Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantu baye bafunda ixesha elide ukufundisa nezilwanyana ezizithulu kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo. Yaye ukuba inja yommelwane inokuzisa i-slippers kwaye inike i-paw, awukwazi yini ukufundisa ngokuchanekileyo nokugcina ixesha lomyeni wakho?
Into ephambili kukufumana amava abaqeqeshi.
Amadoda kunye neenkwenkwezi.
Amadoda amaninzi afaniswa nama-cute pants, songeza enye into efanayo. Iimonki, njengamadoda, zihlala zihlala zingenasiphelo, zinenkani, zingenasiphelo. Ukuba unomntu wesintu odlalayo, ke iingxoxo ezibalulekileyo, izicelo kunye nezizathu ezinengqiqo zalo aziyi kusebenza.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Kulula! Yehla kwinqanaba layo, jonga ihlabathi ngamehlo akhe kwaye kuninzi kuya kucaca.
Amadoda adlala amakhadi, i-chess, imidlalo yekhompyutha kunye nebhola. Sebenzisa lobu buthathaka kumsebenzi wakho. Yonke into oyifunayo ukumbambisa ngomdlalo. Ukulungelelanisa ukhuphiswano, ulungele umnqweno wakhe wokuba ngowokuqala kwaye xa umxhwele uyamthintela ngokupheleleyo, umise umdlalo, uthi uya kuqhubeka kuphela emva kokuhlamba izitya, uya kunye nawe kwisitoreji, kunina, okanye uya kuqhuba ikhonkwane kwindonga. Le ndlela izakusebenza ngaphandle kokusilela kuphela xa uhlala ugcina izithembiso zakho, ungalibali ukuyikhuthaza.
Amadoda nendlovu.
Inkulu, ukuzola, i-phlegmatic kwaye yahlukana. Ngaba uyayibona indoda yakho kule nto? Kwaye umntu onjalo uyakwazi ukufunda ubuchule obuyidingayo. Umqathango kuphela: awukwazi ukukhawuleza. Ungazibali ngokuzimela kwakhe. Ukufundisa loo mlingane okanye umfana ukuba angaphathisi izinto, uya kuchitha ixesha elide, kodwa akayikho ithemba.
Ukuba ufuna ukuba akuncede ngokucoca ngokuqhelekileyo, qalisa kuqala. Susa amakhethini, fumana izinto ngaphandle kweekhabhinethi, ufumanise iindlela zokuhlamba yonke into kwisitya kwisitya. Ukubona oku, le ndoda iya kuba lula ukuyiqonda kwaye ivumelane noko ufuna ntoni kuye. Emva koko mnike imisebenzi elula, umzekelo, fumana into evela kwi-mezzanine okanye uhambe kwikhabhinethi enkulu. Kamva, xa ufumana nje umshanelo, uya kufunda ukunikela ngoncedo. Ungadluli - awudingi umntu ukuba aqale ukulungiswa kwakhona kwefenitshala phambi kwesikhopho.
Amadoda nezinja.
Akuyena wonke umntu onokuthelekiswa nale nhlobo, izilwanyana ezinengqiqo nezithembekileyo. Kodwa ukuba lakho lunjalo-luvuyo, njengoluhlaza okanye olunokwethenjelwa, njengoSt. Bernard, ngoko uya kuqonda zonke iingqungquthela zezi faniso.
Ukuze umntu wakho aziphathe kakuhle, udinga ingqalelo yakho, uthando lwakho nomonde.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, sele uqaphele - xa uqala ukugxeka umntu wakho, uhlala esithulu kuzo zonke iindleko, kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, uvele nje athande umsila aze afihle emsebenzini, kwigaraji, kunye nabahlobo. Zama ukunganaki ukuziphatha kwakhe kakubi, ngenxa yokungabikho kokuphendula kumntu onjalo-okubi ngaphezu kwesigwebo. Ukumkhuthaza kuyimfuneko nje, ngaphandle koko umntu akayi kubona umda phakathi kokubi nokulungileyo.
Amadoda neengonyama.
Ngaba ubona kwimikhwa yendoda yakho into efanayo neendlela zokumkani wenkomo? Mhlawumbi unamathela kwimbono yokuba umntu kufuneka abe nekratshi elipheleleyo ukuze azive egcwele yaye evuya. Akulungele ukumnciphisa umnqweno wokuba nesidumbu, kodwa kunokwenzeka.
Kufuneka ube nobulumko uze ungenzi njengenkokeli, kodwa ungabonakali ubuthathaka kuye ukuze ungabi lixhoba. Zama ukulingana nomntu-ingonyama, kuphela ke uya kukuthatha ngokukodwa.
Xa umcela into ethile, uthetha ngokusobala, unesibindi, ungabuzi, ungabuzi, kodwa ndixelele ukuba isicelo sakho okanye umnqweno kufuneka uzaliseke. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba uphakamise ilizwi lakho okanye uqale ukumbombola ngetyala elibi - uya kulahlwa.
Amadoda namahashe.
Amahhashi abonakala njengento enhle kakhulu, enomusa, eqhoshayo nezilwanyana ezinamandla. Bathanda inkululeko, kodwa bayayixabisa isimo sengqondo esihle. Abantu beli cwangciso babone kuphela abo bafazi abalawulwayo ukuba bangafuneki into ethile kwiitoni eziphezulu.
Ukuze udibanise umntu kwiintlanganiso ezidlulileyo, ukuhlanganisana ngokukhawuleza kunye nabahlobo, basebenzise othintekayo, ithoni yothando kunye nazo zonke iimpawu zakhe ezintle. Indoda enjalo iya kuxabisa ukuba uyakwazi ukuthandana nokukhathazeka nakwixesha lokucaphukisa. Ndikholelwe, akayi kuba nomnqweno wokunyathela kwi-rake efanayo, kuba uya kuyika ukulahlekelwa nguwe.
Kubonakala ukuba phakathi kwethu nezilwanyana kuninzi ngokufanayo kunokuba sicinga. I-Analogies inokubamba isethi esingapheliyo. Ngoko ke, kunokwenzeka kwaye kuyimfuneko ukusebenzisa amava kunye nezakhono zabaqeqeshi abaqeqeshiweyo, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, musa ukugqithisa intonga kwaye ukhumbule ukuba abantu bahluke kwizilwanyana.