Uphuhliso lwe-Intanethi lwenze iinkonzo zokuthandana ngokungaqhelekanga, kodwa unxibelelwano kwihlabathi elona nto linemiphetho emininzi. Okokuqala, kunzima ukuqonda ukuba umntu uthetha ngaye okanye akunjalo, yiyiphi iminqweno yakhe, imbono yakhe yobomi, umlingani, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo iinjongo zokuziqonda. Ngelishwa, inyaniso ihlala iphula umfanekiso owenziwe ngumbhalo, kwaye amantombazana aqala ukucinga ukuba bonke abantu baqamba amanga baze bakhohlise. Nangona kungenakwenzeka ukuba ugxininise kwinkonzo yokuthandana - ngobomi obuqhelekileyo abaninzi abantu banxiba iimaski kwaye bahlala beqhuba iinjongo ezingavumelekanga. Sagqiba ekubeni sikunike uluhlu lweminye imibuzo eya kuba luncedo kunoma yimuphi umntu owaziwayo - okwenene okanye oyinyani, kwaye uncedise ukuqonda ubunjani bokwenene bomntu, ukuthambekela kwakhe, ukudweba isimboli sengqondo. Ukwazi iimpendulo, unokwenza ukhetho ukuba uqhubeke uqhelana okanye cha.
1. Umbuzo wabahlobo.
Ayikho into ekhoyo ithi: "Ndixelele ukuba ngubani umhlobo wakho kwaye ndiya kukuxelela ukuba ungubani." U-Nenarokom ucele le ndoda ukuba ihlale yayazi umhlobo wakhe kangakanani. Ukuba unabo bahlobo bokwenene abaye baba ngabahlobo ukususela kwiintsuku zesikolo, ke lo mntu unokuthenjwa. Ukuba loo mntu akafuni ukuthetha ngabahlobo bakhe, mhlawumbi unento yokufihla. Umzekelo, into yokuba akanalo abahlobo nhlobo.
2. Umbuzo wamaphupha.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kungekhona wonke umntu oya kulungela ukwabelana ngamaphupha abo ngokufanelekileyo ngomhla wokuqala. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba uyayityhila yonke into eyimfihlo kuwe? Thetha naye kwesi sihloko. Cacisa zonke iinkcukacha zeengcamango zakhe kunye nezicwangciso zekamva. Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi amaphupha akhe aya kuhambelana nekhono lakho. Ewe, ukuba akayithethi, mhlawumbi andithembi?
3. Umbuzo wezemidlalo.
Bathi abadlali bebhola banamandla kakhulu kwaye banobungane, banokuhlala beziva bathemba kwaye bengakhathazeki nabo. Amafomu eentlobo ezifanayo zezemidlalo (umzekelo, ukubhukuda okanye ukuqhuba), njengomthetho, abantu abazimeleyo nabanezaneleyo. Ukuba umntu uphelele kakhulu kwimidlalo, mhlawumbi ungumcinga wangempela, kwaye yonke into esemhlabeni kuye yinto encinane. Yaye ukuba akayena umcinge kwaye akanomdla kwimidlalo, cinga ngohlobo luni lwe-IT kwaye kutheni kuyadingeka.
4. Umbuzo wokuzonwabisa.
Ukuba intombazana inqwenela ukuxhoma kwiiklabhu zefashoni, mhlawumbi, abayi kukwazi ukukunceda kumzuzwana onzima, kuba ngexesha elifanelekileyo, akayi kuba khona. Abafana abancinane abakhetha ikhompyutha, ngokuqinisekileyo banokukunika ingqwalasela engakumbi, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba bavumelane ukuya kwindawo ethile kunye. Kwaye ngokubanzi, abantu, banomdla kwimidlalo yekhompyutheni, bacinge ncinane malunga nosapho. Ngokufanelekileyo, ufuna igolide ithetha.
5. Ngaba unemikhwa emibi? Ngenye indlela: ukhetha luphi uhlobo lotywala? Ngaba udlala ibhola?
Abantu beNgcakazo, ngenxa yamabhayisikobho athandwayo, bangqongwe nge-halo yothando kunye neemfihlelo. Enyanisweni, inzondo yinto enzima yokulawula. Abantu abanjalo abanalo amava okwaneleyo okuphila, ngoko baleka kwi-roulette kunye noomatshini bendawo. Amafayili amaqela enxila, mhlawumbi, ayesaba ubunzima kwaye akhetha ukuwaphepha.
6. Ukuba unentetho eninzi kwaye uthembele kakade, cela umntu osemtsha umbuzo onqabileyo: Ngaba ukhetha ukulala ngesondo okanye kusasa?
Ukuba umntu akaze avume ukulala ngesondo, ke yena ungumntu okhululekile kwaye onomdla. Ukuba uthanda ukufunda lo busuku - uyisithandane, kakuhle, ukuba nayiphi na imini yosuku - ngaphambi kokuba ulalane kwaye ulungele naziphi na iimvavanyo.