Umthamo
Ukuze ube nexesha elaneleyo, soloko uhamba ngokubanzi njengoko ucebise ngokuhlwa, kwaye akukho mzekelo ungazivumeli udibanise. Ewe, abantu abaninzi, bejonge iwashi ye-alamu, bacinge ukuba ulala elinye iyure, kwaye baya kuphumelela. Enyanisweni, xa uvuka kamva kunconywe, uqinisekisiwe ukuba awukho ixesha elaneleyo kuzo zonke izicwangciso zakho. Ngako oko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani kuwe, vuka ngokukhawuleza njengamasondo akho ewashi.
Izwi: "Kttorano iphakama, into uThixo anikayo" inengqiqo ecacileyo nenengqiqo. Inyaniso kukuba ukususela ngo-8 ukuya kweentambama, umntu unesalathisi esiphezulu somsebenzi wengqondo. Ngako oko, unako ukwenza amaninzi amanqaku ancedo kunye neemfuneko. Ewe, abantu-izibhokhwe ezinomsebenzi onjalo wolu suku zinzima ukujamelana nazo, kuba abanakulala ekuphumeni kwaye bavuka ekuseni. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba uvuka emva kweeyure ezimbini zomhla, uqala ukuvakalelwa kukuba awunaso ixesha. Ngoko ke, zama ukuvuka kusasa nangaloo mihla xa ucebise izinto ezininzi. Kule meko, uya kumangaliswa ukuba ixesha elingakanani lokuphumla e-vasostanetsya ngokuhlwa nobusuku.
Cwangciso so Myalelo
Ukuze ukwazi ukulawula yonke into kwaye usasaze ixesha ngokuchanekileyo, uhlala ufuna ukucwangcisa. Ngaphandle kwesicwangciso sezenzo, uqala ukunamathela ekulandeleni okulandelanayo, kwaye ekugqibeleni awunaso ixesha. Ngoko ke, ukuba unokwenza izinto ezininzi ezahlukileyo, qiniseka ukuba uzibhale ngokwakho isicwangciso. Xa ulungiselela ishedyuli yakho, cacisa ngokucacileyo imida yexesha lemisebenzi ethile. Musa ukulibala ngezinto ezifana nokutya, ukutyhafaza, ukuzenzela nokunye okunjalo. Xa ubhala ukuba uza kwenza ntoni into, bonisa iifayile zangethuba zangempela, ucinge ngamandla amancinci. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba sizinikele, ngokomzekelo, kwisidlo sasekuseni, imizuzu elishumi elinesihlanu, kwaye ke ubisi lubaleka okanye into engalindelekanga iyenzeka, kwaye ngenxa yoko, ukutya kokutya kubambezeleka kwisiqingatha seyure, okanye nangaphezulu. Ngoko ke, khawuleza ubhale kwishedyuli yemizuzu engamashumi amathathu, ke ungakhathazeki ngenxa yokuba into elandelayo sele usenayo ixesha elaneleyo.
Xa usenze isicwangciso, khumbula ukuba umele ulandele ngqo. Musa ukuguqula imisebenzi kwiindawo, ngaphandle kokuba iimeko zifuna. Kungathi ngathi kungcono ukwenza oku, kwaye ke into ethile, kodwa eqinisweni, kwiimeko ezinjalo, ubuqili buqala ukulawula indoda ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunoko. Ngokomzekelo, wanquma ukucwangcisa intlanganiso kunye nomhlobo wesixhenxe ngokuhlwa, kwaye uhlambulule indlu-ezintlanu. Ekugqibeleni, kufike engqondweni yakho ukuba ezi zinto zingatshintshwa, kuba ubude malunga nesiqingatha seyure. Ukususela ekubeni isiqingatha seyure sinokuyolulela iiyure ezintathu, ngokuqinisekileyo awufuni ukucinga. Ekugqibeleni, uza ekhaya phakathi kobusuku, kwaye kakade awufuni ukwenza nantoni na. Ngomso olandelayo, apho ezinye iiplani zinikezelwa khona, uqala ukukhawuleza ujikeleze indlu, uzama ukubamba yonke into kwaye ukhononde ukuba awufumani nhlobo.
