Uxolo kangakanani ukuhlala nomyeni wakhe?

Naliphi na iphupha lomfazi lokuhlala nomyeni wakhe ngokuthula, ngothando nangokuvisisana, kodwa kungekhona wonke umntu ophumelelayo. Kutheni? Ewe, kuba abaninzi abafazi bahlala belibale okanye bafuni ukuwamkela nokuqonda ukuba umntu "wenziwa olunye uvavanyo." Amadoda ngokwemvelo kufuneka anqine, azimisele kwaye ahlasele.

Ngokuqhelekileyo banomtsalane ngumnqweno wokuzifeza ngokwezikhundla zobugcisa kunobomi bentsapho. Kusuka kule nto kubafazi abaninzi abayeni babo babonakala bezingqineli kwaye bexhala. Uxolo kangakanani ukuhlala nomyeni onjalo? Ewe, kulula kakhulu-musa ukubuza into engenakwenzeka. Kuxhomekeke kuwe, kuya kuba yintoni ubuhlobo kwintsapho yakho. Uhlobo lunikezele abafazi nazo zonke iimpawu ezibavumela ukuba bahambisane nendoda, nje kufuneka bafunde indlela yokuyisebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo.

Ukuba indoda yakho ingakhathazeki ukubonakalisa unyameko nokunyamekela, musa ukumphendula ngokufanayo, kodwa ibe yinto efudumalayo kwaye enothando kakhulu, yenzani konke ukwenzela ukuba kube mnandi kwaye kulungile ukuba kufuphi nawe. Ndikholelwe, uya kukuvuyela ukuba kunye nawe emva komva nasemva kokunyuka kwakhe, uya kukhwela ekhaya, kungekhona kubahlobo okanye ngokugqithiseleyo - kwelinye ibhinqa elinobubele nangobumnene kunawe. Yiba kunye naye othobekileyo, kwaye ke umphumo wesimo sengqondo esinjalo kuye asiyi kuthatha ixesha elide.

Abaqhelekileyo kubo banako ukuthetha bathetha, bavela emsebenzini bavanye umkakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amadoda aziva ehlazekile okanye engazi ukuba angamthanda njani. Akunakucinge nje ukuba uyayidinga kakhulu. Zama ukuzisa umyeni wakho ukubonakaliswa kwemibono. Mxelele ukuba emva kokumanga kwakhe, unesimo sengqondo esihle, okanye ukuba ingubo egxile kuwe yayigqoke ngokukhethekileyo kuye. Qiniseka, uya kuwuxabisa.

Ukuba ufuna ukuhlala uxolo kunye nomyeni wakho, zama ngoko kunzima ukukhwabanisa uze ufumane ubuhlobo. Ungalokothi umhlasele ngamabango ngokusuka kumnyango. Nangona unayo nayiphi na, zama ukubonisa ukungafuni kwakho ngenye indlela. Okokuqala, kuqala uthathe yonke intando yakho ibe yintonga, umanga umyeni wakho uze uyidle isidlo sakusihlwa.

Ngoku uqala ukuthetha ngemicimbi yasekhaya. Umzekelo, qalisa unyango lwakho ngegama elithi "cute" uze uzame ukwakha isivakalisi ukuze kuvezwe njengesicelo. Emva kokuhlalutya okunjalo, isivakalisi: "Ndidiniwe ukwenza yonke into! "Kufuneka uphendule:" Ukuncokola, kuhle ukuba ufikile ngoku, ezinye izinto azisebenzi kum. " Emva koko, nangona ukhathala, indoda iya kuzalisa isicelo sakho. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, awuphumelelanga ekusebenziseni indlela echazwe ngentla apha yokuphepha ingxabano, ubeka umngcipheko kwintlungu yomntu wakho, umsindo nentukuthelo.

Kukho namadoda anjalo avame ukuzama ukugqabhuka ngenxa yezizathu. Kodwa nangaloo ndoda ungaphila ngokuthula. Kukho iindlela ezaneleyo zokuqonda ingxaki. Yenza iqabane lakho liqonde oko uvakalelwa ngexesha lokuziphatha, uchaza yonke into kwifom echanekileyo. Thetha kuye, zama ukufumanisa izizathu zokuba neentloni. Ngexesha le ncoko, kungase kuvele ukuba iingxaki zomyeni wakhe zisemsebenzini, kwaye wawela "phantsi kwesandla esitshisa." Musa ukuphendula ngokumemeza. Khusela ilungelo lakho lobudlelwane bobuhlobo obufudumele kunye nomzekelo wakho omhle.

Zihlolisise wena kunye nempilo yakho. Ukuba umfazi uhlala ekhangeleka ngokukhawuleza-kamva okanye kamva ungatshintshela umfazi obalaseleyo, ongenamahloni ukuya kwikontoni okanye kwi-movie. Musa ukulibala ukuba kunye nomfazi omhle kwaye ulungele kakuhle ukuthetha nabantu bonke, kungekhona nje amadoda.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuphila ngokuthula nomyeni wakho akulula, kodwa wena ungumfazi oyingqondi, nonke unako.