Ungakulibala njani umthandayo, ukuba uyambona imihla ngemihla?

Konke oku kweli hlabathi kutshabalalisa. Hayi, oku kusebenza nakwalamano. Ngamanye amaxesha ulwalamano olude kunabo bonke, olubonakala ngathi, lunokuthenjwa kwaye luqinisekiswa ekupheleni. Yona yenkqubo yokuhlukana, ibuhlungu kwaye ayibuhlungu. Kodwa emva kokukufumana oko, kuza, mhlawumbi, ukuvavanywa kanzima, oku kukukhunjulwa.

Awukwazi ukumlibala, nokuba uqonda ukuba awuyithandi. Yaye le nkumbulo yakhe iyakudumaza. Kwale meko, mhlawumbi kuthiwa "Uyakulibala njani umthandayo, ukuba uyambona imihla ngemihla." Makhe sizame ukwenza oku kunye kunye, kwaye sicinge ngeendlela ezininzi zokulibala, ezidweliswe ngezantsi.

Indlela yoku-1 - Khupha nge-wedge-wedge.
Ngale ndlela ukulibala indoda yangaphambili, mhlawumbi, yaziwa yinto enye kwi-Stone Age. Uthi malunga nale ilandelayo, ukulibala ulwalamano olulodwa, ukuba abanye baqalise. Le ndlela isebenza kakuhle, umntu omtsha, iimvakalelo ezintsha, imibala emitsha yobomi, konke oku kusebenza kakhulu ukukrazula iinkumbulo zendoda yangaphambili (okanye ubuncinci ukuwagxina). Ukungonakali kweli ndlela kukuba kunzima ukufumana ulwalamano olunzulu ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukuba unayo nje inomxholo omfutshane, ngoko umphumo uza kuba mfutshane. Kodwa nangona ubona umthandayo usuku ngalunye, akuyi kubuhlungu.

Indlela ye-2 ebudeni bempilo!
Njengoko unako ukubona kwinqaku, ukuze umlibale umntu, kufuneka ahlambe intloko yakhe kunye neengxaki zezinye iingxaki, ukuxinezela ngakumbi aze azixazulule ade ade aphelelwe amandla. Thatha iimbopheleleko ezongezelelweyo, yenza iingxelo ekhaya ngelihlwa, njengoko zithi, thabatha ngaphezulu, qhubeke. Le ndlela inenzuzo ecacileyo, le ngongoma womxholo womcimbi. Akuqhelekanga ukuba intombazana ibe nomsebenzi omuhle emva kokuhlukana nentsha, ngokuthethileyo, kwi-fuse ekhohlo emva kokuhlukana, ngoko kwakungekho nzima kunzima ukulibala umhlobo wayo. Nangona kunjalo, olu khetho lunamaminithi alo, kungekhona wonke umntu onokusebenza kanzima ukulibala okokuqala. Akunjalo wonke umntu osebenzayo unemiqathango yokunyanzeliswa okunjalo.

Indlela 3 - zizinyame!
Njengoko siyazi, ukukhupha imimoya kunye nokuphelisa izikhumbuzo ezimbi, akukho nto ingcono kune-SPA, okanye i-cosmetology, okanye i-shaping, okanye ukuyothenga. Ngokuqhelekileyo, yenza okuthandayo kunye noko kukukholisa. Emva koko, uya kuvuma, emva kweseshoni yokuzihlaziya okuphumayo, iinkumbulo zomntu owayengumntu wokuqala, nje ungangeni engqondweni yakho. Ingubo entsha okanye iimbatho zeembadada, ziphakamisa kakuhle! Ngaphezu koko, xa usuku olulandelayo ubona yakho yangaphambili, ngoko uyamangalisa ukubona kuwe kwizinto ezintsha. Ewe, kwaye ngale ndlela, ngaphandle kobunzima, zonke izinto ezinonophelo, njengommiselo, zidinga imali, kodwa sinako, sinye, isixa esilinganiselwe.

Indlela 4 - ukuzibonakalisa kunye nokuziqonda.
Ukuba sele ufune ukuzama ngokwakho nakuphi na ubugcisa, okanye ukutyelela imiboniso, iindiyetha, ngoku lixesha lo. Ukuba uthabatha i-brush esandleni, kunye nephepha le-watercolor, ngoko unokufumana ezininzi izinto ezintsha kunye nemvakalelo. Unako ukubhalisa kwikota yokudanisa, okanye kwisangqa sesakhiwo. Emva koko, akukho nto enjalo ayiphilisi umphefumlo, njengobungcali kunye nobugcisa. Ukulibala i-chelovka yakho oyithandayo ngoncedo lokudala kulula. Le ndlela ifanelekile kuwe, ukuba uziva unqwenela ubugcisa ngaphakathi kwakho, kodwa ukuba unalo utshintsho olunjalo, ngoko ndoyika ukuba akufanelanga.

Indlela 5 - bona ihlabathi.
Njengoko uP Kipling uthe, ubomi buhle kuba uhamba. Futhi ukuhamba, indawo ezintsha, abantu abatsha, ukubonakala kwintsha, konke oku kuyindlela enkulu yokulibala i yangaphambili. Ukongezelela, awuyi kubona umthandayo ngamnye imihla. Kwaye akufuneki ukuba yi-cruise-world-cruise, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufikeleleke kwaye ube nekhwalithi ngokubhekisele kwindandatho yegolide. Apha, emva koko, into ephambili ayikho imida, kodwa iimvakalelo ezintsha. Ukungalunganga kwendlela, yimali nexesha, kwisigqi sesimanje kunzima ukufumana iveki engacwangcanga ukuba ihambe kwaye iphucule ixesha elide ndiloyikisayo.

Ukufingqa konke oku ngasentla, unokufika kwisigqibo sokuba ukulibala (yangaphambili) kulula, nokuba ubona omnye nomnye. Into ephambili kukunyamekela into ethile, kungekhona ukuba uhlale kwindawo enye, gcina iingalo zakho!