Musa ukulingwa
Ukuba unquma ukuba kufuneka ufeze inani elithile lezinto ezibalulekileyo ngosuku, ungaze uvumeleke ukuphazamiseka. Njengoko uqeqesho lubonisa, umthetho wobugwenxa usebenza kuyo yonke into kwaye rhoqo. Ngoko ke, ngokukhawuleza xa uthatha ishishini lakho, ngokukhawuleza uqale ukubiza abahlobo ukuba awufumani iiveki, kwaye ubize ubhiya; Ngokukhawuleza kuvela ukuba akukho mntu uhlala nomntakwabo, ufuna nje izihlobo zakho njalonjalo. Ngoko ke, ukuba imeko ayikho ithemba, kwaye ngaphandle kwakho, ngokuqinisekileyo, ayikwazi ukuyenza, akukho mfuneko ifanele iguqulwe izicwangciso zazo. Ewe, isilingo sikhulu, ngakumbi ukuba ngabahlobo bakho bakubiza, kodwa kufuneka ufunde indlela yokuhlangabezana nesilingo. Khumbula ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba uthembisa kangakanani kwaye uyafunga kuwe ukuba uya kubaleka kuwo, ngoko ekugqibeleni, kuya kubakho abaya kukukholisa. Kwaye zonke izicwangciso zakho ziya kuhamba kakuhle, kuba endaweni yokwenza isicwangciso esithile, uza kuchitha yonke imini kwinkampani, mhlawumbi uya kusela, kwaye awuyi kufuna ukwenza nantoni na. Ngako oko, ukuba uyazi ukuba umntu unokunyenga ngefowuni yakhe ukutshabalalisa izicwangciso, awukwazi ukuphakamisa ityhubhu yonke de uze uqede ishishini lakho. Nangona kunjalo, kule meko, awukwazi ukuphendula ifowuni ebalulekileyo, apho umntu anokukucela ukuba uncede, kodwa kuya kukwenza ukuba unqume ukuba ungakwenza njani.
Musa
Asinaso ixesha elide ngenxa yokuba sihlala siphazamiseka. Ngoko ke, ukuba uhleli phantsi emsebenzini, ungafaki umculo wesiqalo okanye iTV. Kubonakala ngathi kulula kakhulu ukusebenza. Kwaye inyaniso, uya kuphazamiseka ubuncinane kanye ngexesha elithile: ke kudlalwa ingoma, kwaye ibali elincamisayo liya kuxelwa. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukukhawuleza usebenze kunye naloo mzekelo, yenze iimeko ezilungele ukwenziwa komsebenzi walo, ngaphandle kwesistim yangaphandle.
Ukuba umntu ekubizayo, khawuleza ubuze malunga nalo mbuzo, kwaye xa umntu efuna nje ukuthetha nawe, khawuleza ubaxelele ukuba baxakekile kwaye babuyele emva kokuba uqedile loo nto. Phantse bonke abafazi bathanda ukuthetha, ngoko xa umhlobo wakho othandekayo ebiza, isilingo sokuthetha sanda kakhulu. Musa ukumnika kuye nonke. Ukuba uthembisa ukuba ingxoxo iya kuba mfutshane, ekupheleni. uchithe ubuncinane ubunesiqingatha seyure. Ngoko ke, zithathele umthetho: ungalokothi uphazamise ekugqityweni komsebenzi de ukugqitywa kwayo. Ekuqaleni kuya kuba nzima kuwe, kodwa uya kujwayelana nale nto kwaye, ngenxa yakho, iya kuba yinto engavamile ukuphazanyiswa ngxoxo xa kuqhutywa imisebenzi ethile.
Musa ukuhamba nezinto ezilikhulu kanyekanye.
Ungaze uzame ukwenza konke kanye. Ungaqali ukulungiselela, ukuhlambulula nokuhlamba ngexesha elifanayo. Ukuba wenza wonke umsebenzi, ngoko ke umphumo uphantsi kakhulu kwaye uya kuchitha ixesha elide, kuba uya kuchitha ngaphezulu, kuba yonke into iya kugqitywa, i-athomu iphinde ivuselelwe. Khumbula ukuba kunokwenzeka ukwenza okusemgangathweni yinto enye ngexesha. Kufuneka ugxininise ngokupheleleyo kulo msebenzi, kwaye ukuba uzama ukulungisa iingxaki ezininzi ngexeshana, ngoko ke ingqalelo yakho iyacinywa, kwaye uqala ukudideka kwaye ulahleke. Yenza umsebenzi kumgca, kwaye uza kubona ukuba isantya semisebenzi siya kunyuka, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, isixa sesikhathi sakho samahhala.