kunye nentsebenziswano kwixesha elizayo.
Inxaxheba ebalulekileyo ngokubalulekayo idlala kwimicimbi yothando.
Le ntombazana, ukuncoma kwakhe ukuphulaphula kuba yinto ekhuthazayo, yangena ngaphantsi kwenkqutyana, ikhula, ifikelele kwiimpawu zayo. Naliphi na ibhinqa, kungekhona neentyatyambo ezihle kakhulu kwaye ziba zihle kakhulu, zifumana ubungqina bokuthi zifunwa kwaye zingaba ngumthandi.
Umnqweno wokukholisa abantu, ukuwaphumelela ngeempawu zabo ezibalaseleyo zihambelana nabasetyhini ngokwalo. Ukuba kwakungenjalo, umthetho wokukhethwa kwendalo ungayi kusebenza, uguqule phambili. Kungenxa yokuba kuphela umntu okhangelekileyo wesifazana unethuba lokukhetha abafanelekileyo, abomeleleyo abameli besigxina somntu ekuzalweni kwixesha elizayo labantwana abanobuchule nabanomdla, abanako ukusinda kwiimeko ezinzima kunye nokuveliswa kwezizukulwana eziphambili.
Ukulandela umgaqo ofanayo wokuziphendukela kwemvelo, amadoda azama ukukhetha abafazi abathandekayo nabanokugqibeleleyo, ngokunyamekela ngokukhetha unina ngezingane zabo ezizayo.
Kodwa ezona zilungileyo kunye ezintle ziza kunqotshwa kwaye ziyiswe.
Uze ufumane i-trophy enjalo, ingaba kulula kangakanani! Umzingeli kunye nomlwi ngokuqhelekileyo umntu unyanzelekile ukuba abonise ubulumko, ukunyamezela kunye nokunyamezela xa ekhetha abafazi abalungileyo. Kungenxa yokuba ukuba ungumlwi ngokwakhe, umzingeli, ngoko umfazi oyinyani ongakhange alahlekelwe yimvelo yakhe yamandulo ayinakukufumana lula. Uyinqaba, intlanzi epholileyo eyobe yathobekile kwaye iphosakele kuphela nomntu oya kukwazi ukumqinisekisa ukuba kunye naye uya kuphila kakuhle, ngokukhuselekileyo nangokukhuselekileyo. Apha kuyakufuneka ukuba uthethe intlonelo enhle kunentombazana!
Kule miba, nayo, inemithetho yawo kunye nemithetho eqinisekisiwe ekusebenzeni, kungcono ukuba ungayihoxanga ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela. Ngokukodwa, ekubeni intloko ifuna ukunqoba intombazana leyo, ixelela ukuba iyincomeko enhle kakhulu, kufuneka ibeke ingqalelo kwaye ikhangele ngokubonakala kwayo nemvakalelo yakhe. Ukuqaphela into ethile kwiingubo zakhe okanye ngekhanda, ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uyayibona into ebalulekileyo, umele umbonise ukuba uyayixabisa. Nangona kunjalo, umntu akafanele akhohlwe malunga nomoya wokhetho lomntu okhethiweyo. Kufuneka uhlale umxelela ngaye, ukukhathazeka kwakhe, ukukhathazeka kwakhe nokubonakalisa ukulungele ukubandakanyeka ebomini bakhe. Kancinci, uya kufundela oko kuyimfuneko aze amthande, kwaye ngokukhawuleza afumanise ukuba akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle komntu, njengokungathi nje ukuncoma kwintombazana, ngokwenene kuyimfuneko ebalulekileyo yobomi bakhe bonke.
Fumana amagama aya kuba yintlonelo enhle kakhulu kwintombazana - ubugcisa bonke! Kukho neenkqubo zokuqeqesha, ezicatshulwa kunye ezilungiselelwe ngabangcali bezengqondo kunye nabantu abaye baphumelela kule ntsimi. Ngoko, umzekelo, ukusebenzisa eli liva, unokufumanisa ukuba ukunconywa yizona zifani kakhulu.
