Ukuthandana kwangempela kwiimpapasho zepapasho ezikhokelela ekubeni ubudlelwane kunye nokudalwa kwintsapho, akunjalo, akunakunqabile, kodwa akukho nto ikhoyo. Cinga ngenye indlela yokuthandana. Umzekelo, ukuthandana kwisitalato. Zingaphi iindlobini ezinokwakha iintsapho kwaye zihlala zivuyayo emva kokuba sele zithandana? Ndikholelwe, kungekhona kakhulu. Kwaye abo baqhelana kwi-Intanethi? Akuninzi kakhulu kubo, ukuba ubala inani labantu abaphumelelanga nabo kunye nabaphumelelayo. Ngoko ke, indlela yokuthandana ayibalulekanga nakanjani! Awukwazi ukuba uya kufumana phi na indlela oza kuyifumana ngayo uthando lwakho. Kodwa into enye icacile - ukuba uhlala ngezandla zakho zinyanzelisiwe kwaye ulindele ukuba intanda ethandekayo kwaye ungqongqoze emnyango wakho, unako ukulinda de kube yiminyaka engama-50, okanye ulinde! Nceda unomthandi wakho akufumanise! Ubuncinane uzame ukuthandana kwiintengiso zephephandaba.
Le ndlela yokwazisa ineenzuzo ezininzi. Okokuqala, ungabonisa kwisibhengezo esifanelekileyo somntu, nokuba ubude bakhe okanye ubunzima bakhe. Ngokuncedwa le nto uya kunqumla abaviwa abangenakufaneleka, ngokuqinisekileyo awuthandiyo xa udibana. Qiniseka ukuba ubonisa ubudala, ubunzima kunye nobude bakho. Bhala ngawe ukuba uhle, uthakazelisa kwaye umhle akayimfuneko. Okokuqala, babhala kwiintengiso zonke iimantombazana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zithandeka kwaye zingabonakali kakuhle, ngoko le ndoda ayimangalisi. Okwesibini, wonke umntu unomdla kunye neengcamango malunga nobuhle besifazana, makabonge ubuhle bakho, ukuxhamla kunye nezinye izinto xa udibana. Ukuchaza iimfuno zesiganeko sakho sexesha elizayo, unokubhala nje ubude okanye ungathandabuli ekutheni ukhuluphele, ngaphandle kokubonisa ukuphakama kunye nesisindo esithile. Ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ube nemfundo ephakamileyo, umsebenzi, izindlu zakho-zonke zichaze, ungabi namahloni. Makubiza amadoda ambalwa, kodwa afanelekileyo. Qiniseka ukubhala malunga nokungabikho kwemikhwa emibi engafunekiyo.
Ekupheleni kwesibhengezo, faka inombolo yakho yefowuni. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, ukuba uthe wagqiba emva kwenombolo yakho ukuba kuyinqweneleka ukuthumela i-MMS ngesithombe kunye nebali malunga nawe. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kubona ngokukhawuleza iifoto zabantu kwaye ukhuphe abo bangakuthandi.
Iphephandaba lenzelwe abaphulaphuli beentlanga, kunye nerubrikhi "Ukuthandana" amadoda abonakala ngenyameko, kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo ngengozi kwaye, xa bebona iintengiso abanomdla kuzo, banqume ukuzama oko kuza kuza kuso. Ngoko ke, kholwe mna, baya kubhala i-SMS, iMMS kunye nabantu abaninzi baya kubiza. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza ndikuxwayisa ukuba ngaphandle kwesi sihlwele sonke, emva kokuxoxisana kwifowuni, iinkcukacha kwi-SMS, iintlanganiso, kuya kubakho abambalwa, mhlawumbi abafake izicelo 2. Kodwa ngaba ufuna ngokwenene? Sifuna kuphela omnye, othandekayo nothando!
Ndikucebisa ukuba ube nencwadana ekhethekileyo apho uya kubhala phantsi amagama, iinombolo zeefowuni zamadoda abizayo, kunye nolwazi malunga nabo okwazi ukufumana. Masisindise ngokukhawuleza amanani kwifowuni yakho kwaye ngokukhethekileyo ngesithombe ukuze ungadideki. Apho uya kubhala phantsi kunye nani, nini na apho uvumelana khona ngosuku, ukuze ungalibali. Ndikholelwe, kuya kuba neefowuni ezininzi, i-SMS, ukutyelela. Kwaze kube yilapho usenza isigqibo "kwiintandokazi", le ncwadana iya kukunceda ukuba ungadideki.
Kwimibuzo yamadoda, bangaphi abantu abasabela kwisibhengezo sakho, akalokothi bathethe okungakumbi, kodwa bavuselele umoya wabo wokubambana, bathi kuphela kuphela abathathu kwaye ngamnye uya kudibana kwaye ujwayelane nezigqibo. Ukuba ufumana iifowuni ezivela kumadoda ongafanelanga iimfuno zakho zesikhangiso, umzekelo, ugqibezele kakhulu ukuphakama okanye nje abo bangenanto yokwenza kwaye bafuna ukuxoxa ngefowuni, kha wuleka ukuthetha nabo, musa ukudlulisela ixesha.
Khumbula, kuphela ukuthandana kwangempela, iintlanganiso zangempela ziyakunceda ufumane ingcamango yendoda, ngoko ungalibali iifowuni iingxoxo, kodwa udibana nenene.
Ukuthandana kwangempela kwiimpapasho zeepapasho akunelisekile, kodwa kusekhona! Kungenzeka ukuba uya kuba yinto evuyayo, kwaye emva komtshato nomhlobo wakho uya ku-ofisi yokuhlela kunye kunye nobuhlobo bakho, mhlawumbi baya kubhala inqaku malunga nawe kwiphephandaba!