Abafazi banezizathu ezininzi zokukopela kunamadoda. Ukongezelela, iimpawu zangaphandle ze-orgasm kubasetyhini azibonakali njengabantu.
Okokuqala, abafazi bazenzele i-orgasm ukuze bangabacaphukisi babo iqabane. Emva koko, abaninzi abafazi banesizathu esibalulekileyo sokuqala ishishini elingasifinyekanga kwisigqibo esilungileyo kwaye zonke iinzame zomntu ziye zachithwa. Umfazi okhaliphile uya kukhetha ukuzenza ngathi ulungile kunye naye, kwaye akayi kuhlambalaza.
Esinye isizathu sokuba abesifazana babonise i-orgasm ingaba nje ukungabikho komnqweno wokusondelana. Kodwa phantsi koxinzelelo lomntu lowo wesifazane uyavuma, aze azenze ukugqiba konke oku, ekugqibeleni. Isizathu salo mkhuba sinokukhathala, umnqweno wokulala okanye ukugula kwengane nezinye ezininzi izizathu.
Esinye isizathu sokuba abanye abafazi bathande ukukhohlisa abo banyulwayo kukholelwa ekutheni bangaphantsi. Abaninzi bayesaba ukuva isityholo sobuncwane xa bengenayo i-orgasm.
Izizathu zokufaniswa kwamadoda.
Amadoda, kunye nabasetyhini, abafuni ukucasula iqabane lawo. Akukho namnye kwala madoda ofuna ukuvalelwa ukuba akayithandi ngokwaneleyo, ukuba unkosikazi. Emva koko, ukungabikho komdla kumntu, kuba ibhinqa lithetha ukungahambi kwakhe.
Ezinye izizathu zingabangela iingxaki emsebenzini, ezingenakunceda kodwa khumbula nangethuba lobudlelane. Unako ukhathala. Kwabanye, utywala lunokuthi lube uhlobo oluthile lwe-anesthetic, kwaye kunye neqondo elincinci lingabangela iingxaki ngokunyuka, okwenzekayo nje. Kodwa ekubeni uqale, ufuna ukugqiba isenzo sesondo kwindawo ephakamileyo, kwanobuqhetseba.
Ukuba inkohliso ifunyanwe.
Awufanele ukhawuleze uxelele omnye komnye, ukuba ngokukhawuleza waqala ukungathandabuzeki ngenye indlela. Kuhlala kulunge ukufumana isizathu sokuziphatha okunjalo kweqabane, ukuzama ukufumana oko kukukholisayo kwaye luhlobo luthando olwamkelekileyo. Ngexesha elizayo unokuzama ukuxelela omnye, okanye ubeke isandla sakho, ubonise okufunekayo.
Ukuba uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba iqabane lakho linomsebenzi omninzi, ke kunokumangalela ukuba ungaba novelwano nomthwalo wakhe wokusebenza kwaye uzame ukukhulula uxinzelelo kunye nokukhathala. Mhlawumbi ukuxilwa kwe-massage ephosakeleyo kuya kunceda umntu ukuba aqonde ngakumbi izinto ezifihliweyo zomzimba wakhe. Iqabane liyakubongela ngale nto nangesinye isikhathi, endaweni yokukhohlisa, mhlawumbi ngokukhawuleza iyavuma ukuba namhlanje awukwazi ukukholisa.
Yaye ukuba uyaphawula ukuba iingxaki zokukhawuleza zenzeka ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngoko unokuzibuza ngobumnene, ngenxa yento eyenzekayo kwaye ikucebise ukuba uye kumgqirha ugqirha.
Ingaba kukho na ukuqonda ngokuzenzela.
Ngokuqinisekileyo abaninzi abantu baye bakuva malunga neziqinisekiso: bhala phantsi iibinzana ezidala isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, kwaye ubuye uphinde rhoqo. Ekugqibeleni, ingqondo engacatshulwayo ilungiswe ukwenza inkqubo leyo ibekiwe, kwaye umntu uphumelela kwisiphumo. Abanye oogqirha beengqondo bakholelwa ukuba ukulinganisa okuqhubekayo ekungabikho kwe-orgasm kunokukhokelela ekubeni kunjalo. I-Sexologists, nangona kunjalo, ithi ukukhohliswa kukudukisa iqabane elingakwazi ukuqonda oko kukunika umdla.
Kodwa, njengoko sele uqikelele, kuhlale kudingekile ukuba usebenze kuloo meko, uqhubeke kwiimeko eziphathekayo.
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekileyo kwisiza