Imithetho yokukhohlisa amadoda ebhedeni

Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba amadoda okwenyaniso anika ukhetho kubasetyhini bokwenyaniso. Kodwa emva kwakho konke, akusiwo wonke umntu onokuba ngumfazi oyinyaniso. Omnye owanikezele kwendalo ukususela ekuzalweni, kukho ukukhwela okuthile, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba ufunde ngokuphindaphindiweyo ...

Funda ukudukisa indoda elele. Ewe, akulula, kodwa akukho nto engenakwenzeka. Ngomnye umzamo, uya kuba nguye ofuna ukubuyela kuye, enye evulela amandla alo mntu kuye.

Ngoko, makhe sijonge ezinye iingcebiso kunye nemithetho yokukhohlisa indoda elele. Kwabaninzi, akuyiyo imfihlelo yokuba amadoda amaninzi anqobileyo, abanikazi kunye ne-braggart. Ngoko masingabandakanyeki nabo kule nto size siphumelele injabulo encinane: makhe sizame ukuzama ukunqoba. Yiba yinkosikazi kuye. Makube ngawe nje ilizwi elihle, makabe ngumqondo wengqondo. Ungamvumeli ukuba akwenze konke ngokukhawuleza, gcina umgama phakathi kwakho, kuba uya kumfumana ngakumbi. Emva kwakho konke, wena uyindlovukazi! Khumbula oku. Dlala ngayo, udlala ngothando, ungabalulekanga ngokungenasidingo, kwaye ukhululeke kakhulu-enye into. Uza kubona, ukulandela ezi cebiso ezilula, uya kuzidibanisa ngokupheleleyo kwaye uziqhube.

Ayikuqala into enjengobudlelwane bokungahambisani nento (unkulunkulukazi embhedeni, intombazana engenamava efuna ukufundiswa yonke into - ngubani oya kuba nguye namhlanje)? Vumela ukuziyeka ukuzibambisana. Yiba nethemba, ukulindela - kuphela kubonisa umnqweno. Nangona kunjalo, gcinani engqondweni ukuba akufanelekanga ukulibazisa oku. Kubalulekile ukuziva umgca othile apha. Kodwa nguwe kuphela onokufunda ukuba uzive njani ngalelo cala.

Ngaba ufuna ukukhangela umnqweno wakhe ngakumbi ngobusuku obuzayo? Menze abe nomona. Ewe, ewe, vumela ukuba ipropati yakhe iphumelele. Akukho nto iphazamisa umntu ngaphezu kokuqonda ukuba ibhinqa elimkhethayo lifuna amadoda amaninzi. Ngako oko, ukudlala ngothando kunye nomnye osebenza naye kunye naye kumcimbi wesigqeba okanye ekutyeleleni-kuphela kuya kumkhuthaza. Ewe, oku kubaluleke kakhulu! Kufanelekile ukunyamezela kwaye yonke into iya kuhamba ngokungafaniyo, engenamsebenzi, isicatshulwa. Kodwa sibeke umgomo wokumcekisa embhedeni.

Nabani na umntu ufuna ukuba nomfazi omhle, olungele kakuhle. Ngoko ke, xa ulungiselela umzuzu wobudlelwane obusondeleyo, ungakhohlwa ukuzilungisa. Akuyimfuneko ukuba le nto ibhekiselele kuncedo lweenkqubo ze-spa nezindleko ze-mega ezingenakukwazi ukuzenza. Kwanele ukuhambelana nemimiselo yokuqala yokucoceka. Qaphela ukuba ngexesha elibalulekileyo awukhathazeki ngento yokuba wena, umzekelo, awunayo imilenze ehlanjululwe kunye nezinye iinxalenye zomzimba, apho kukho iintlonti ezingakumbi. Kwimeko ezayo, musa ukulibala ukuthenga uhlobo oluthile lwezambatho zangaphantsi. Uya kuqonda ngokucacileyo ezi zinto ezintle ezintle. Abafazi abaninzi banethemba lokuba kungcono ukwenza uthando kwindawo yobumnyama, kwaye nangaphantsi kwengubo, ukuze bakhethi bakhe bangabi ubungqina obungaboniyo naziphi na ukungapheleli (cellulite, ubunzima obukhulu kunye nezinto). Mantombazana amnandi, kholwani mna, ukuba ungagxininise kulolu hlobo lwenkqonkqo, indoda yakho, inokwenzeka, ayiyi kubona zonke ezi zihlandlo, ngoko kukuphazamisa. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba ugcine ingqalelo kwi-zakurchennost yakho ngokweqile kwaye uzive uziva zonke zakho iingxaki. Ngoko zama ukuyibonisa. Ukuzithemba kuyisitshixo ekuphumeleleni. Nangona unesiphene, kholwani mna, umntu wakho sele eyazi malunga nabo, kodwa unayo ngoku, ngoko kutheni ukuphula le idyll ezimbini.

