Kubalulekile ukugxininisa ukuba ukuphela kwexesha, njengaloo nto, ingqiqo.
Ukuhlalutya iindlela ezikhoyo zamanje eziqhelanisiweyo, kubalulekile ukwenza isilungiso kwinto yokuba ukuba abantu abathile bathethe nabangaphandle kwizothutho kuyinto eqhelekileyo, ngoko abanye sele beqhelanisekile, bezingela, be-adrenaline.
Ukuthandana kwanamhlanje kungenzeka nayiphi na indlela yokuthutha: idolophini, kwiietroli ezikude kwaye zingalandeli, kwiindiza. Kwaye bangaphi ababini abadibeneyo kwizikhululo, kwiindawo zeenqwelo-moya, ngexesha lokulindela ukuhamba kwabo.
Indawo ephezulu kakhulu yokwazisa i-rink skating. Ukuba ucinga ngokuthandwa nokuhlaziywa kwelo mdlalo njengemikhono yokukhwela, unokuthumela ngokuzithemba amantombazana amancinci kunye namahloni angamahloni ukuthenga iikhatho kunye nokukhangela umdlalo wezemidlalo ohloniphekileyo. Ukuqhelana nabo kuyaqinisekiswa.
Amanqaku omnxeba wamanamhlanje athathekayo angathandana nokuthandana, okwenzeka kwiindawo zokuhamba. Kuzo, abantu bachitha ixesha elide. Omnye ukhathazekile kwaye engasebenzi, umntu usebenza kuyo nayiphi na ishishini enokuthi yenziwe kwiimeko ezincinci. Ewe, umntu akalahlekanga, kwaye wenza oonxibelelwano.
Kwaye ngoku malunga "Nxibelelwano". Eyathandwa kakhulu kubemi bethu yintanethi yoluntu. Baye baninzi abaninzi kwi-Intanethi. Abantu baqinisekisa ukuzaliswa kakuhle kweziza ngobunzima babo, ukubhalisa ngokufanayo kwiinkonzo ezininzi ezinjalo. Apha zikhona iingcingo zabo, kwaye, ngaphezu kokwazana okulula okanye ukululaya ngothando kwi-Intanethi kungaphela, kwaziwa nakumntwana wesikolo. Ngako oko, asiyi kubhala ngokucacileyo ngesihloko esicatshulwayo, siza kuthiwa nje ngenye yezinto ezikhoyo ezikhoyo ezikhoyo.
Unokuzama kwakhona inhlanhla yakho ukuba ube ngabahlobo abalungileyo, abafana nabantu abanomdla, okanye ukuhlangabezana nothando, kwimiboniso eyahlukeneyo, kwiimyuziyam, kwiikonkethi, kwiingqungquthela, ngokufutshane, kwiindawo apho abemi banokuzonwabisa. Ngamaxesha onke ezi ziindawo "eziphezulu" ezibaziyo, kodwa ngeli xesha, umxholo ocacileyo wale mi ganeko, ngokuhambelana neemfuno zamanje, unikeza umnxeba wexesha langoku.
Ukuqhubela phambili kwoluhlu, kukho abaqhelana nabo abanokwenzeka kuzo zonke iintlobo zokuqeqeshwa kwengqondo, ezithandwa kakhulu, ngokukodwa phakathi kokuthiwa "i-office plankton". Nangona kunjalo, kukufanelekile ukucinga ukuba ngubani oya kulaba qeqesho - ikakhulu abantu, kunye nezinye iingxaki. Yonke into incike kumntu, ngokuzimisela kwakhe ukungena kubudlelwane obusondeleyo nabantu abanomthwalo wengxaki yengqondo. Oku mhlawumbi enye yeyona ndlela inkulu kakhulu yokuthandana.
Ukwahluke kakhulu kwinqutyana yencoko yethu yiindidi ezahlukeneyo zoqeqesho. Unokufunda nantoni na naliphi inani, into ephambili kukuba ukhethe isihloko esifanelekileyo sokufunda, ngokuhambelana namathuba, iimfuno kunye nabo ofuna ukumelana nabo.
Unokuqwalasela okukhethwa kukho ukuthandana ngokugqithiseleyo, njengoko uhamba ngeentengiso kunye nokugxilwa kwamadoda. Inyaniso kubo ngokuqhelekileyo unako ukuhlangabezana nohloniphekileyo kwaye, yingozi kakhulu, kungekhona amadoda asekhaya ahloniphekileyo. Kodwa kukho izilwanyana ezaneleyo, into ephambili ayikujongwa nabo.
Enye yacetyiswa ukuba uqhelane nakwiindawo, kwizinja zokuhamba. Apha awukwazi ukuhlangabezana nekamva elizayo kumntu onjengeengqondo ezinjalo, kodwa nokudala ukulungeleka, inzuzo (kwisakhelo sovuyo lwe-canine) unxibelelwano noluntu.
Amajelo aseburhulumenteni anika negalelo ekuphuhliseni ubudlelwane babantu. Ziziphi iindwendwe eziphambili ezandwendwelwa ngabasetyhini. I-Cruises, i-Afrika, i-safari ... Yathembisa ulwandle olutsha, olwangaphambili olungabonakaliyo, iimvakalelo kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuthandana: kungaba ngabantu bethu, abahambahambayo-abavakatyeli, ngokuqinisekileyo, abanye abayichithekanga kunye nombala wendawo.
Zonke ezi zikhethi zingentla ziza kuba zingagqibekanga ngaphandle kokungeniswa njengamanamhlanje ngokuthandana nemidlalo embi kakhulu. Olu hlobo lonwabo luye lwafumana ukuthandwa, ngokukodwa phakathi kwabathengisi. Oku kuchazwa ngento yokuba abantu abanomdla wokunyanzela nokunyusa, ngokuncediswa kwezemidlalo, baqondisa ulwaphulo lwabo kwisiganeko esinokuthula. Ukuba nomntu oshishino ohloniphekileyo uphupha oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ininzi yabemi besifazane. Ngoko ke, amantombazana abathandekayo, amacandelo amancinci athatyathwa kwiimimandla yomoya ukuze afunde indlela yokuhla ngokukhawuleza kwiparachute kwisandla esinesandla esomeleleyo sokurhweba. Abaninzi banomdla malunga nokudubula, i-paintball, i-snowboarding, i-diving njalonjalo. Uluhlu lunokuthi lube lude kwaye lucebile, inzuzo yesimanje ivelise iifom ezininzi kunye neendlela zokuzonwabisa ezisebenzayo.
Akukho mfihlo esiphila kuyo kwiimeko zoxinzelelo oluqhubekayo. Oku kunokwenziwa kuwe ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ukuxinezeleka kuvuselela izixhobo ezifihlakeleyo zabantu. Ngaloo ndlela, imvelo ngokwayo ivula amathuba amaninzi kuthi, kuyimfuneko kuphela ukuba sifunde indlela yokuyisebenzisa ngokuchanekileyo.
Ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukuthetha ukuba iindlela zokuthandana zanamhlanje zithandana ngokugqithiseleyo, zinokuqwalaselwa phantse naluphi na ukuthandana, kuba siphila kwindawo enomdla kakhulu kunye nexesha elidlulileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo liphazamise indlela yokuphila. Kufuneka nje ukubonisa ubungqina obuninzi, ubulumko, ukubonwa, kwaye ke nayiphi na indawo, nganoma naliphi ixesha, ingaba yinto enomdla, ivelise uvuyo lwabantu kunye nolwazi olunxibelelwano nabantu abahlukeneyo.