"Ndikulungile."
Kwenzeka ukuba ebomini into eyenzekayo ukuba awufuni ukuxelela umntu. Kodwa izalamane zivakalelwa kakuhle, kwaye zibona xa ulala. Oku kukukhokelela ekubeni uyaphuhliswa ngokwemibuzo ngomzamo wokufikelela enyanisweni.
Yilindela imibuzo yabo kwaye ubatshele indlela izinto ezintle ezihamba ngayo nawe. Cacisa i-pallor yakho ngokuchitha ubusuku obuthile obungalali kwiingalo zomlilo oshisayo okanye ulahlekelwe iindawo ezihambayo kwi-solarium. Nangona abafuna ukuguqula abanokugula banokurhoxiswa kumdlalo, ngexesha bebaxelela into efanelekileyo yezizathu zokuba ukhangeleka njani. Kwaye, ngokungaqhelekanga, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubukeka bubi kangakanani, kuya kusebenza.
"Sihlobo nje."
Xa uyingxenye kunye nabangaphambili, ubudlelwane ngamanye amaxesha uyaqhubeka, kodwa awufuni ukuyikhangisa. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba ungumhlobo omdala omnye nomnye engabi ngumhlobo nje, kwaye awukho msinya ukuxelela abahlobo bakho ngawo.
Kunzima kakhulu ukuthetha oku kuwe okanye kumntu ofuna ukuba ngumhlobo nje.
Ukuqokelela intando kwintonga kwaye undixelele ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ubona njani ubuhlobo bakho. Siya kumemeza nje, siye kwiimvumi ngamaxesha ambalwa, masihlangabezane noMasha ngesonto elizayo, masingaqhubeki izinto, siphume kakuhle - zonke ezi binzana zingakunceda ukuba ufezekise umphumo oyifunayo.
"Andinxila."
Ngexesha ngamaxesha eli binzana kufuneka liphindwephindwe - abahlobo, unina, umyeni. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho mntu ukholelwa kuwe, wonke umntu uqala ukukhangela ezinye iimpawu zokuxhalaba, nangona uvele wambesa ingilazi yewayini. Musa ukukhawuleza ukucacisa.
Imfihlelo eyona nto kukuba ufuna nje ukuziphatha njengesiqhelo. Musa ukuphikisana, ungazibonakali, ungazami ukuthetha ulwimi. Gcoba amahlombe akho kwaye wenze ibhizinisi lakho eliqhelekileyo. Iya kusebenza, kodwa kuphela xa uvumelekile kungekhona njengotywala njengoko kubonakala kwabanye.
"Oku akuyami."
Ngokuqhelekileyo bathetha ngoku malunga neqabunga ngeendinyana, ezifunyanwa ngengozi kumntu edeskini. Ukuqala ukuphendula, ukuphika, nangona unetalente yangempela. Izizathu zokuhlaselwa ngokukhawuleza kwehlazo zininzi. Ukuba lo "mntu" akafanele akrokre malunga nekhefu lakho lemfihlo, kufuneka ukopela.
Ndi xelele. Yiyiphi ivesi ephinda ibuyele kwi-intanethi, ngenxa yokuba ungeke udibanise nantoni efana ne "uthando - izaqathe" emva kwebanga lesihlanu uthisha weencwadi unqabile imizamo yakho yokunika izibongo zeengqungquthela.
"Andifuni ukuthetha nantoni na."
Ezinye zeibinzana esizithethayo zizandi ziyingcamango. Utsho izinto eziqhelekileyo, xa ngokukhawuleza baqala ukukukhangela. Udidekile malunga nento eyenzekayo, kwaye uva umbuzo othi "uthini na?". Ngezihlandlo ezinjalo, awuzange uphumelele kwi-callus yokugula, kwaye kufuneka ulungise imeko.
Nxolisa, xelela ukuba awufuni ukucaphukisa uze uthethe into engafanele. Ukuba oku akwanele, phinda uphinde usebenzise oko uthetha ngamagama athile athandekileyo. Kuyafaneleka ukuba uvuma ukuba awukwazi indlela yokubonisa iingcamango zakho kakuhle.
Wonke umntu kufuneka enze izizathu, kodwa akusiwo wonke umntu owaziyo ukwenza ngokuqinisekileyo. Ukuze ungangeni kwiimeko ezihlazo, kufuneka ufunde ngokunyanisekileyo, uthembeke kunye nawe kwaye uzame ukukhubekisa abanye.