Zama ukuba ngumnene ngokukhethekileyo, umbonise ukuba ungumthandayo kuwe. Ngokomzekelo, unokwenza ukuhlalisa okuphumayo, kuya kukunceda udibanise ngendlela efanelekileyo. Tsamba zonke iinxalenye zomzimba wakhe, ungagqithisi kwaye uthinte ngomlomo. Ungabanjwa! Usuvele uyintombazana ekhulile kwaye kufuneka uqonde ukuba ebhedeni akukho zithuba kunye nezibambiso azikwazi ukuba, ukuba zikholiswa kuzo zombini. Kulo bhedeni luthando, akukho ndawo yokwenza uloyiko okanye ukubandlulula.

Ngendlela, ndimele ndiqaphele ukuba ukuba unxulumene nobuhlobo besikhathi eside kunye nokukhwabanisa rhoqo kwindoda ebhedini, kunokuba ube nexesha elilodwa, ke ungavumeli ulwalamano kwiintsuku zokuqala zolwazi. Ngokuqhelekileyo ayikhokeli kuyo nayiphi na into enhle. Kodwa ixesha lokuba umtshato wokuqala ungasetyenziselwa inzuzo kuwe. Funda ukuziphatha kwakhe, fumana okungakumbi malunga noko akukhethayo ngesondo. Ngokomzekelo, ufunde ukuba indoda yakho ithanda ukuba phezulu ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, yazi - phambi kokuba ummeli oqaqambileyo uninzi, osetyenziswa ukuhlala kunye nendawo yonke ibe yinkokheli. Ukuba u-patriarchate uyakufanisa - makabe yiyo le nto yokunethezeka. Indoda ethanda umsebenzi okwenxalenye yowesifazane ngokuqhelekileyo inkokeli, ekungenisweni kwayo ininzi yabantu, ngoko ke elele embhedeni uyalangazelela ukuphumla. Mnike ithuba lokuva, utshitshiswe ... nguwe ... Ngoko ke unesibindi ukukhuphuka kuye kwaye uyiyalelo ngokuzikhethela kwakho.

Enyanisweni, le yonke imigaqo eyimigaqo yokukhohlisa indoda ebhedini. Khawukhumbule nje - ube njengendalo njengokuba kunokwenzeka. Ukuba iqabane liyakuthandana nawe, ke ngokokuhamba kwayo nganye uya kuphendula ngokuzikhethela ngokububula nokunyuka kumzimba wakhe. Into ephambili akuyikucima nayiphi na into, indoda ayiyisilumko kwaye iyakwazi ukubona ukungaqiniseki kwakho. Akukho mzekelo akufanele umcaphukise ngexesha lesini. Nokuba amahlaya avamile, ngaphandle kwendawo ekhankanyiweyo, inokulimaza ukuziqhenya. Ngaba isibhamu sakhe sasibulele? Ewe, kwenzeka, ngexesha elizayo yonke into iya kuhluka, ungayigxila kuyo. Ukuxhaswa ngokubhekiselele kwi-caresses yomlomo. Mbonise uhlobo olunjani lomdla onesidima sakhe, ukukhathaza, ukumanga nokuqiniseka, lo mntu uya kuwuxabisa. Ngokwemvelo, uyavuya kakhulu ukuba unokukunelisekisa, ngoko ekupheleni kokuthandana, ungakulibali ukumbulela ngenxa yexesha lonwabo.