Kukho iingconyiso - ukuthelekiswa, xa umntu ofuna ukuthetha amnandi, xa efaniswa nomntu ovela kubantu abadumileyo, ngoko ugxininisa iimpawu ezifanayo ezibonakalayo ezintle, ingqondo okanye italente. Umzekelo: "Ngokuthelekisana nawe, uVenus Milosskaya nje u-milkmaid ukusuka kwidolophana yaseGadiyukino." Okanye: "Ukuba iMadonna yakuva ilizwi lakho, uya kuhamba aze aphephe!"
Kwamanye amaxesha, kungokwesiko ukukhangela iimpawu ezingcono kwi-interlocutor, uzibiza ngefomu evulekile. Umzekelo: "Wenze ngokucokisekileyo ngolu hlobo ukuba, mhlawumbi, ndingenako ukwenza njalo".
Kukho iingconywa ezingekho ngqo, xa iimpawu zommkeli zingabonakali, kodwa abo bamxabisayo: "Yinto inja emangalisayo onayo. Kuyabonakala ngokukhawuleza ukuba uhlakaniphileyo kwaye uhlakaniphile. Unamehlo enononophelo! "
Okanye: "Kukho umoya ofudumalayo, omnandi endlwini yakho!"
Ulonwabo lunokuhanjiswa xa umntu edumisa impumelelo yomntu:
"Ulungile kakhulu! Osemncinci, kodwa sele sele ufikelele kakhulu! Wawulawula njani? "
Iintsikelelo ezintle kakhulu kwiintombazana ziya kuhlala zikhona ukuba zikhona izichazi ezininzi kwizinga eliphezulu kakhulu: "akukho nto ingalindelekanga", "ingelosi eyintle", "yonke inamandla," "emangalisa," "ebumnandi," "edizayo," "eqaqambileyo, "Ukumangalisa," "isigxina," "inceba," "ilindelwe ixesha elide," "inqabileyo," "inyaniso," "inqabileyo," "inqweno," "inqwenela," njl njl njl njl njl njl.
Isixhobo esingenakuthenjwa ukutsala ingqwalasela nokufezekisa iziphumo ukuba ukuncoma okuntle kuya kubonakala kwindlela yokucebisa, ukwazisa intombazana yentliziyo ukuba unamandla angenakukhunjulwa kwamandla angumlingo. Kubalulekile ukuba ungadluli, kuba ukuba uvakalelwa ngumbono ngamazwi, zonke iinconywa ezidlulileyo zentombazana ziya kuba ngumthunzi emehlweni akhe! Ukuba umntu ubona ngokwenene ukhethiweyo wakhe unkulunkulukazi ococekileyo, ngoko, ekutsho amazwi anjalo, akayi kukhwela. Kodwa ukuba xa uvakalelwa ngumntu ongeyinyaniseki, kungcono ukuba ungathathi amathuba.
Akukho nto embi kakhulu kwimisebenzi yokuncoma kunokugqithisa. Nangona kukho abafazi abanjalo abakulungele ukuphulaphulela ngokwabo kunye nobuchule babo obucatshulwayo bengazi kakuhle, nje ukuba bafumane kule mihlali enokuzibuza. Kodwa le yimeko ehlukile, eyenza ukuba izazi zengqondo zenze. Nangona, kuba abafumanayo ukukhetha "ukuncoma" akuyi kuba nzima.
Enyanisweni, ukuncoma okulungileyo akunakukwazi ukutyhilwa ngcaciso, kuba kunokukhubekisa kwaye kuhlukanise umntu othanda kakhulu kwaye uyakufanelekela. Ukunyaniseka nokunyamekela, ukubonwa kunye nombono ontle ebomini, abantu bancedisa ukuba bakhethe amagama afanelekileyo kunye alungileyo onokuyiphumelela intliziyo yeyiphi na, kwintombazana enhle kakhulu.